Uyihlelela Kanjani i-Honeymoon Esebenzayo Ngaphandle Kokwenza Ukuzidela Kwezothando Nokuphumula

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• Ungalihlela Kanjani Iholide Lakho Elisebenzayo
• Cabanga ukulinda.
• Nethezeka ezinsukwini zakho zokuqala nezokugcina.
• Bhuka uhambo lwesigamu sosuku ekuseni.
• Chaza kabusha "okusebenzayo."
• Hlela ukuphuma ngasese okumbalwa.
• Izindawo Eziphezulu Zokuphumula Okusebenzayo
• Ipulazi lezicathulo zamahhashi; IHendersonville, North Carolina
• Indlu yaseBahama; I-Harbour Island
• Xinalani Retreat; IXinalani, eMexico
• IMomentum River Expeditions; ENyakatho California, e-Oregon, e-Idaho, e-Alaska, eCanada, eChile, nase-More
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Kunesizathu sokuthi abasanda kushada bavame ukuthutheleka emabhishi lapho bephuza khona i-cocktail ebandayo kuyilapho bebuka ulwandle: Imishado kucindezela futhi ama-honeymoon yisikhathi esihle sokuphumula. Kepha kumibhangqwana ejuluka ndawonye, ​​uhlobo olusha lwe-post-wedding jaunt luye lwavela, futhi.

Ucwaningo oluvela e-Westin Hotels & Resorts lubonisa ukuthi amaphesenti angu-80 emibhangqwana abike ukuthi amatasa kakhulu ngesikhathi seholide lasosanda kushada kunokuba abe sekhaya, futhi amaphesenti angu-40 emibhangqwana agijima ndawonye kokubili ukuze anqobe ukucindezeleka futhi abone idolobha ngendlela entsha (ngakho-ke kungani uyeka nini ku-honeymoon yakho?).

Kepha ukuzivocavoca umzimba kulungele izinzuzo eziningi zenhliziyo. Ukuzivocavoca futhi kunezinzuzo zempilo yengqondo ezifakazelwe—ukwehlisa amazinga e-hormone yokucindezeleka i-cortisol (edingeka kakhulu ngemva kokucindezeleka kokuhlela umshado) nokuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo (ngisho nokuvikela izimpawu zokucindezeleka). Ukuchitha amahora ambalwa uphume futhi cishe—ngisho nokuhamba—kunganela ukusetha ithoni enhle yosuku. Futhi, ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi ukuzibandakanya ebumnandini, emisebenzini emisha ndawonye, ​​njengokuhamba ngezinyawo noma nge-scuba diving, kungenza ukuxhumana kwezithandani kuqine, kusho Umumo Ilungu leBrain Trust uRachel Sussman, udokotela wezengqondo eNew York. Kwesinye isifundo, imibhangqwana ebambe iqhaza emisebenzini yomzimba ethokozisayo ibike ukuthi ijabule kakhulu ngobudlelwano bayo futhi izizwa isothandweni.

"Uma niphuma enkambisweni yenu futhi nenza okuthile okusha ndawonye, ​​kuyanisiza ukuthi niphinde nizwane — kube sengathi niyajola futhi," kusho uSussman. "Ngokwabelana ngomsebenzi womzimba, udala ama-endorphin. Uzizwa kahle ngawe, umlingani wakho, nalokho okufezile."

Ngenhlanhla, amahhotela, ochwepheshe bezokuvakasha, kanye neziqondiso zonke zibhekelela lezi zidingo ezintsha futhi zidala amaholide asebenzayo ahlanganisa isikhathi esiningi ejimini. Cabanga: Izintaba ezihamba phezulu esibhakabhakeni ezigudla u-Amalfi Coast e-Italy noma ukuhamba ngasese nokuhambela ezinye izindawo emadolobheni amahle kakhulu emhlabeni. (Unentshisekelo engaphezulu? Bheka lezi zindawo zokungcebeleka ezinhle.)

Kunjalo, ukuhlela uhambo oluhle kakhulu lwenu, uhambo losuku, nokuzidela kwenu nobabili—ngenkathi nishiya indawo yalezo zikhathi zantambama eziseceleni kwechibi nezikhathi zothando—kuthatha umsebenzi omncane. Lapha, izindlela ezinhlanu zokuhlela iholide elisebenzayo, kanye nezindawo ezine zokuthuthukisa uhambo lwakho—kanye nothando lwakho.

Ungalihlela Kanjani Iholide Lakho Elisebenzayo

Cabanga ukulinda.

