Kungani Sithanda I-Post-Baby Bump kaKate Middleton

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Sijwayele ukubona omama abasha abadumile bemi beshukiwe futhi begqokile emabhikini abo nengane efakwe ngaphansi kwengalo eyodwa njengesikhwama sePrada nangaphansi kwesihloko esithi, "Ngilahlekelwe kanjani Isisindo Sengane Yami! Amakhilogremu angama-50 Ngenyanga eyodwa!" Ngakho nini Kate Middleton, abakwaDuchess baseCambridge kanye nomama omusha weNkosana uGeorge Alexander Louis, babonakale begqoke ingubo yakhe ye-polka eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka izandla zakhe zifakwe kahle ngaphansi kwesisu sakhe sangemva kokubeletha esasibonakala ngosuku olulandelayo ngemva kokubeletha-futhi ebukeka emuhle kakhulu-kungazelelwe wonke umuntu wayesekhuluma kakhulu. mayelana noKate nesisu sakhe kunendlalifa entsha yesihlalo sobukhosi saseBrithani.

Iqiniso liwukuthi, ukuba nengane kushintsha wonke umuntu wesifazane. Kakhulu. Akukhona ukuthi singazi ngalokho esikubona ku-TV nakomagazini njengombukiso ongapheli womama abayizibonelo ezinhle benza kubukeke kulula ukubeletha ingane isonto elilodwa bese uhamba i-catwalk noma ukhaphethi obomvu ngokulandelayo.

Ngikhumbula kahle ngimi kulayini ekhemisi ezinsukwini nje ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane yami yesihlanu futhi ngibuka isithombe sika UHeidi Klum ehambisa izinto zakhe ohlelweni lweVictoria's Secret nakuba ingane yakhe yayimdala kunamaviki ambalwa nje kuneyami. Wayegqoke izingubo zangaphansi ezithandekayo; Bengisagqoke ibhulukwe lephijama leflaneli lomyeni wami kanye nesikibha sePac-Man. Njengoba ngangiba nazo zonke izinsuku isonto lonke. Ngangifuna ukukhala.

Kodwa okungenani kwakungadingeki ngikhathazeke ngokuthi kukhona umuntu ozoshutha isithombe sami. UVictoria Beckham kubikwa ukuthi wacasha phakathi nenyanga edlule noma ngaphezulu yokukhulelwa kwakhe okwesine futhi wenqaba ukuvela waze wabuyela eziketini zakhe zepensela ukuze kungabi namathuba okuba upaparazi athwebule izithombe ezingathandeki. Omunye umama omusha we-celeb wasehlobo, UKim Kardashian, akakaze abonwe ngaphandle noma kafushane selokhu kwazalwa ingane yakhe encane ngenyanga edlule. Futhi ngubani ongamsola ngemuva kwendlela abezindaba abamkhipha ngayo ukuthola isisindo sakhe ngesikhathi ekhulelwe?

Okuyikho okwenza uMiddleton abe nesibindi. Ngokusho kukaLeslie Goldman, uchwepheshe wezithombe zomzimba nombhali we I-Locker Room Diaries, UMiddleton usethe kabusha ibha yabesifazane ababelethayo ezingeni elijwayelekile, elinempilo. Ngemva kokubeletha kwabesifazane, izisu zabo ngokuvamile zithatha amasonto, uma kungenjalo izinyanga, ukuchayeka njengoba isibeletho sifinyela, isikhumba sihlehla, imisele yesisindo samanzi, kanye namakhilogremu okukhulelwa ayachitheka. Kodwa nokho, uGoldman uyanezela, "Lona umama omusha wohlobo losaziwayo engikhumbula ngimbona neqhubu lakhe langemva komntwana osobala futhi ongaphandle ukuze kubonwe umhlaba wonke." Futhi uma kulungile ukuthi amaDuchess adlale ngokungahambi kahle, khona-ke kulungile ngathi sonke!

Ngakho-ke omama abasha, khuthazeka esibonelweni sikaMiddleton futhi ungazicindezeli ukuthi ubukeke sengathi awusanda kuba nengane. Ochwepheshe bathi isibeletho sizohlehla ngokwemvelo sibuyele kusayizi ojwayelekile "we-walnut" phakathi kwamasonto ayisithupha kuya kwayisishiyagalombili, awukho umsebenzi owengeziwe odingekayo-yingakho odokotela abaningi beluleka abesifazane ukuba balinde kuze kube ngemva kwalelo phuzu ukuze baphinde baqale ukuzivocavoca njalo. Kodwa-ke, u-Amanda Tress, umbhali webhulogi i-Fit Pregnancy and Parenting kanye nomqeqeshi oziqeqeshela ama-post-baby bods, uyanezela ukuthi wonke umuntu wesifazane nesimo singehlukile. "Xhumana nodokotela wakho ukuze uthole isikhathi esingokoqobo sokuqala ukuvivinya umzimba futhi ngemva kokukhulelwa."

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uqala nini, weluleka ngokuqala ngemisebenzi elula njengokuhamba. "Cabanga ngalokho ojwayele ukukwenza. Bese ukusika lokho phakathi," usho njalo. Nakisisa ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngakusasa ngaphambi kokwengeza ukuvivinya umzimba okwengeziwe, futhi uqaphe i-lochia yakho (ukukhishwa okunegazi okungahlala amasonto ambalwa ngemva kokuzalwa). Uma ukugeleza kwakho kusinda, khona-ke wenza okuningi kakhulu.

Futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, yiba mnene kuwe! Kukuthathe izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye ukufaka isisindo, futhi uthola okungenani isikhathi eside ukusisusa. Futhi, manje unezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ongazikhathaza ngazo-njengokuthi ungayishintsha kanjani inabukeni ngokushesha ngokwanele ukuze ungabambeki. UGoldman uyanezela, "Ngibona sengathi isisu sikaKate besiyinto ebucayi kakhulu emqondweni wakhe. Ubenengane enhle, enempilo-yilokho okufanele agxile kukho."

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