Izinto Ezingu-20 Zokuyeka Ukukhathazeka Ngokuthi (Futhi Kanjani)
-Delile
- Imali
- Ukuphila Komphakathi
- Ukusebenza kanye Nenethiwekhi
- Ubudlelwano Bothando
- Ukupheka Nokudla
- Izingozi Nezinhlekelele
- Ezokuthutha
- Buyekeza kwe-
Sonke sinezinto ezihlekisayo nezinto eziyinqaba ezisithumela ku-tailpin yokukhathazeka. Kepha ungabe usadidizela. Ngenkathi ukukhathazeka kungaba lusizo kwezinye izimo, ukwesaba okuthile akulifanele ikhanda. Sinezinto ezingama-20 okufanele siyeke ukuzikhathaza ngazo njengamanje, nokuthi singawagcina kanjani engavikelekile.
Imali
Ukushaya isheke:
Ukucindezeleka kwezezimali kungaba yinto ekhathaza kakhulu laphaya, futhi ukushaya isheke akusikho ukuphakama kwesibopho sezimali. Kodwa kulabo ababa nomjuluko obandayo njalo uma bekhipha isheke, khumbula ukuthi inhlawulo yokubhampa isheke ngokuvamile ayinkulu—cishe amaRandi angu-30 ngokwesilinganiso. Ukuze uvimbele inkinga, buza ibhange mayelana nokuvikelwa kwe-overdraft, futhi ucabange ukushintsha amabhange uma elakho lingakunikezi.
Indida "yemali kuphela": Iningi lethu belikhona: Isheke liyafika nokuthi ikhefi elincane ebelithandeka ngaphambili liphenduka iphupho-imali kuphela ?! Okokuqala, qonda uweta noma u-cashier mhlawumbe ubona lokhu ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngakho-ke asikho isidingo sokwethuka. Cela ukuboleka ukheshi kumngane wakho noma usuku bese nihamba ndawonye ngokushesha ku-ATM ukuze nibabuyisele. Uma uwedwa, cela uweta i-ATM eseduze bese uqonda khona; izindawo ezingenapulasitiki ngokuvamile zithembeke kakhulu. Ngokuzayo, skena imenyu ukuze uthole isexwayiso semali kuphela ngaphambi koku-oda noma uhlole isayithi lokubuyekeza elifana ne-Yelp, evamise ukuveza ukuthi amakhadi ayamukelwa yini.
Ukukhokha irenti sekwephuzile: Ukukhokha izikweletu kungaba umthombo omkhulu wokukhathazeka, ikakhulukazi uma kuhileleke imali ekhokhwa sekwephuzile. Kepha asikho isidingo sokugcizelela kakhulu ngokukhohlwa ukushiya isheke lerenti ngaphambi kokuphuma edolobheni. Okokuqala, uma usuku olufanele luyimpelasonto noma iholide, isheke ngokuvamile alibhekwa njengelidlulile okwamanje. Futhi, asikho isijeziso sangempela sokuhambisa intela sekwephuzile isikhashana (ubude besikhathi ngqo buxhomeke kwimigomo yokuqashisa) ngemuva kosuku olubekiwe. Phinda ufunde isivumelwano sokuqashisa ukuze uthole imininingwane mayelana nesikhathi somusa kanye nedethi yokukhokha sekwephuzile.
Ukuphila Komphakathi
I-pal ine-booger ihlanganyela:
Labo bethu abanamahloni kalula mancane amathuba okuthi batshele abanye ukuthi banomaki obonisa, ukudla emazinyweni abo, noma ngisho, yebo, i-booger ilenga emakhaleni abo. Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi abantu abaningi bazokhululeka-babe namahloni okwesikhashana, futhi, kodwa ikakhulukazi bakhululeke-ukwaziswa. Futhi ngokuzayo singathembela kulelo pal ukuthi lizoba patroger ye-booger ngathi.
Ukuqamba amanga amhlophe: Umthetho ongcono kakhulu esingawuthola ngamanga amhlophe yilo: Alungile uma uvikela abanye, kepha ukungathembeki okusobala lapho bevikela umqambimanga (isb. "Hhayi bo! Inja kumele ngabe idilize leyo vazi" ngeke indize). Umgomo wokutshela umucu kufanele ukhombise uzwelo, kepha abaningi bethu basengazizwa benesibindi lapho bebamba okuthile okuhle abangakusho ngomntwana omubi noma ngaphansi kokudla okumnandi. Esikhundleni sokuqamba amanga konke, yisho into eyodwa oyithandayo ("Hawu, amehlo endodana yakho anombala omuhle kangaka!"). Ubunzima bugwenyiwe.
