Kungani u-Alex Morgan Efuna Abasubathi Abengeziwe Bamukele Ubumama Emisebenzini Yabo
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Umdlali we-US Women's National Soccer Team (USWNT) u-Alex Morgan usephenduke elinye lamazwi akhulunywa kakhulu ekulweleni ukukhokhelwa ngokulingana kwezemidlalo. Wayengomunye wabadlali abahlanu abafake isikhalazo esisemthethweni kwi-Equal Employment Opportunity Commission ngo-2016, besola ukucwaswa ngokobulili yi-U.S. Soccer Federation.
Muva nje, uMorgan ube ngomunye wamalungu angama-28 e-USWNT okumangalela ngokusemthethweni i-US Soccer ngokwehluleka ukunikeza iqembu iholo elilinganayo kanye "nokudlala ngokulingana, ukuqeqeshwa, nezimo zokuhamba; ukukhushulwa ngokulinganayo kwemidlalo yabo; ukwesekwa okulinganayo nentuthuko yemidlalo yabo; kanye neminye imigomo nemibandela yokuqashwa elingana ne [Men's National Team], "ngokusho kuka I-CNN. (Okuhlobene: U.S.Unobhutshuzwayo Uthi Akudingeki Ukhokhele Iqembu Labesifazane Ngokulingana Ngoba Ibhola Lamadoda "Lidinga Ikhono Elithe xaxa")
Manje, ezinyangeni eziyisishiyagalombili ekhulelwe, uMorgan ukhuluma ngenye impi ekulweleni ukulingana: ukubeletha kwezemidlalo.
Lo msubathi oneminyaka engu-30 uzobeletha indodakazi yakhe ngo-Ephreli, futhi kuze kube muva nje, ubehlela ukungenela ama-Olimpiki aseTokyo ngo-2020, utshele Ubuhle Engxoxweni entsha.
Vele, imidlalo manje isihlehlisiwe ngenxa yobhadane lwe-coronavirus. Kepha ngaphambi kokuthi kuhlehliswe, kusho uMorgan Ubuhle ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa kwakhe akuzange kuthathe isihlalo esingemuva. Uthe uzoqhubeka nokwenza amaseshini asenkundleni, ukuzilolonga umzimba, amakilasi e-spin, nokugijima, waze waba nezinyanga eziyisikhombisa ekhulelwe. Usanda kulahla ukudayela njengoba esondela ekupheleni kokukhulelwa kwakhe, eguqukela kuma-jogs ajwayelekile, ukwelashwa ngokomzimba, izivivinyo zepilvic-floor, ne-yoga yangaphambi kokubeletha, utshele le ndawo.
Sekukonke, nokho, uMorgan uthe akakuthathi ukukhulelwa kwakhe njengesivimbelo sokuqeqeshwa kwakhe. Abagxeki bakhe, noma kunjalo, kubonakala sengathi bazizwa ngenye indlela, wabelana. "Abalandeli abangajwayelekile balo mdlalo bebefana nokuthi, 'Kungani engenza into enjengaleyo ngesikhathi somsebenzi wakhe?'" Kusho uMorgan. Ubuhle, ebhekisa esinqumweni sakhe sokuthola umntwana.
Kepha kuMorgan, bekungeyona into enkulu kangako, kusho yena. "Akufani nokuthi abantu besifazane abakwazi ukwenza zombili - imizimba yethu iyamangalisa - iqiniso ukuthi lomhlaba awulungiselelwe abesifazane ukuthi baphumelele," eqhubeka. ngikwazi ukubuya. Asikho isizathu sokuthi ngime ukuze nje ngiqale umndeni. ”
Lokho kusho ukuthi, uMorgan uyazi ukuthi akubona bonke abantu abakholelwa ekutheni umuntu wesifazane uyakwazi ukulinganisa ukuba ngumzali nomsebenzi ophumelelayo, ikakhulukazi kwezemidlalo; ngemuva kwakho konke, eminye imikhiqizo yokuqina ibhekane nokugxekwa ngezinqubomgomo ezake zangaqinisekisa ukuvikelwa kwabasubathi abaxhasiwe abakhulelwe noma abazali abasha.
