UBillie Eilish Uthi Une 'Ubuhlobo Obusabekayo' noMzimba Wakhe

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UBillie Eilish ubuyisa ikhethini emzabalazweni wakhe. Umnqobi we-Grammy, osanda kukhipha i-albhamu yakhe yesibili, "Happier Than Ever," uveze engxoxweni entsha naye Unogada ukuthi "kusobala ukuthi akajabule ngomzimba wakhe."

Edingida izindinganiso zobuhle ezingenangqondo ezivame ukuvezwa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, kusho u-Eilish Unogada, "Ngibona abantu ku-inthanethi, kubukeka sengathi angikaze ngibuke." Lesi sihlabani somculo we-pop esineminyaka engu-19 siqhubeke sathi, "Futhi ngivele ngifane, oh Nkulunkulu wami, zibukeka kanjani kanjalo? okubukeka kungokoqobo kungaba mbumbulu. Nokho ngiyakubona bese ngihamba, oh Nkulunkulu, lokho kungenza ngizizwe ngiphatheke kabi impela. Futhi ngiqonde ukuthi, ngiyazethemba kakhulu ukuthi ngingubani, futhi ngijabule kakhulu ngempilo yami… Kusobala ukuthi angijabule ngomzimba wami. " (Okuhlobene: UBillie Eilish Uvula Okuphathelene Nezinkinga Zakhe NeDysmorphia Yomzimba Nokucindezeleka)

U-Eilish, oke wadlala egqoke izingubo ezixegayo nezinkulu kakhulu, ubuye wachaza ukuthi ngokuvamile kufanele akhiphe ukukhuluma kabi ngaye. "Uma ngisesiteji, kufanele ngihlukane nemibono enginayo yomzimba wami, ikakhulukazi ngoba ngigqoka izingubo ezinkulu futhi okulula ukungena kuzo ngaphandle kokukhombisa konke - zingangathandeki neze," utshele yena. Unogada. "Ezithombeni, kubukeka sengathi angazi nokuthi yini. Ngivele ngibahlukanise ngokuphelele laba bobabili. Ngoba nginobudlelwane obubi kangaka nomzimba wami - njengoba ubungeke ukholwe - ngakho kufanele ngihlukane."

Ngaphambi kokuthi ubhubhane lwe-COVID-19 lunqamule uhambo lwakhe entwasahlobo edlule, u-Eilish wakhuluma nabagxeki bakhe, abaphinde bamhlasela ngokufihla. futhi ngokukhombisa ngisho ucezwana lwesikhumba. Kwifilimu emfushane, Akuwona Umthwalo Wami, eyakhishwa ngoMeyi 2020, u-Eilish ubonakala esusa isigqoko sakhe esiwuphawu lokuthengisa ukuze embule ubhodisi omnyama, etshela umbukeli, "Umzimba engazalwa nawo, awukona yini lokhu obukufuna? Uma ngigqoka intofontofo, nginjalo. hhayi owesifazane. Uma ngilahla izingqimba, ngiyihule." U-Eilish uphinde wabhekana nokuhlehla okukhulu ngemuva kokuchitha izendlalelo ezithile kukhava yangoJuni 2021 ye Vogue UK, isigameko athi simenze "angaphinde afune ukuthumela." (Kuhlobene: Abantu Bavikela uBillie Eilish Ngemuva kokuthi I-Troll Imenqabele Ku-Twitter)

Lapho engadlali noma kungenjalo emehlweni omphakathi, u-Eilish usengcupheni yokugxekwa ngabantu angabazi, ngenxa yokuthi udume ngokwanele ukuthi abathwebuli bezithombe bangamlandela endlini yakhe. "Uthola isithombe sepaparazzi esathathwa ngenkathi ugijimela emnyango futhi usanda kufaka noma yini, futhi ungazi ukuthi isithombe sithathwa kanjani, futhi ubheka nje ukuthi ubukeka kanjani, futhi wonke umuntu ufana nokuthi, 'Fat!'" Kusho u-Eilish Unogada. Ukunyakazisa, umculi ukholelwa ukuthi, ngokwengxenye kungenxa yezithombe ezingamanga zokuphelela eziphrojekthi zabanye osaziwayo futhi empeleni akekho ongafinyelela kuzo. U-Eilish ubize lezi zingcindezi engomeni yakhe yango-2021 ethi "OverHeated," lapho ebuza khona, "Ingabe yizindaba? Izindaba kubani? / Ukuthi ngibukeka njengani nonke?" (Kuhlobene: UBillie Eilish Angathanda ukuthi Uyeke Ukusebenzisa Izinketho Zakhe Zesitayela Ukuze "U-Slut-Shame" Abanye Abantu)

"I-'OverHeated' ithinta bonke abantu abakhuthaza amazinga omzimba angafinyeleleki," echaza Unogada. "Kulungile ukwenza umsebenzi wenziwe - yenza lokhu, wenze lokho, wenze lokho okukujabulisa. Kungaleso sikhathi lapho uphika khona bese uthi, 'O, ngithole konke lokhu ngedwa, futhi uma ubuzama kakhulu, ngingayithola. Lokho kungithukuthelisa kakhulu. Kubi kakhulu kubantu besifazane abasebasha - nabafana, nabo - ukubona lokho."

Ukuhlukaniswa komzimba womuntu kusamxaka kakhulu u-Eilish, owatshela Unogada, "kuyabheda ukuthi kukhona umuntu okhathalele ngisho nemizimba nje, kungani? Kungani sinendaba? Uyazi uma ucabanga ngempela?"

U-Eilish, osanda kuba blonde ngemuva kokuhweba ngesiginesha sakhe izinwele ezimnyama ezinezimpande eziluhlaza, uqhubeke wathi, "Kungani sizikhathalela izinwele? Kungani wonke umuntu azizonda kakhulu izinwele zomzimba, kepha sinento enkulu kakhulu yezinwele emakhanda ethu, futhi lokho, kupholile futhi muhle. Njengokuthi, uyini umehluko? Ngisho ukuthi, ngiyazithanda izinwele, futhi ngenza izinto ezingasile ngezinwele zami. Nginecala njengawo wonke umuntu," kusho yena. "Kodwa kuyaxaka lokhu. Uma ucabanga kanzima ngakho, uyahlanya."

U-Eilish bekuyincwadi evulekile isikhathi eside uma kukhulunywa ngokukhuluma ngezinkinga zakhe. Futhi ngenkathi ethatha yonke into usuku nosuku, uzoba nokusekelwa abalandeli bakhe kukho konke.

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