Yini i-Average Age for Potty Training Boys and Girls?

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• Ingabe ingane yakho isilungile?
• Emhlabeni jikelele
• Ngabe amantombazane afunda ukusebenzisa imbiza ngaphambi kwabafana?
• Kuthiwani ngezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile?
• Kuthatha isikhathi eside kangakanani?
• Kuthiwani ngezindlela zekamu le-boot?
• Isilinganiso seminyaka yokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza zokulala
• Amathiphu wokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi
• Umhlahlandlela wamagiya
• Ukuthatha

Ingane yami kufanele iqale nini ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi?

Ukufunda ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese kuyinto ebalulekile. Iningi lezingane liqala ukusebenza kuleli khono phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-18 neminyaka emithathu ubudala. Isilinganiso seminyaka yokuqeqeshwa kwamabhodlela siwela cishe ezinyangeni ezingama-27.

Umugqa wesikhathi wengane yakho uzoncika kokulandelayo:

• izimpawu zokulungela
• amakhono okuthuthuka
• gxila emsebenzini

Ngokuvamile, ochwepheshe bachaza ukuthi izingane ezingaphansi konyaka kuze kufike ezinyangeni ezingu-18 ubudala azikwazi ukulawula isinye namathumbu azo. Ukuqeqeshwa ngaphambi kwalesi sikhathi kungahle kungalethi imiphumela emihle kakhulu.

Funda kabanzi ukuze ufunde kabanzi ngokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza, kufaka phakathi umehluko ekuqeqesheni abafana namantombazane, izimpawu zokulungela, namathiphu wokuqeqeshwa okuphumelelayo kwamanzi.

Ingabe ingane yakho isilungile?

Kungenzeka ukuthi ubonile ukubonakala kobuso noma izinguquko ezithile emsebenzini, njengokuwela imilenze noma ukubamba izitho zangasese, okukhombisa ukuthi isinye somncane wakho sigcwele noma ukuthi badinga ukukhipha amathumbu abo.

Ezinye izimpawu zokulungela zifaka:

• ukukwazi ukuveza ngamazwi noma okufunayo
• ukwazi ukuhlala uvuke ethoyilethi noma ebhodweni
• ukuba nesifiso sokujabulisa (ngokwesibonelo, ukujabulela ukunconywa)
• ukulingisa abantu abadala noma izingane zakini
• ukuba nokunyakaza kwamathumbu esimisweni
• ukuba nezikhathi ezinde zenabukeni elomile
• ukulandela imiyalo yesinyathelo esisodwa
• ukukhombisa isifiso sokuzimela ngokwengeziwe

Ingane yakho ayidingi ukuthi ikwazi ukudonsa ibhulukwe phezulu nangaphansi, kodwa ukukwazi ukuthola leli khono kungasiza ekwenzeni ukuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza kuphumelele kakhudlwana.

Emhlabeni jikelele

1. Isilinganiso seminyaka yokuqeqeshwa kwamabhodwe siyathinteka kakhulu ngokukhula kwengane njengoba kunjalo ngezici zamasiko. Kwezinye izingxenye zomhlaba, izingane ziqeqeshwa kusenesikhathi, kanti kwezinye izindawo, izingane ziqeqeshwa kamuva. Ekugcineni, yenza okukusebenzela kangcono wena nengane yakho.

Ngabe amantombazane afunda ukusebenzisa imbiza ngaphambi kwabafana?

Ngenkathi kungahle kube nokwehluka okumbalwa phakathi kobulili ngokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza, umqondo uyafana. Konke kumayelana nokufunda isinye nokulawulwa kwamathumbu bese ukhetha ukusebenzisa imbiza.

Noma kunjalo, kungenzeka ukuthi uke wezwa ukuthi ukuqeqesha abafana ngamabhodwe kunzima kunokuqeqesha amantombazane. Ingabe lokhu kuyiqiniso? Hhayi njalo.

Olunye ucwaningo oludala lwasikisela ukuthi amantombazane angathuthuka kakhulu ngokuveza isidingo sokusebenzisa imbiza kanye nokulawula amathumbu nokulawula isinye kubafana. Kodwa-ke, i-American Academy of Pediatrics iphawula ukuthi lezi zinhlobo zezifundo azihlali zimelela abantu ngabanye. Sekukonke, iminyaka yobudala yokuqeqeshwa okugcwele kwezimbiza ayihlukile phakathi kwabafana namantombazane.

Ekugcineni, kwehlela enganeni kanye nezimpawu zayo zokulungela. Abafana namantombazane ngokufanayo badinga ukunconywa nokukhuthazwa ngenkathi beqeqeshwa ngamabhodwe. Badinga uthando nokuqonda uma kwenzeka (futhi) izingozi.

Kuthiwani ngezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile?

Izingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zivame ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa okumanzi kamuva kunezinye izingane. Inqubo imane iqedwe ngesinye isikhathi ngemuva kweminyaka emihlanu, kepha umugqa wesikhathi uyahluka phakathi kwezingane.

Hlangana nodokotela wezingane wengane yakho uma uzizwa ukuthi ingane yakho isilungile. Bangakunikeza ukuqondiswa okuqonde ngqo enganeni yakho, kufaka phakathi ukuhlolwa komzimba, amathiphu neziphakamiso zemishini.

Kuthatha isikhathi eside kangakanani?