Ukhohlwa ukubiza umngani emuva: Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakuyi-slip-up yangempela noma "ingozi," asikho isidingo sokuzizwa njenge-jerk. Linda kuze kube yilapho empeleni kunesikhathi sokuxoxa (hhayi phakathi kweminye imisebenzi, ngenkathi ubuka i-TV, noma ngenye indlela unaka kuphela ingxenye); bese ushayela emuva. Xolisa ngokushesha ngephutha bese udlulela ezintweni ezibaluleke kakhulu, njengokuthi kwenzekani empilweni yakhe-phela, izingxoxo ezizwakalayo zibalulekile kuzo zombili izinhlangothi.
Ukusebenza kanye Nenethiwekhi
Ukubambezeleka kwinhlolokhono:
Uma kungenzeka, xwayisa ozobuza ngokushesha uma ubona ukuthi uzophuza ukufika. Lapho nje inhlolokhono isiqalile, xolisa bese unikeza incazelo emfushane. (Musa ukukusola komunye umuntu, ngoba abaqashi abaningi ngeke bafune ukuqasha umuntu othanda ukusola abanye.) Bese uqhubeka. Ukuhlala kuso ngokuzwakalayo noma ezinhlokweni zethu kungalimaza umhlangano kuphela.
Umhlangano onzima nomphathi: Leso sicelo sokukhushulelwa imali siphuma kakhulu njengokungingiza futhi kungazelelwe siqaphela ukuthi sigqoke amaphijama e-footie. (Phew, lokhu nje kuyiphupho elibi.) Lungiselela umhlangano omkhulu ngokubhala phansi phansi lokho okudinga ukushiwo. Ungawufundi njengombhalo, kodwa uhlole kusengaphambili kuze kube yilapho amaphuzu ayinhloko enamathela. Bese ukhumbula, yikuphi okubi kakhulu okungenzeka? Umphathi uzothi cha kulokhu kukhushulwa imali, kepha mhlawumbe yeka ukusinikeza ibhuthi.
Ayiphenduli i-imeyili: Ugh, i-imeyili ibihleli ebhokisini lemilayezo engenayo amasonto amabili (ikuqinise, iphazamise i-YouTube!) Manje awusazi nokuthi uzophendula nhlobo. Kwenze! Bhala ukuthi ishelele phakathi kwemifantu bese ulungisa udaba olukhona. Ngokuzayo, zama ukuphendula yonke i-imeyili phakathi namahora angu-24 uma nje uthi "Ngizokwazi ukufika kulokhu ngedethi engu-__." Futhi khumbula, cishe sonke senze lokhu.
Ubudlelwano Bothando
Ukuba mubi embhedeni:
Abesilisa bathi okuwukuphela kwendlela yokuba mubi embhedeni ukungangeni kukho-okuyinto enamathuba amaningi lapho ukhathazeka ngokuba mubi embhedeni. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili bomlingani wakho, indlela engcono kakhulu yokuqinisekisa ucansi oluhle iwukubheka njalo futhi ucele impendulo. Kepha khumbula, okuningi kungena "ocansini oluhle" kwabesifazane, njengemicabango yabo nemizwa yabo ngobudlelwano, ngakho-ke izinguquko ezingaphandle kwekamelo nazo zingenza umehluko, futhi.
Ukungazwani nabasekhweni: Cishe abesifazane abangamaphesenti angama-60 nabesilisa abangamaphesenti ayi-15 bathi banobudlelwano obunzima nabasekhweni, ngakho-ke ungakhathazeki ngokuba yedwa. Kodwa ukuze ugweme ubunzima, shintsha okulindelwe - abesifazane abaningi balindele ukuthandwa ngaphandle kwemibandela futhi bamukelwe njengendodakazi kuyilapho uninazala ehlela ukuphathwa ngegunya uma kuziwa enganeni yakhe. Vele wamukele ukuthi umshado ngeke wenze wonke umuntu azwane.
Ukupheka Nokudla
Ukudla i-dessert yokuzitika:
Lelo khekhe lalixokozela kamnandi. Asikho isidingo sokuzishaya ngakho. Ukugxila ekudleni ukudla "okubi" kwenza ukudla okunempilo ngokuzayo kube nzima, kungabi lula.
