Izindawo Ezine-Erogenous Zabesilisa Okufanele *Uzivikele* Uzikhuthaze Ngesikhathi Socansi
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- I-Erogenous Zone Yabesilisa #1: I-F-Spot
- I-Erogenous Zone Yabesilisa #2: Izinyawo Zezinyawo
- Indawo Erogenous Yabesilisa # 3: IP-Spot
- I-Erogenous Zone Yabesilisa #4: Isithupha
- Indawo Erogenous Yabesilisa # 5: Gluteal Fold
- I-Erogenous Zone Yabesilisa #6: I-Sacrum
- I-Erogenous Zone Yabesilisa #7: Izingono
- Indawo Erogenous Yabesilisa # 8: I-Scrotal Raphe
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Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi abantu abanemizimba yabesifazane banamaphuzu athile obumnandi emzimbeni wabo futhi ngethemba, wena nebheyi lakho lokulala niyazi ukuthi ngingakuthinta kuphi uvuthondaba lwezinzwane. Kodwa-ke ungamangala ukwazi ukuthi umlingani wakho wesilisa naye unezindawo ezinobungozi lapho - lapho zivuselelwa - zingathatha ama-orgasms abo nempilo yakho yezocansi ezingeni elilandelayo.
"I-Orgasm iwukukhipha ukucindezeleka ngokocansi, futhi ukungezwani kudaleka ngokuthinta kancane kancane nokushintshashintsha kanye nengcindezi ezintweni abazithandayo," kusho uClaire Cavanah, umsunguli we-Babeland, uchungechunge lukazwelonke lwezitolo zocansi eziphethwe abesifazane, kanye nombhali we I-Moregasm: Umhlahlandlela we-Babeland Wokuphephula Ingqondo Ucansi Nezinto Zamathoyizi Zocansi 101. "Ukukhotha nokuluma ngomlomo wakho, bese ufaka ukushisa noma imizwa ebandayo ngokumunca i-ice cube noma ukuphuza itiye elishisayo kuzobaqhuba kabi." (Related: Izinto Ezi-4 Ezilula Ozidingayo Ngocansi Olumangalisayo)
Landela lo mhlahlandlela osekelwe uchwepheshe ezindaweni ezibalulekile ze-erogenous zabesilisa bese usebenzisa ukufunda kwakho okusha ekusebenziseni kahle i-IRL.
I-Erogenous Zone Yabesilisa #1: I-F-Spot
Ungayithola kanjani:I-frenulum yindawo lapho i-glans ihlangana khona ne-shaft engaphansi kwepipi ngezansi kwekhanda, futhi ukugxila kweziphetho zezinzwa lapha kwesinye isikhathi kuqhathaniswa nokulingana kowesifazane ne-clitoris. (Okuhlobene: Ongazi Ngocansi
Okufanele ngikwenze: "Uma wenza ucansi lomlomo, vumela ulimi lwakho lushelele ngaleyo ndawo," kusho uCavanah. "Ngezandla zakho, yiphulule ngesithupha ngenkathi uhambisa iminwe yakho kushaft." Ukuze wakhe kancane kancane ukuvusa inkanuko, buyela emuva naphambili phakathi kokuvuselela indawo yakhe engu-F kanye nesisekelo esingazweli kangako somthondo.
I-Erogenous Zone Yabesilisa #2: Izinyawo Zezinyawo
Ungayithola kanjani:"Amadoda anokuqina okuphezulu kwezinzwa ematheni ezinyawo kunabesifazane," kusho uMark Michaels, coauthor we-Partners in Passion: A Guide to Great Sex, Emotional Intimacy, and Long-Term Love. "Kunephuzu le-acupressure cishe ingxenye eyodwa kwezintathu yendlela eya phansi kusukela ozwaneni lwesithathu, khona kanye phambi kwe-arch phakathi nendawo yonyawo." Ukucindezela kuleli phuzu, igama lesidlaliso "intwasahlobo ebhuza," kungakhuphula ukugeleza kwegazi emzimbeni wonke, kutholakale i-S.O yakho. konke kuyashisa futhi kuyaphazamiseka. (Ufuna ukuzijabulisa? Qala ngokungena kulezi zindawo zesifazane ukuze uthole injabulo yomzimba wonke.)
