nokuthi wenzeni

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• Izici zezingane isidingo esikhulu
• Okufanele ngikwenze
• Kunjani ukukhula kwengane isidingo esikhulu
• Injani impilo kamama

Ingane isidingo esikhulu, yingane enesidingo esikhulu sokunakwa nokunakekelwa okuvela kubazali, ikakhulukazi kumama. Udinga ukubanjwa ngaso sonke isikhathi, njengoba ezelwe, ukhala kakhulu futhi ufuna ukondla njalo ngehora, ngaphezu kokungalali ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-45 ilandelana.

Ukuchazwa kwezimpawu zengane edinga kakhulu kwenziwa ngudokotela wezingane uWilliam Sears ngemuva kokubona indlela yokuziphatha kwendodana yakhe encane, eyayihluke kakhulu ezinganeni zakubo ezindala. Kodwa-ke, lezi zici azinakuchazwa njengesifo noma isifo, ngokuba luhlobo olulodwa lobuntu bengane.

Izici zezingane isidingo esikhulu

Ingane enesidingo esikhulu sokunakwa nokunakekelwa inezici ezilandelayo:

• Ukhala kakhulu: Ukukhala kunomsindo omkhulu futhi kungakhipha cishe usuku lonke, ngezikhawu ezincane zemizuzu engama-20 kuye kwengu-30. Kuvamile ukuthi abazali baqale bacabange ukuthi ingane inesifo esithile, ngoba ukukhala kubonakala kungathuthuki, okuholela kodokotela abaningi bezingane nokwenza izivivinyo, futhi yonke imiphumela ijwayelekile.
• Ulala kancane: Imvamisa le ngane ayilali ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-45 ilandelana futhi ihlala ivuka ikhala, idinga ithanga ukuzola. Amasu anjengokuthi 'ukuvumela ukukhala' ayeke awasebenzi ngoba ingane ayiyeki ukukhala noma sekudlule ihora eli-1 futhi ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi ukukhala ngokweqile kungadala ukulimala kwengqondo ngaphezu kokushiya amamaki ebuntwaneni, njengokungazethembi nokungathembi .
• Imisipha yakhe ihlala inenkontileka: Yize ingane ingakhali, kungenzeka ukuthi ithoni yomzimba wayo ishubile kakhulu, okukhombisa ukuthi imisipha iqinile njalo nezandla zayo ziboshwe ngokuqinile, okukhombisa ukungeneliseki kwayo kanye nesifiso sayo sokulahla okuthile, sengathi zihlala zilungile ukubaleka. Ezinye izingane kubonakala sengathi ziyakujabulela ukusongwa ngengubo, ecindezelwe kancane emzimbeni wayo, kanti ezinye azilusekeli lolu hlobo lwendlela.
• Suck amandla abazali: Ukunakekela ingane edinga kakhulu kuyakhathaza kakhulu ngoba kubonakala sengathi kumunca wonke amandla avela kumama, kudinga ukunakekelwa okugcwele izinsuku eziningi. Okuvame kakhulu ukuthi umama akakwazi ukuhlala kude nengane isikhathi esingaphezu kwengxenye yehora, kufanele ashintshe inabukeni, ondle, alale, azole ukukhala, adlale nakho konke okudingekayo ukunakekela umntwana. Akekho omunye obonakala ekwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zengane isidingo esikhulu.
• Yidla kakhulu: ingane edinga kakhulu ibonakala ihlale ilambile futhi ingagculiseki, kepha ngoba ichitha amandla amaningi, ayitholi isisindo esikhulu kakhulu. Le ngane iyathanda ukuncelisa ibele futhi ayisebenzisi ubisi lukanina ukondla umzimba wayo, kepha nemizwa yayo, ngakho-ke ukuncelisa kuyandiswa futhi ingane ithanda kakhulu ukunceliswa, yenza konke okusemandleni ukuhlala kuleso simo esihle lapho izizwa ivikelekile futhi sithandwa, isikhathi eside kunokujwayelekile, njengokungathi ngehora.
• Kunzima ukwehlisa umoya futhi ungalokothi wehlise umoya wedwa: Isikhalazo esijwayelekile sabazali abanezingane eziswele kakhulu ukuthi izindlela ezikwazi ukumthulisa namuhla zingase zingasebenzi kusasa, futhi kuyadingeka ukusebenzisa zonke izinhlobo zamasu okuzola ingane ekhala kakhulu, njengokuhamba naye ethangeni lakhe, ku-stroller, cula izingoma ezilula, ama-pacifiers, ukubheja oxhumana nesikhumba nesikhumba, gqoka ukuncela, cisha ugesi.

Ukuba nengane edinga kakhulu kudinga ukuzinikela okukhulu kubazali, futhi okuvame kakhulu ukuthi umama azizwe ekhungathekile futhi acabange ukuthi akazi ukuthi uzomnakekela kanjani umntanakhe, ngoba uhlala efuna amathegi amaningi, ukunakwa, ukudla ngisho noma emenzela konke, noma kunjalo, kungahlala kubonakala kunganeliseki.

Okufanele ngikwenze

Indlela engcono kakhulu yokukwazi ukududuza ingane edinga kakhulu ukuba nesikhathi sayo. Ngokufanelekile, umama akumele asebenze ngaphandle kwekhaya futhi akwazi ukuthembela kusizo lukababa noma abanye abantu lokwabelana ngemisebenzi ngaphandle kokubheka ingane, njengokuhlanza indlu, ukuyothenga noma ukupheka.

Ubaba futhi angaba khona empilweni yansuku zonke yengane futhi kujwayelekile ukuthi njengoba ingane ikhula ajwayele umqondo wokuthi akekho umama kuphela empilweni yakhe.

Kunjani ukukhula kwengane isidingo esikhulu

Ukukhula kwengqondo komntwana isidingo esikhulu kuyinto evamile futhi njengoba bekulindelekile, ngakho-ke lapho unonyaka owodwa ubudala kufanele uqale ukuhamba futhi lapho uneminyaka emi-2 ungaqala ukuhlanganisa amagama amabili, wakhe 'umusho'.

Lapho ingane iqala ukuxhumana ikhomba ezintweni noma ikhasa ngakuyo, okwenzeka cishe izinyanga eziyisithupha kuya kweziyisishiyagalombili, abazali bayakwazi ukuqonda kangcono ukuthi ingane idinga ini, benza ukunakekelwa kwansuku zonke. Futhi lapho le ngane iqala ukukhuluma ineminyaka engaba mibili yobudala, kuba lula ukuqonda lokho ekufunayo ngoba ikwazi ukukhuluma ngokuqondile lokho ezizwa nokuthi ikudingani.

Injani impilo kamama

Umama uvame ukukhathala kakhulu, ulayishe ngokweqile, unezindilinga ezimnyama nesikhathi esincane sokuphumula nokuzinakekela. Imizwa efana nokukhathazeka ivamile ikakhulukazi ezinyangeni zokuqala zempilo yengane noma kuze kube yilapho udokotela wezingane efika ekutholeni ukuthi ingane inesidingo esikhulu.

Kepha ngokuhamba kweminyaka, ingane ifunda ukuphazanyiswa futhi ijabule nabanye futhi umama akabe esaba yisikhungo sokunakwa. Kulesi sigaba kujwayelekile ukuthi umama adinge ukwelulekwa ngokwengqondo ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi usekujwayele kakhulu ukuhlala enganeni isidingo esikhulu ukuthi kungaba nzima ukusuka kuye, noma ngabe kungenxa yakhe ukungena enkulisa.