Lolo bisi luphelelwe yisikhathi izolo: Izinsuku zokuphelelwa yisikhathi azihlali ziligama lokugcina kokudla okusha, kanti ezinye kungenzeka zingasho nokuthi sicabanga ukuthi zisho ukuthini. Okunye ukudla kuhlala isikhathi eside, kanti okunye (njengenyama) kungenzeka kungaphili ekhaya kuze kufike usuku lokuthengisa lwesitolo. Ukubukeka, iphunga nokunambitha imvamisa kuyizinkombandlela ezinhle.
Ukugwinya ushungamu: Isikhathi sokulala le nganekwane. Izinsini ngeke zihlale esiswini sakho iminyaka ilandelana. Ezinganeni kungase kubangele ukuvaleka kwamathumbu, kodwa kungathatha ngokuphawulekayo ucezu olulodwa.
Ukungatholi amaprotheni anele: Impela, amaprotheni abalulekile. Kepha abantu abaningi akudingeki bakhathazeke ngokungadli ngokwanele. Kulula ukufinyelela isabelo sansuku zonke esinconyiwe (cishe amagremu angama-50 kubantu abadala) ngezinsizakalo ezimbalwa zezinhlamvu, ubisi, kanye / noma inyama.
Izingozi Nezinhlekelele
Ukuwisa ifoni endlini yangasese:
Ayikho into efana nokuvikela kweqiniso lapha, ngakho-ke gxila ekulungiseleleni. Ngokushesha ayikhiphe ethoyilethi. Uma kungenzeka, khipha ngokushesha ibhethri ngaphandle kokumisa ukucisha (uma kungenjalo, cisha ngokushesha). Uma kukhona okunye ngaphandle kwamanzi okuhilelekile, hlambulula ifoni ngamanzi ahlanzekile. Hlukanisa ifoni ngangokunokwenzeka ngaphambi kokuyibeka endaweni ethile ukuze yome izinsuku ezintathu, futhi ukumboza ngerayisi kungasiza ukucisha umswakama-yebo, ngokungathi sína. Vele, kuhlala kunamacala angavimbeli manzi ukuvimbela le nhlekelele kwasekuqaleni.
Ukulahlekelwa isikhwama semali: Nakuba kungenangqondo, ukulahlekelwa isikhwama semali akukona ukuphela komhlaba. Kulezi zinsuku cishe yonke into esesikhwameni iyashintshwa (uma kungenjalo, yikhiphe kuleso sikhwama manje - okuhlanganisa nekhadi lezokuphepha komphakathi). Uma usesidlangalaleni, vumela imizuzu eyi-15 ukubuyisa izinyathelo ngokuthula futhi useshe isikhwama semali (ekhaya, vumela ihora). Bese uqala ukukhansela amakhadi esikweletu. Yenza uhlu lwezinombolo ze-akhawunti nezinombolo zocingo ezihambisanayo ukuze uzigcine uphephile ekhaya, kanye nemininingwane yokuxhumana ye-DMV.
Ezokuthutha
Ukuphuthelwa ushintsho lukawoyela:
Amafutha enjini yesimanje ngokuvamile awadingi ukushintshwa njalo ngamamayela ayi-3,000 noma izinyanga ezi-3 njengoba besihlale sitshelwa. Okokuqala, hlola imanuwali yemoto, engancoma izinguquko ezivamile. Lapho-ke, uma imoto inohlelo lokuqapha uwoyela, singathembela kulokho ngokusitshela uma ushintsho lukawoyela ludingeka ngempela. Kunjalo, kukhona indlela yakudala, futhi: Vele uhlole uwoyela.
Ithuba lokuwela kujantshi wesitimela ongaphansi komhlaba / isitimela: Ucwaningo oluthile lwathola ukuthi eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-13, kwakukhona isilinganiso sabantu abangama-25 ababulawa noma abafa ngengozi esitimeleni esingaphansi komhlaba e-NYC. Lokho kuphuma ohambweni olungaba yizigidi eziyizinkulungwane eziyi-1.5 (ku-MTA ye-NYC kuphela) ngonyaka. Impela, yima kude namathrekhi, kepha asikho isidingo sokwesaba impilo yakho.
Kusetshenziswa i-elekthronikhi ngesikhathi sokusuka nokufika: Yebo, kungasikhipha endizeni noma-kungenzeka ukuthi sigqoke phansi ngumuntu osebenza endizeni, kepha amathuba okukhohlwa ukucisha ama-Kindles ethu awagcinanga ngokuthumela indiza iye endaweni engafanele. I-FAA ayinabo ubufakazi bokuthi ama-electronics angaphazamisa ukuzulazula kwendiza, kodwa kusewumthetho. Ukuthatha: Cisha phansi uma utshelwa, kepha uma okuthile kuqhubeka ngephutha, asikho isidingo sokwethuka.
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