Amaqiniso ama-5 Ngocansi Obhishi
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Uyashisa, ugqoke izingubo ezincane kakhulu, futhi unamanzi angapheli phambi kwakho wokuhlanza ngokushesha. Noma kunjalo, ngenxa yokuthi ukwenza isenzo ogwini kubonakala kukhanga akusho ukuthi kungumbono omuhle ukukunika ithuba. Lapha, izinto ezinhlanu okufanele uzazi ngocansi ogwini abangakubonisi kumamuvi.
1. Ungaboshwa. Ukuvezwa okungafanele akuyona ihlaya. Ngenkathi imithetho ihlukahluka kuye ngesifundazwe, cishe yonke indawo inezinhlobo ezithile zomthetho ezincwadini ezingakufaka enkingeni-bese igama lakho lise-blotter yamaphoyisa endawo. Akuyona into ngqo oyifunayo ukuthi umqashi wakusasa noma isoka lithole ngesikhathi sosesho lwe-Google.
2. Kuzohlupha izintokazi zakho-hhayi ngendlela enhle. Ngisho namabhishi esihlabathi abushelelezi angadala ukushisa uma uzungeza kuwo-ikakhulukazi uma usujulukile kakade. "I-Chafing ingabangela ukuvuvukala, ukuvuvukala, ukuvutha, ukubomvu, nokuqubuka," kuchaza uMelissa Wolf, M.D., umbhali wencwadi. Ingabe Unesibeletho Esinethinja? Izinto ezingama-69 Udokotela Wakho wezifo zabesifazane afisa ukuthi wazi.
3. Kungakhuphula ingozi yakho yokutheleleka. “Imihuzuko yesihlabathi ezungeze isitho sangasese ingandisa amathuba okuba sengozini yokuthola izifo ezihlanganisa i-chlamydia, i-herpes, ne-HIV,” kuxwayisa uWolf. Akugcini lapho, kepha inkinga yokungqubuzana nayo ingadala umonakalo omkhulu kumakhondomu.
4. Umuntu wakho ngeke abe yedwa okhangwa ngezansi kwebhande. Izimpukane zesihlabathi, amazeze, nezinye izihlukumezi zizoba nokufinyelela okuseduze ngokuzumayo ezingxenyeni zakho ezizwela kakhulu, kukhumbuza Wolf. Ukuluma endaweni yakho ye-vulva-noma epipini lakhe-akukhululekile neze, futhi kungase kutheleleke ngezinsuku ezizayo ngenxa yesimo sezulu esishisayo, esivalekile esidalwa ama-undies akho.
5. Emanzi futhi endle? Akunjalo Empeleni. Ucabanga ukuthi ungadlula kulawa ma-downsides ngokuya olwandle? Hhayi impela. Nakuba kungase kubonakale sengathi ulwandle ludala indawo eshelelayo, akunjalo. Ngokuxakile, amanzi angaba nomthelela ekomeni kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, okungeke kwenze ucansi luzwakale lumangalisa.