Iminyaka Yengane Encane: Kuyini Ukuhlangana Okuhlangene?

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• Ukudlala ngokubambisana kungena kanjani ezigabeni eziyisithupha zokudlala
• Lapho izingane zingena kulesi sigaba
• Izibonelo zokudlala okuhlangene
• Izinzuzo zokudlala ngokuhlanganyela
• Ukuxazulula izinkinga nokuxazulula izingxabano
• Ukubambisana
• Ukukhula kwengqondo okunempilo
• Ukufunda ukulungela
• Nciphisa ukukhuluphala kwengane
• Ukuthatha

Njengoba ingane yakho encane ikhula, ukudlala ngokubambisana kanye nezinye izingane kuzoba yingxenye enkulu yomhlaba wazo.

Yize kungaba nzima ukubona ukuthi awuseyona yonke into yabo - yize ungakhathazeki, useyisikhungo sendawo yonke isikhashana - lesi isigaba esihle ekuthuthukisweni kwemidlalo.

Ingane yakho izodlala nabanye ebaleni lokudlala, emaqenjini okudlala, emicimbini yomphakathi, ezikoleni zasenkulisa - uyiqamba igama. Uma kunezinye izingane eziseduze, ama-shenanigans wesikhathi sokudlala ayigugu angalandela. Futhi lokho kusho ukuthi ungayeka ukuba ngumthombo wokuqala wokuzijabulisa (okwamanje).

Lokhu kwesinye isikhathi kubizwa ngokuthi umdlalo wokuhlanganisa ochwepheshe bokukhulisa izingane. Kuyisigaba sokuthuthuka lapho izingane ezineminyaka engaphansi kwesikole ziqala ukudlala noma eduze kwezinye izingane ezenza imisebenzi efanayo. Mina nawe kungenzeka kungadingeki sikubize ngokudlala nge abanye, kepha kuyisinyathelo esikhulu esifanayo.

Ngesikhathi sokudlala okuhlangene, izingane ezisencane ziqala ukuba nentshisekelo kwezinye izingane nokuthi zenzani. Lokho akusho ukuthi bonke bahlangana ndawonye ukuze badlale okusemthethweni ngemikhombandlela yemisebenzi okuvunyelwene ngayo noma umgomo ofanayo - kepha hheyi, ngisho nabantu abadala bangakuthola kunzima ukuxhumana okunjalo!

Esikhundleni salokho, izingane kulesi sigaba - imvamisa eziqala cishe eminyakeni yobudala engu-2-4 - zikhulisa umhlaba wazo wokudlala ukuze zifake nabanye.

Ukudlala ngokubambisana kungena kanjani ezigabeni eziyisithupha zokudlala

Kunamamodeli amaningi wokukhulisa izingane, ngakho-ke khumbula ukuthi lokhu kungenye yazo.

Isazi sezenhlalo saseMelika okuthiwa uMildred Parten Newhall sidale izigaba eziyisithupha zokudlala. Ukudlala ngokubambisana kubhekwa njengesigaba sesihlanu kweziyisithupha.

Nayi eminye, uma ulandela umkhondo:

1. Ukudlala okungasebenzi. Ingane iyabuka nje, ayidlali. Baqala ukuqalaza futhi babheke umhlaba obazungezile, kodwa hhayi abantu abakuwo.
2. Ukudlala wedwa. Ingane idlala yodwa ngaphandle kwentshisekelo yokuxhumana nabanye.
3. Ukudlala kokubuka. Ingane ibheka ezinye eziseduze, kepha ayidlali nazo.
4. Ukudlala okufanayo. Ingane idlala noma yenza umsebenzi ofanayo nowezinye eziyizungezile ngasikhathi sinye, kepha kungenzeka ingasebenzisani nayo.
5. Ukudlala okuhlangene. Ingane idlala ngokubambisana nabanye, ihlanganyela ngezikhathi ezithile kodwa ingaxhumanisi imizamo.
6. Ukudlala ngokubambisana. Ingane idlala nabanye ngenkathi ixhumana nabo futhi inentshisekelo kubo bobabili nomsebenzi.

Ukudlala okuhambisanayo nokuhlangene kufana kakhulu. Kepha ngesikhathi sokudlala ngokufana, ingane yakho idlala eduze kwenye ingane, kodwa ayikhulumi nayo noma ukuzibandakanya nayo.

Ngesikhathi sokudlala okuhlangene, ingane iqala ukugxila komunye umuntu odlalayo, hhayi ekudlaleni kwayo kuphela. Izingane ezimbili kulesi sigaba zingakhuluma futhi ziqale ukusebenzisana. Futhi yebo, kuhle impela uma lokhu kwenzeka - izinto ezenziwe ngamavidiyo we-YouTube ezinamagciwane zenziwa ngazo.

Lapho izingane zingena kulesi sigaba

Ingane yakho ingaqala ukudlala ngokubambisana lapho ineminyaka emi-3 noma emi-4 ubudala, noma i-2 nje. Lesi sigaba sokudlala ngokuvamile sihlala size sibe neminyaka engu-4 noma emi-5 ubudala, yize izingane zizoqhubeka nokudlala ngale ndlela kwesinye isikhathi ngisho ngemuva kokungena esigabeni esilandelayo sokudlala.

Kepha khumbula, yonke ingane ikhula ngejubane layo. Ukudlala wedwa kulungile ngokuphelele ezinganeni zasenkulisa ezineminyaka yobudala. Eqinisweni, kuyikhono elibalulekile!

Kepha uma ingane yakho idlala yodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi, ungahle uthande ukuyikhuthaza ukuthi iqale ukuhlanganyela futhi yabelane nabanye - nakho okuyikhono elibalulekile.