UMorgan uthe ufuna ukuphumela obala ngohambo lwakhe lokukhulelwa njengomsubathi oqeqeshiwe ukusiza abesifazane "bazizwe sengathi akudingeki bakhethe omunye noma omunye," utshele yena. Ubuhle. "Uma abasubathi besifazane bebaningi abangomama emsebenzini wabo, kuba ngcono. Uma lolu hlelo lunenselelo enkulu, luzoshintsha ngokwengeziwe."
UMorgan ube esenanela abanye babadlali, kubalwa nomgijimi wase-American track and field u-Allyson Felix, indlovukazi yethenisi uSerena Williams, nozakwabo we-USWNT uSydney Leroux. Lokho laba besifazane abafana ngakho (ngaphandle kokuba abasubathi bama-badass): Bonke babonise ukuthi umama we-juggling nomsebenzi kuyinto kungenzeka — noma ngabe babhekene nobandlululo nalabo ababengabaza. (Okuhlobene: Omama Abafanelekile Babelana Ngezindlela Ezihlobene Nezingokoqobo Abazenza Ngazo Isikhathi Sokuzivocavoca)
Isibonelo: NgoSepthemba 2019, abanye abantu babenokungabaza ukuthi uFeliksi — owayethathe indondo yegolide yama-Olimpiki amahlandla ayisithupha futhi (ngaleso sikhathi) owayengumpetha womhlaba izikhathi eziyi-11 — wayezokwazi yini nokufanelekela ukuba yiWorld Championship noma iTokyo yango-2020 Ama-Olympics ngemva kokubeletha indodakazi yakhe, uCamryn, ezinyangeni ezingu-10 ngaphambili. Kodwa njengoba kungenzeka ukuthi uyazi, uFelix uqhubekile nokuqopha umlando e-Doha, eQatar, akagcinanga nje ngokuzuza indondo yegolide yesi-12 kodwa futhi wephula irekhodi lika-Usain Bolt lokunqoba izicoco eziningi zeWorld Championship.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uWilliams wafika kowamanqamu eGrand Slam ezinyangeni eziyishumi nje kuphela ngemuva kokubeletha indodakazi yakhe, u-Alexis Olympia. Lokho kwakungemva kokuba ebhekane nezinkinga ezisongela ukuphila ngesikhathi ebeletha, i-BTW. UWilliams usefinyelele kumaGrand Slam, eWimbledon, nase-US Open amaningana, futhi usesondele kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili ukwephula irekhodi lomhlaba lezicoco ezinkulu ezingama-24 eziphethwe ngumdlali wethenisi wase-Australia iMargaret Court. (Bheka: Ikhefu Lokubeletha likaSerena Williams Lenze Ushintsho Olukhulu Emiqhudelwaneni Yethenisi Yabesifazane)
Nozakwabo kaMorgan, umgadli we-USWNT uSydney Leroux ubuyele enkundleni yebhola nje Izinsuku ezingama-93 ngemva kokubeletha ingane yakhe yesibili, indodakazi uRoux James Dwyer. “Ngiyawuthanda lo mdlalo,” kubhala uLeroux kuTwitter ngaleso sikhathi. "Kulo nyaka odlule bekugcwele amahla-ndinyuka amaningi kodwa ngazithembisa ukuthi ngizobuya. Noma ngabe lokho kungaba nzima kanjani. Kube ngumgwaqo omude kodwa ngikwenzile. [Izinyanga ezintathu] nosuku olulodwa ngemuva kokubeletha ingane yami yentombazane. "
Laba besifazane abagcini nje ukufakazela ukuthi ukuba ngumama akukwenzi ube buthaka (uma kukhona, kubonakala sengathi kukwenza isihogo esinamandla kakhulu). Njengoba uMorgan esho, baphinde baphonse inselelo umbono oyiphutha wokuthi abasubathi besifazane “abanawo amakhono” njengabalingani babo besilisa—wona mbono obhebhethekisa izinqubomgomo zobandlululo ezithiya ikhono labesifazane lokukhula.
Manje, njengoba uMorgan elungiselela ukuphatha ithoshi, nakhu sethemba ukuthi umhlaba wonke uyaqhubeka nokubamba.