Lo wesifazane Ukhombise Ukuqina Kokuhlanya Ukubuyisa Amandla Akhe Ayisisekelo Ngemuva Kokulimala Komgogodla

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Ngo-2017, u-Sophie Butler wayengumfundi wakho ojwayelekile wasekolishi othanda zonke izinto zokuqina. Kwathi ngolunye usuku, wehla ebhalansi wawa ngenkathi ecoboshisa ama-70kg (cishe ama-155 lbs) ngomshini kaSmith ejimini, wamshiya ekhubazekile kusukela okhalweni kwehle. Odokotela bamtshele ukuthi ngeke esakwazi ukubuyisa amandla akhe - kodwa ngonyaka odlule ubuyile ejimini, ekhombisa ukuthi wonke umuntu unephutha.

Muva nje, u-Butler wabelane ngezithombe zakhe ezimbili ezibhekene-esisodwa emasontweni ayisithupha ngemuva kokulimala kwakhe nesinye sakhe namuhla-ukukhombisa ukuthi usekude kangakanani. "Esithombeni sokuqala ngangihlushwa yi-core bad real, ngangingenawo amandla kuwo," ebhala. "Bengingakwazi ngisho nokuhlala embhedeni. Bekuqhuma ngenxa yokukhubazeka okungithinte kakhulu emqondweni ngoba bengilungele futhi ngikhuthele ngaphambi kokulimala." (Kuhlobene: Ngiyi-Amputee futhi Ngingumqeqeshi-Kodwa Angizange Nginyathele Ejimini Ngaze Ngaba neminyaka engama-36)

Ukulahlekelwa ukuhamba namandla kwakunzima ku-Butler ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Wonke umuntu owayemzungezile wayelokhu emtshela ukuthi amukele iqiniso lakhe elisha. "Ngikhumbula ngikhuluma nomuntu mayelana nokuvuselelwa ngakho ngakho futhi wangitshela ukuthi ngamukele 'umzimba wami omusha' ngoba bekungeke kwenzeke ukubuyisa amazinga ami obuhle nobungqabavu," kubhala yena. Ngikhumbula ngicabanga, 'ngokusobala awungazi.' "(Okuhlobene: Lokhu Okuthunyelwe Kwesifazane Ngegciwane Kuyisikhumbuzo Esikhuthazayo Sokuthi Ungalokothi Uthathe Ukuhamba Kwakho Ngokunikezwa)

Kusukela ekuqaleni, odokotela batshela uButler ukuthi wayengeke aphinde ahambe; kodwa-ke, lokho akuzange kumvimbe ekwenzeni konke okusemandleni ukubuyisa ukuhamba namandla akhe. "Bengisebenza emnyangweni wami ngokungaguquguquki kusuka elesibili ngithole ukuvuselelwa," kubhala yena. "Uma upheqa eposini lami elidala uzongibona ngizilolongela ukufunda ukuhlala embhedeni, isibhakela esinama-sit-ups, futhi ngesonto eledlule, bengikwi-physio ngenza amapulangwe ngesandla esisodwa."

Namuhla, uButler ubuyise amandla akhe amaningi futhi uzizwa ekhululekile futhi ezethemba emzimbeni wakhe kunalokho abecabanga ukuthi angalandela ingozi yakhe. “Ngijabule kakhulu ngokuziqhenya ngamandla esengibuyile enhliziyweni yami,” kubhala yena. "Ngiyazi manje wonke umuntu uyathanda ukusunduza umyalezo othi 'akunandaba ukuthi ubukeka kanjani' ku-IG, okuyiQINISO, kodwa ngiyaqhosha kakhulu ngokuthi sengisesikhathini lapho ngithembele khona kakhulu umzimba nobuhle bami futhi. " (Okuhlobene: Ukulimala Kungifundise Kanjani Ukuthi Akukho Okungalungile Ngokugijima Ibanga Elifushane)

Esikhathini esizayo esibonakalayo, u-Butler uzobe esesihlalweni esinamasondo, kodwa kungcono ukholwe ukuthi uzimisele ngokuphinde ahambe, ngisho noma kumthatha iminyaka. “Ngiyawuthanda umzimba wami, ngiyaziqhenya ngomzimba wami, kodwa ngiziqhenya kakhulu ngoMSEBENZI owenziwayo ukufika lapha,” ubhale kanje. "Azikho izinqamuleli, ayikho i-photoshop, azikho izimfihlo, ukusebenza kanzima nokubekezela kuphela."

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