Okufanele ngikwenze: Qala i-foreplay yakho ngokubanikeza ukubhucungwa izinyawo: Lungisa ithawula elifudumele bese ubeka izinyawo zakho phezu komcamelo ethangeni lakho. Sebenzisa ithawula elifudumele ukuze usule izinyawo zabo futhi uzifudumeze, bese ugxila kule ndawo ye-erogenous wesilisa ngokuthatha isithupha sakho futhi usihlikihle kahle kule ndawo njengenguquko eya ohlotsheni oluvusa inkanuko.
Indawo Erogenous Yabesilisa # 3: IP-Spot
Ungayithola kanjani: Indlala yesilisa, etholakala cishe izingxenye ezintathu kwezine zobude bomunwe ngaphakathi kwedidi futhi izwakale njengonozi ibheke phansi epipini, iyindawo eshisayo yeziphetho zemizwa - futhi ingesinye sezindawo ezinamandla kakhulu zabesilisa. "Kufana ne-G-spot yowesifazane, futhi ukuphulula kahle le ndawo kungabanikeza i-orgasm enamandla," kusho uMichaels.. (Okuhlobene: Ngazama Inselelo Yezocansi Yezinsuku ezingama-30 Ukuvuselela Impilo Yobulili Emnandi Yomshado Wami)
Okufanele ngikwenze: Ukubheja kwakho okuhle kakhulu ukukhuluma nomlingani wakho ngaphandle kwekamelo lokulala ngaphambi kokuthi uzame ukufaka umunwe endunu yabo ukuze bangatholi isimanga esingafuneki (yebo, udinga imvume!). Zama ukukuletha ngesikhathi sedina lothando ngokuthi uyathanda ukwenza uthando nabo futhi ufuna ukuzama kakhulu. Ungase uthi uzwile ukuvuselela i-prostate yabo kungabangela i-orgasm ejulile (ngemuva kwakho konke kuyinto enye yezindawo ezibalulekile ze-erogenous zabesilisa) futhi ubone ukuthi bazobe bephansi yini ukuyizama kamuva. (Okuningi lapha: Ungaba kanjani ne-Anal Orgasm)
Uma umlingani wakho engakhululekile uma usebenzisa iminwe yakho ukungena ngobumnene endaweni, kunezinye izindlela zokuvuselela i-prostate yabo. Enye indlela yokwenza lokhu ukunikeza uthando ku-perineum yabo, noma umucu wesikhumba obushelelezi phakathi kwamasende nedidi. Indlala yesibeletho itholakala ngaphakathi phakathi kwesisekelo sowesilisa kanye nendunu ethinta kakhulu i-S.O yakho. ngaphandle kwaleyo ndawo kungashukumisa indlala ngaphandle. "Mlalise ngomhlane amadolo egobile nemilenze isakazeke ngaphandle, bese usebenzisa isibhakela sakho ukufaka ingcindezi kuleyo ndawo ngokunyakaza okufana nokudlidliza," kusho uMichaels. (Okuhlobene: Ukufana Okumangazayo Kwe-Anatomical Phakathi Kwe-Clits ne-Penises)
I-Erogenous Zone Yabesilisa #4: Isithupha
Ungayithola kanjani: Unayo lena.
Okufanele ngikwenze: Abantu abaningi bazimisele kakhulu ukugxila ezithweni zangasese ngesikhathi socansi. "Uma wandisa amandla akhe okuba nokuhlangenwe nakho okuvusa inkanuko kuwo wonke umzimba wakhe, ungamvulela lonke izwe elingenzeka," kuchaza uMichaels. Isithupha empeleni siyindawo e-sexy yamadoda amaningi. "Ukuncela isithupha sendoda kuvusa ukuncela kokunye, futhi kungayisiza ukuthi ixhumane nengqondo nomzimba wayo ngesikhathi sokwenza uthando. Qala ukudlala kuqala ngokubuka emehlweni akhe njengoba uqabula izandla zayo, bese uncela isithupha sayo njengesithembiso salokho ukuza,” kuphakamisa uMichaels. (Izithupha akuzona zodwa indawo ye-erogenous yabesilisa edinga isenzo esithile somlomo — ukucisha iso, ukuqhweba, ukuqhweba. Hlola lawa macebiso asekelwe uchwepheshe okuthi unikezwa kanjaniokuhle kakhulu ucansi olwenziwa ngomlomo.)