"Omakoti nabashadikazi abaningi bazibona beshada futhi beya lapho beya khona ngemuva komshado ekuseni ngemuva kokucabanga ukukhathala," kusho uHailey Landers, ongungoti wezokuvakasha wakwa-Audley Travel, inkampani esebenza ngohambo lwe-bespoke. Usuku lwakho lomshado cishe luyoba yikho konke okufisayo, kodwa futhi luyoba njalo khama wena. "Ngisho nokubambezeleka kokuhamba kwakho izinsuku ezimbili kuya kwezintathu ngosuku lwangemva komshado kungakusiza kakhulu - kukuvumela ukuthi uthole ukulala okudingeka kakhulu, uvakashele futhi ugubhe nezihlobo zakho ezisuka kude ukuzokubona, futhi umane usethe kabusha iwashi ngaphambi kosuku olude lokuhamba. " (Ikunikeza nesikhathi sokulungiselela ukudla ohambweni lwakho.)

Nethezeka ezinsukwini zakho zokuqala nezokugcina.

Lapho ufika okokuqala, ungahle funa ukushaya phansi. Kepha abakwaLanders banxusa abasebusuku abafuna ukugwema ukukhathala ukugcina usuku lokuqala (kanye nezinsuku zokugcina zohambo lwakho) luhlelekile. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi ujwayele indawo entsha kanye nendawo yesikhathi entsha, futhi kukuvumele ukuthi uzinze kumodi yokuphumula (noma ulungiselele imisebenzi ezayo). Ngaphezu kwalokho, "abantu bavame ukukhumbula kakhulu izinsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala nezokugcina zanoma yiliphi iholide," esho. Ngakho bhukha amahhotela akho e-splurge ekuqaleni nasekupheleni kohambo lwakho ukuze wenze ukuphumula kujabulise nakakhulu.

Bhuka uhambo lwesigamu sosuku ekuseni.

Ukuhamba ngamakhilomitha ayi-100 noma uhambo lwamahora ayisishiyagalombili (funda: izinsuku ezigcwele zomsebenzi) umsindo njengokuzijabulisa, kodwa ukuhlela uhambo lwesigamu sosuku oluhlanganisa izindawo zokuma endleleni (indawo yokuwina iwayini yokunambitha noma ukubuka okuhle kwepikiniki yantambama) kuzosiza ekunikezeni ibhalansi eyengeziwe ohambweni lwakho, kusho u-Dane Tredway, umklami wohambo e-Butterfield & Robinson. , inkampani yezokuvakasha esebenzayo ephambili. "Ngokuhlanganisa imisebenzi ekuqaleni kosuku, uzivumela negumbi lokuphefumula kancane ntambama."

Chaza kabusha "okusebenzayo."

Ukuthi uhamba ngebhayisikili uyosebenza futhi uqoqe amakilasi okuqina ekhaya akusho ukuthi yilokho okufanele ukwenze ku-honeymoon yakho. "Kulungile ukusebenza nsuku zonke - kodwa 'ukukhuthala' kungabhekisa ekuthambekeni kwentaba ngolunye usuku nokwenza uhambo lokudla okuhambayo ngokulandelayo, noma kungasho ukuthatha uhambo lwezinsuku ezintathu kuya kwezine ngasekuqaleni kohambo futhi luphele ubusuku obuyisithupha esiqhingini noma olwandle kwenye indawo, "kusho uLanders. Kukuwe kanye nomunye uhhafu wakho ukuthola ukuthi hlobo luni "lokusebenzayo" ozolwenza-ngoba, phela, lokhu kufanele kube yinto oyikho. kokubili phakathi.

Hlela ukuphuma ngasese okumbalwa.

"Ngihlala ngincoma okuhlangenwe nakho kwangasese kunokweqembu," kusho uTredway. Uhambo olwabiwe lungakusiza ukonga ukheshi (futhi lukungenise kubantu abanomqondo ofanayo), kepha uzolahlekelwa ukusondelana nesipiliyoni.

Cabanga ngokushiya umhlahlandlela njalo, futhi. U-Landers uthi: "Kunokuthile okuthandanayo nokuhlukile ngokuhlola indawo entsha nomunye wakho obalulekile, ngaphandle komhlahlandlela. Umhlahlandlela ungaba wusizo futhi ube ngumthombo omuhle kakhulu ezindaweni ezilungile, kepha kukhona okuthile okukhethekile ngokugxuma emotweni nokushaya sivule umgwaqo ndawonye."