Ukuthatha isikhathi eside koqeqesho lwamanzi njengenqubo kuzoncika enganeni yakho ngayinye nakwindlela oyikhethayo. Iningi lezingane liyakwazi ukulawula kokubili isinye namathumbu futhi lishiye amanabukeni ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile phakathi kweminyaka emithathu nengu-4 ubudala.

Kuthiwani ngezindlela zekamu le-boot?

Enye indlela edumile yindlela yokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza yezinsuku ezintathu. Ngenkathi kushesha, amasu wesitayela se-boot camp anganikela ngamasu athile nesiqondiso, ungavumi ukunamathela kuwo ngokuqinile. Uma ingane yakho ibonakala imelana, thatha izinkomba zayo bese ubuyela emuva kuzisekelo isikhashana.

Futhi noma ngabe ingane yakho iphelelwe ngamanabukeni ngemuva kwezinsuku ezintathu ezinzima, kusamele ulindele ukuthi ibe nezingozi. Ukuqeqeshwa kwe-Nap nokuhlwa kungathatha isikhathi eside, futhi.

Isilinganiso seminyaka yokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza zokulala

Ukuqeqeshwa kwamabhodlela emini nasebusuku ngamakhono ahlukile. Ngenkathi ingane yakho ingaqeqeshwa ngokugcwele emini, kungathatha izinyanga eziningi noma neminyaka eminingi ukuthi ihlale yomile ebusuku.

Isilinganiso sesitimela sasebusuku sezingane siphakathi kweminyaka engu-4 nengu-5. Iningi lezingane liqeqeshwe ngokuphelele ebhodweni lapho zineminyaka emihlanu kuya kwengu-6 ubudala.

Amathiphu wokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi

Njengesingeniso sokuqala sokuqeqeshwa kwendlu yangasese, zama ukubeka ingane yakho egqoke ngokuphelele ebhodweni. Bayeke bafunde incwadi noma bacule iculo ebhodweni ngaphandle kokugxila ekuhambeni empeleni.

Okulandelayo, hamba uyohlala ingane yakho ebhodweni ngqo ngemuva kokukhipha inabukeni elimanzi noma elingcolile. Ukusuka lapho, ungakhuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi isebenzise i-potty eyodwa kuya kathathu ngosuku ngemizuzu embalwa ngesikhathi. Ngemuva kwezikhathi zokudla isikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuzama, ngoba kuvame ukuba lapho izingane zinezele ngokugcwele namathumbu.

Ungakhuphula inani lohambo noma uzama ukuthi ingane yakho ithathe usuku lonke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kungasiza ukudala isheduli engahlelekile, efana:

• lapho uvuka
• emva kwezikhathi zokudla
• ngaphambi kokulala

Ukulandela isheduli kungasiza ingane yakho ukuthi ingene kwisigqi.

Nawa amanye amathiphu okuphumelela:

• Thatha ukuhola kwengane yakho, uthuthuke kancane kancane noma ngokushesha ngokuya ngokulungela kwayo.
• Melana nokwakha okulindelwe, ikakhulukazi ekuqaleni.
• Sebenzisa amagama aqondile afana ne- “poop” ukunyakaza kwamathumbu noma i- “pee” ukuthola umchamo.
• Thola amathuba okunikeza ingane yakho umuzwa wokulawula noma wokuzimela.
• Naka kakhulu izinkomba zengane yakho ukuthi isinye noma amathumbu adinga ukukhishwa. Ukwenza kanjalo kuzosiza ingane yakho ibazi, nayo.
• Nikeza ukuncoma ngomsebenzi owenziwe kahle, noma ngabe ingane yakho iya noma cha.

Khumbula: Ingane yakho ingaba nezingozi ngisho nangemva kokuba “isiqede” kumanabukeni. Lokhu kuvamile futhi kulindelekile. Khomba ingozi, kodwa ngaphandle kokusola noma amahloni okunamathiselwe. Ungamane ubakhumbuze ukuthi ipipi noma indle ingena ebhodweni.

Kubalulekile futhi ukukhumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi isebenzise imbiza. Ngenxa yokuthi sebethweswe iziqu zangaphansi akusho ukuthi bayohlala bekhumbula ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese. Izingane ezincane ziphazamiseka kalula futhi zingamelana nokuyeka ukudlala ikhefu lokugezela. Bazise ukuthi ngemuva kwekhefu lokugezela, bangabuyela ekudlaleni.

Umhlahlandlela wamagiya

1. Ngabe udinga amagiya akhethekile esitimeleni esinamanzi? Nawa amanye ama-potty training kumele-ube nawo ukuze uqalise.

Ukuthatha

Into ebaluleke kakhulu okufanele uyikhumbule ngokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza ukuthi izingane zingabantu ngabodwana. Ngenkathi kunemigqa yesikhathi emaphakathi yokuthi kufanele iqale nini nokuthi ungayiqeda nini inqubo, ingane yakho ingahle ilunge kungekudala noma kamuva kunokujwayelekile. Futhi kulungile.

Izingozi zingakhungathekisa, kepha ukujeziswa noma ukuthethiswa ngesikhathi noma ngemuva kwengozi kungaholela ekuhlehleni futhi kwenze ukuqeqeshwa kuthathe isikhathi eside jikelele.

Uma ukhathazekile ngenqubekela phambili yengane yakho noma udinga usizo ngokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza, khuluma nodokotela wezingane. Bangakunikeza iziphakamiso noma bakwazise uma kunesizathu sokukhathazeka.