Indawo Erogenous Yabesilisa # 5: Gluteal Fold
Ungayithola kanjani: I-crease lapho phezulu kwethanga labo ihlangana khona nesinqe kuyiphuzu lokushisekela umlilo. "Indawo ebucayi futhi kungaba yisizathu esenza abanye abantu bathande ukushaywa," kusho uMichaels.
Okufanele ngikwenze: Kalula kuwo kancane. "Sebenzisa isandla sakho ukumphulula, ugijimise izinzipho endaweni, bese ushaya ngempama ethambile," kusho uCavanah. Noma, lapho belele ngesisu, zama ukuqabula umzila ongemuva kwabo, ngaphezu kwezinqe, bese ubamba ngobumnene ngalesi sigaxa bese usiphephetha ngolimi lwakho ngaphambi kokudlulela emathangeni angaphakathi.
I-Erogenous Zone Yabesilisa #6: I-Sacrum
Ungayithola kanjani:I-sacrum iyithambo elingunxantathu elitholakala phansi komgogodla phakathi kwezinqulu (cabanga: ezincane zomhlane). Kunemithambo ku-sacrum exhunywe ezithweni zangasese, ngakho-ke ukuvuselela lezi zinzwa kungathumela imizwa ezingxenyeni zazo ezisezansi-lapho. Eqinisweni, ezinye izifundo zibonisa ukuthi ukuvuselelwa kukagesi kwalezi zinzwa kungadala i-orgasm.
Okufanele ngikwenze: Cela umlingani wakho alale ngesisu bese umbhucunga ngokwenza umnyakazo olula, we-karate-chop eduze kwe-sacrum yakhe. "Ukwenza lokhu akugcini nje ngokuvuselela lezo zinzwa ze-sacral, kodwa futhi kubangela nohlelo lwe-parasympathetic nervous oluyisihluthulelo sokuphumula, ukuyeka, nokuba ne-orgasm," kuchaza uMichaels. (Okuhlobene: Ungawathola Kanjani Ama-Orgasms Amaningi Ngezinyathelo Eziyisi-7)
I-Erogenous Zone Yabesilisa #7: Izingono
Ungayithola kanjani: Futhi, uyazi ukuthi ungazitholaphi lezi.
Okufanele ngikwenze: "Uma ukunye nomuntu okujabulelayo lokhu, qala ngokuziphulula uzungeze i-areola bese uthambisa ingono ngeminwe yakho," kusho uCavanah. "Khotha uzungeze bese uyayincamela, ukwandisa ingcindezi bese uyaluma kancane. Izingono nazo zingasontwa bese zidonswa zibe nethonya elikhulu, nazo." Ubuye futhi asikisele ukuzama izibopho zezingono lapho zivulwe ngempela. Izogcina ukugeleza kwegazi endaweni, kukhulise ukuzwela futhi kugcine kunakwa. Noma zama ukumunca i-ice cube bese umunca izingono zabo. “Ukufinyela kwezingono zakhe ngenxa yamakhaza kungakhulisa imizwa,” kusho uMichaels. (Futhi, yebo, kungenzeka ngokuphelele ukuba ne-orgasm yengono.)
Indawo Erogenous Yabesilisa # 8: I-Scrotal Raphe
Ungayithola kanjani: Kulula ukunikeza umthondo wabo uthando, kodwa ungawashiyi amabhola ngaphandle emakhazeni. Isaka le-scrotal yisikhumba esivulekile esizungeze amasende futhi yilokho okuzizwa kukuhle ukukukhuthaza. "Umugqa ogijima maphakathi njengesithungo yi-raphe," kusho uCavanah, futhi kuyindawo yesilisa erogenous ofuna ukuyinaka kancane.
Okufanele ngikwenze: "Ukuthinta kancane i-raphe ngolimi lwakho kuzwakala kuyinto enhle kubantu abaningi," kuchaza uCavanah. "Bayeke bakukhombise ukuthi bathanda ingcindezi engakanani ngoba inani liyahluka kuya ngomuntu." Ukuze ubashise ngempela, phuza itiye elifudumele kakhulu bese upheqa ulimi lwakho olushubile kule ndawo ebucayi. Owakho ~ sexy othile ~ uzolahlekelwa yimizwa yakhe emisha, futhi ubusha bungenza ama-orgasms anamandla ngokwengeziwe. (Futhi ngenkathi uthuthukisa ama-antics akho ekamelo lokulala, thola ukuthi ungayenza kanjani i-orgasm ngesikhathi esifanayo nomlingani wakho.)