Izindawo Eziphezulu Zokuphumula Okusebenzayo

Ipulazi lezicathulo zamahhashi; IHendersonville, North Carolina

Kuleli pulazi laseBlue Ridge Mountains, ungahlala kwelinye lamakhaya amakhulu noma ezindlwana ezizimele kumahektha angama-85 amadlelo agudlukayo, amahlathi aluhlaza, nemifudlana egelezayo. Qala ngesidlo sasekuseni esinempilo sokuya etafuleni, bese ugibela e-Pisgah National Forest, untante wehle ngomfula i-French Broad, uthathe uhambo oluqondisiwe lokudoba impukane, ibhayisikili, ibhodi lokugwedla, wenze i-yoga, futhi uhlole izimpophoma ezingu-250 endaweni. Ngemuva kwalokho, ukubhucungwa kwencwadi eStable Spa, isitebele samahhashi esibuyiselwe kahle. Kusihlwa? Thola ukuthokomala ngomlilo njengoba ubala izinkanyezi futhi ubheke eNtabeni iPisga.

Yibhukhe: I-Horse Shoe Farm, amagumbi asuka ku-$250 ubusuku ngabunye, kuhlanganise nebhulakufesi

Indlu yaseBahama; I-Harbour Island

Le ndawo yokucasha efihliwe izwakala njengendawo enhle yamabhishi esihlabathi esibomvana, i-bougainvillea ekhanyayo namanzi aluhlaza (okunye okucacile eCaribbean). Kunamakamelo ayi-11 kuphela, ngakho-ke uzonakekelwa ngokuphelele. Empeleni, ngaphambi kohambo lwakho uzokhuluma nomphathi ukuhlanganisa uhlelo lokusebenza. Ungachitha usuku lonke u-snorkeling noma u-scuba diving, iwa ugxumela emgodini omangalisayo wesafire-blue, noma udoba isidlo sakusihlwa ohambweni olujulile lolwandle. I-Wakeboarding, ishubhu, kanye ne-Jet Skiing zikhona futhi ngawe. Kunjalo, ungakwazi futhi ukwenza imijikelezo echibini lamanzi ahlanzekile.

Yibhukhe: Isiqhingi saseBahama House Harbour; amakamelo aphindwe kabili kusuka ku- $ 530, kufaka phakathi ibhulakufesi, ama-cocktails, isikebhe sokuya nokubuya

nokudluliswa kwetekisi, nawo wonke umsebenzi wakho nezidingo zolwandle

Xinalani Retreat; IXinalani, eMexico

Uma uzingela ukuvuka ngokomoya ngokuzivocavoca kwakho, lokhu kubuyela emuva okuhle kuzoba ngumnqobi. Hlala kwelinye lamagumbi avulekile angama-29 noma ama-casitas amane, bese ushaya izitudiyo eziyisithupha ze-yoga ezibekwe ngaphakathi kwendawo enhle. Uma nobabili niqedile ukugeleza, isikhathi sencwadi ku-Temazcal ("indlu yokushisa" ngesiNahuatl), i-sweat lodge eyake yasetshenziswa abaphilisi ukulungiselela impi; i-shaman izokuqondisa enkambisweni engcwele. Ingabe ulangazelela injabulo eyengeziwe? Zip ngokusebenzisa izihlahla ezishisayo ku-Canopy Adventure.

Yibhukhe: IXinalani Retreat, $ 4,032 ngababili ubusuku ngabunye abayisikhombisa, noma kusuka ku- $ 576 ubusuku ngabunye

IMomentum River Expeditions; ENyakatho California, e-Oregon, e-Idaho, e-Alaska, eCanada, eChile, nase-More

Le nkampani encane ephethwe ngumhlahlandlela futhi ehlinzekwayo ihlinzeka ngohambo lwamanzi amhlophe we-rafting whitewing for both adrenaline seekers and newbies. Wena nomlingani wakho ningakhetha uhambo oluhlelwe ngaphambilini (kusuka kuma-jaunts wezinsuku eziyisihlanu kuya ezenzakalweni zezinsuku eziyisishiyagalolunye kuwo wonke amazinga wesipiliyoni) noma abaqondisi bahlanganise indlela yokuphunyuka yangasese yangokwezifiso: Ukhetha umfula, futhi bazohlela ikhempu ye-luxe kanye nokudla okuphilayo. Kungakhathalekile ukuthi ukhetha ini, uzithokozise kakhulu futhi ujuluke ubukeke kamnandi.

Yibhukhe: Ama-Momentum River Expeditions, amanani entengo: $ 70 ngohambo losuku lwesigamu; $ 990 kuya ku- $ 1,250 ohambweni lwezinsuku ezintathu noma ezine, kufaka phakathi indawo yokuhlala nokudla

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