Ungasiza ukubakhuthaza ngokuba kube nguwe ozodlala nabo kuqala, kepha ubavumele ukuthi baqhube umbukiso wesikhathi sokudlala. Ngemuva kwalokho ungabakhombisa amakhono okwabelana nawokuxhumana ngokwenza ngokwakho!

Uma ukhathazekile ngokukhula kwengane yakho, xoxa nengcweti efana nodokotela wayo wezingane noma uthisha. Bangancoma uchwepheshe, uma kudingeka.

Izibonelo zokudlala okuhlangene

Nakhu ukuthi ukudlala okuhlanganayo kungabukeka kanjani:

• Ngaphandle, izingane zigibela amabhayisikili amathathu eduze komunye nomunye kodwa azinalo uhlelo oluhlelekile lokuthi ziyaphi.
• Ezikoleni zasenkulisa, izingane zakha umbhoshongo ngaphandle kwamabhulokhi kodwa zingenalo uhlelo oluhlelekile noma iyiphi inhlangano.
• Ngemuva kwesikole, izingane zipenda ngendwangu ndawonye zisebenzisa izinto ezifanayo kodwa azixhumani ukudala isithombe esihlangene noma ukubeka amazwana kulokho abanye abadwebayo.
• Ingane encane idlala ngethoyizi futhi ingane yakho iyayijoyina futhi ikopishe lokho ekwenzayo. Bangase baxoxe, kodwa abenzi uhlelo oluhlelekile ndawonye noma basethe noma yimiphi imithetho.

Izinzuzo zokudlala ngokuhlanganyela

Lesi isigaba esihle sezinzuzo ezilandela okuncane kwakho kuze kufike ebudaleni. Lokhu kufaka phakathi:

Ukuxazulula izinkinga nokuxazulula izingxabano

Njengoba ingane yakho iqala ukudlala nokuxhumana nezinye izingane ngokwengeziwe, izothola ukuxazulula izinkinga ezibalulekile namakhono okuxazulula izingxabano, imibukiso yocwaningo.

Ukudlala okungaqondisiwe kuvumela izingane ukuthi:

• funda ukusebenza ngamaqembu
• yabelana
• xoxisana
• ukuxazulula izinkinga
• funda ukuzimela

Yize kufanele uhlale unake ingane yakho lapho idlala isencane kangaka, zama ukuphazamisa kuphela lapho kunesidingo. (Kunzima, siyazi!) Esikhundleni salokho, bavumele basebenze izingxabano zabo ngangokunokwenzeka njengoba beqala ukudlala nabanye.

Ukubambisana

Njengoba ingane yakho idlala nezinye izingane, zizoqala ukwabelana ngamathoyizi nempahla yobuciko. Lokhu ngeke kuhlale kungenabuhlungu - ngisho nabantu abadala abahlanganyeli kahle njalo! - kepha kuzodingeka bafunde ukubambisana njengoba bebona ukuthi ezinye izinto ezabanye.

Ukukhula kwengqondo okunempilo

Ukudlala ngokubambisana - futhi kwesinye isikhathi konke ukudlala ngokujwayelekile - kubalulekile ebuchosheni bengane yakho. Ibavumela ukuthi basebenzise umcabango wabo njengoba bedala futhi behlola umhlaba obazungezile.

kukhombisa ukuthi lokhu kusiza omncane wakho athuthukise ukuqina kokubhekana nokunqoba izinselelo ezizayo. Vele njengabazali, sifuna ukususa zonke izithiyo ezisendleleni yengane yethu - kodwa lokho akunakwenzeka futhi akusizi ezintweni ezinkulu eziseza.

Ukufunda ukulungela

Kungabonakala kungafani nakho, kepha ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi isikhathi sokudlala sinikeza ingane yakho ukulungela inhlalo-ngokomzwelo abakudingayo ukuze balungele indawo yokufunda. Lokho kungenxa yokuthi bathuthukisa amakhono adingekayo esikoleni njengokuqonda, izindlela zokufunda, kanye nokuxazulula izinkinga.

Bayasebenzisana futhi nge abanye, kodwa hhayi ngezindleko ze abanye, ikhono elibalulekile ingane yakho elizolidinga enkulisa futhi ekugcineni, esikoleni sabaqalayo - futhi, nangaphezulu.

Nciphisa ukukhuluphala kwengane

Ukuvumela ingane yakho ukuthi isebenze futhi ihlanganyele nabanye kunganciphisa ukukhuluphala kwengane.

Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi idlale nabanye futhi isebenze kaningana ngesonto esikhundleni sokuchitha isikhathi phambi kwesikrini. Lokhu kungasiza ekwakheni imizimba enempilo, esebenzayo. (Ukucaca, ukufunda kungenzeka ngesikhathi sesikrini, futhi - hhayi lolu hlobo oluthile lokufunda.)

Ukuthatha

Ukwenza isikhathi esiningi sokudlala kubalulekile enganeni yakho. Bafunda amakhono abalulekile njengokusebenzisana nokuxazulula izinkinga.

Ngenkathi kulungile ukuthi ingane yakho esenkulisa idlale yodwa, ungabakhuthaza futhi ukuthi badlale ngokuhambisana nabanye.

Abanye kuzothatha isikhathi eside kunabanye ukufika lapho. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuthuthuka kwabo noma ngamakhono abo okuxhumana nabantu, khuluma nodokotela wabo wezingane - umlingani omkhulu okungenzeka ukuthi ukubonile konke futhi angenza izincomo ezenzelwe wena.