Lo wesifazane Uxoshwe Echibini Ngenxa yokuthi Umzimba Wakhe 'Wawungalungile'

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Ngenkathi senze ukweqa ngendlela efanele uma kukhulunywa ngokulungela komzimba nokuzamukela, izindaba ezinjengoTori Jenkins zikwenza ubone ukuthi kusamele sihambe ibanga elingakanani. Le ntokazi eneminyaka engu-20 ubudala yaseTennessee iye echibini langakubo ngempelasonto yacelwa ngabacebisi ababili ngokuqasha isudi eyodwa "engafanele". (Isithombe ngezansi.)

Ethukutheliswe yimicimbi ezolandela, isoka likaJenkins uTyler Newman waya kuFacebook ukuveza ukuthi uJenkins wanikezwa izindlela ezintathu: ukushintsha, ukufihla, noma ukushiya. “Namuhla ingoduso yami ibibhekene nokushintsha isudi yokugeza, igqoke izikhindi, noma ishiye idamu ebesikhokha u-$300 ukuyinakekela,” ebhala. "UTori ubesolwa ngokugqoka i-'thong bathing suit 'futhi watshela ukuthi kunezikhalazo ngendlela abegqoke ngayo." (Kuhlobene: Ngemva kokuba Umzimba Unamahloni Ngokugqoka Amabhulukwe E-Yoga, Umama Ufunda Isifundo Sokuzethemba)

Ngenkathi imithetho esechibini lefulethi ithi "izingubo ezifanele kufanele zigqokwe ngaso sonke isikhathi," ukubhukuda kukaJenkins (ngokwanoma iliphi izinga) kubonakala kufanelekile. Bheka:

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"Utshelwe ngumsebenzi oqashisayo ukuthi umzimba wakhe, ngoba wakhiwe [i-curvier] kunezinye, 'awufaneleki kakhulu' ukuthi izingane zibe khona," kusho uNewman eposini lakhe. Futhi akupheleli lapho: Kubikwa ukuthi uJenkins utshelwe nokuthi ubhekele indlela amadoda angasabela ngayo ohlotsheni lomzimba wakhe. (Okuhlobene: Ucwaningo Luthola Ukuhlazeka Ngomzimba Kuholela Engcupheni Ephakeme Yokufa)

"Baningi abafana abasakhula kule ndawo, futhi awudingi ukubathokozisa," kusho umeluleki etshela uJenkins.

"Ngicabanga ukuthi ungowesifazane omuhle kunabo bonke emhlabeni, kodwa futhi ngiyamhlonipha," kuqhuba uNewman esikhundleni sakhe. "Angisoze ngamenza yena noma omunye wesifazane azizwe emncane kunalokho amfanele ngenxa yengubo yakhe noma ukubukeka kwakhe."

Kodwa mhlawumbe iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu elavezwa nguNewman ukuthi ingoduso yakhe "yatshelwa ukuthi ayibalulekile kangako kunokuthi amadoda azizwa eseduze kwakhe." Futhi yilokho okuthinte kakhulu kubantu abangu-33,000 abathandile okuthunyelwe kuze kube manje. "Gqoka. Yini. Wena. Uyathanda. Abesifazane bakhathazeka ngokuziphatha kwamadodana akho esikhundleni sokuhlazisa abanye besifazane," kubhala umuntu oyedwa. "Akunankinga ngesudi yakho yokugeza. Ubukeka kahle," kusho omunye.

UJenkins usebonge wonke umuntu ngokumeseka kwakhe encwadini yakhe ye-Facebook, kodwa wathi uzizwa “enamahloni ngempela” ngaye kusukela ngaleso sikhathi.

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“IPHUZU LONKE lale post wukuthi akekho umuntu wesilisa noma wesifazane onelungelo lokungenza ngizizwe ngingakhululekile esikhumbeni sami,” kubhala yena. "Alikho ilungelo lokungiphoyisa noma omunye umuntu." Shumayela.

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