Yebo, Abantu Abangaboni Bayaphupha, Nabo

-Delile

• Baphupha ngani?
• Bayakwazi ukubona amaphupho abo?
• Ingabe banamaphupho amabi?
• Izinto okufanele uzigcine engqondweni
• Eminye imibuzo?
• Okubalulekile

Abantu abayizimpumputhe bayakwazi futhi bayaphupha, yize amaphupho abo angahluka ngandlela thize kulawo abantu ababonayo. Uhlobo lwezithombe umuntu oyimpumputhe analo emaphusheni akhe lungahluka futhi, kuya ngokuthi alahlekelwe nini ukubona.

Phambilini, bekukholelwa kabanzi ukuthi abantu abayizimpumputhe bebengaphuphi ngokubonakalayo. Ngamanye amagama, "ababonanga" emaphusheni abo uma belahlekelwe ukubona ngaphambi kweminyaka ethile.

Kepha ucwaningo lwamuva nje luphakamisa ukuthi abantu abangaboni, kusukela ekuzalweni noma ngenye indlela, basengathola izithombe ezibukwayo emaphusheni abo.

Funda kabanzi ukuthola ukuthi yini abantu abangaboni abangaphupha ngayo, noma ngabe banamaphupho amabi, nokuthi ungafunda kanjani kabanzi ngokuphila ungaboni.

Baphupha ngani?

Cabanga ngezinhlobo ezithile ezivamile zamaphupho onawo. Amathuba afaka ukuhlanganiswa kwezinto ezingajwayelekile ezingazenzi ithoni yomqondo, izinto ezingejwayelekile ezenzeka empilweni yakho yansuku zonke, noma izimo ezingaba namahloni.

Abantu abayizimpumputhe baphupha ngezinto ezifanayo nabantu ababonayo.

Olunye ucwaningo lwango-1999 lwabheka amaphupho abantu abadala abayi-15 abayizimpumputhe esikhathini esiyizinyanga ezimbili - amaphupho angama-372 esewonke. Abaphenyi bathole ubufakazi obukhombisa ukuthi amaphupho abantu abayizimpumputhe afana kakhulu nalawo abantu ababonayo, ngaphandle kokumbalwa:

• Abantu abayizimpumputhe babenamaphupho ambalwa ngempumelelo yomuntu siqu noma ukwehluleka.
• Abantu abayizimpumputhe babengenamathuba amancane okuphupha ngokusebenzisana okunolaka.
• Abanye abantu abayizimpumputhe babebonakala bephupha ngezilwane, imvamisa izinja zabo zomsebenzi, kaningi.
• Abanye abantu abayizimpumputhe babika amaphupho avamile ngokudla noma ukudla.

Okunye okutholakele kulolu cwaningo bekubandakanya amaphupho abandakanya uhlobo oluthile lweshwa. Abantu abangaboni ababambe iqhaza ocwaningweni baphupha ngenhlekelele yokuhamba noma ehlobene nokunyakaza cishe kaningi kaningi njengabantu ababonayo.

Lokhu kubonakala kusikisela ukuthi amaphupho abantu abayizimpumputhe, njengalawo abantu ababonayo, angabonisa izinto ezenzeka ezimpilweni zabo zokuvuka, njengokukhathazeka noma ubunzima bokufika ezindaweni ngezindawo.

Bayakwazi ukubona amaphupho abo?

Kuvamile ukuzibuza ukuthi abantu abehlukene bahlangabezana kanjani namaphupho. Abantu abaningi ababonayo bavame ukuba namaphupho abukwayo kakhulu, ngakho-ke uma ungeyena oyimpumputhe, ungahle uzibuze ukuthi abantu abangaboni nabo banamaphupho abonakalayo yini.

Imibono ngalokhu iyahlukahluka, kepha kuvame ukucatshangwa ukuthi bobabili abantu abazalwa bengaboni (ukuzalwa bengaboni) nabantu ababa yizimpumputhe kamuva empilweni banezithombe ezingabonakali emaphusheni abo kunabantu abangaboni.

Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi abantu abayizimpumputhe abalahlekelwa ukubona ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-5 ngokuvamile abaziboni izithombe emaphusheni abo. Ngokwalesi sitimela somcabango, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi empilweni umuntu ulahlekelwa ukubona, maningi amathuba okuthi aqhubeke ephupha.

Abantu abanobumpumputhe bokuzalwa bangase babe namathuba amaningi okuzwa amaphupho ngokunambitha, ukunuka, umsindo nokuthinta, ngokusho kocwaningo luka-2014. Labo ababa izimpumputhe kamuva empilweni babonakala benemizwa ethinta kakhulu (ukuthinta) emaphusheni abo.

Ngezansi, umsakazi ongaboni kanye nomgxeki wefilimu uTommy Edison uchaza ukuthi uphupha kanjani:

Ingabe banamaphupho amabi?

Abantu abayizimpumputhe baba namaphupho amabi njengabantu ababona. Eqinisweni, olunye ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi bangaba namaphupho amabi kaningi kunabantu ababonayo. Lokhu kunjalo ikakhulukazi kubantu abazalwa bengaboni.

Ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi leli zinga eliphakeme lamaphupho amabi lixhunyaniswe neqiniso lokuthi abantu abangaboni bangase babhekane nokuhlangenwe nakho okusongelayo kaningi kunabantu ababonayo.

Cabanga ngamaphupho akho amabi - maningi amathuba okuthi abe njalo (futhi acindezele) uma ungaphansi kwengcindezi enkulu noma ubhekene nesikhathi esesabekayo.

Izinto okufanele uzigcine engqondweni

Izifundo zesayensi ezimbalwa kuphela ezihlolisise ukuthi abantu abangaboni baphupha kanjani, futhi lezi zifundo zinemikhawulo eminingana. Kokunye, lezi zifundo zazibheka amaqembu amancane kuphela abantu, imvamisa engekho ngaphezulu kwama-50.

Amaphupho angahluka kakhulu kuye ngomuntu nomuntu, futhi izifundo ezincane zinganikeza kuphela umhlahlandlela ojwayelekile wokuthi abanye abantu bangaphupha kanjani, hhayi incazelo ecacile yokuqukethwe nezithombe ezingavela kuwo wonke amaphupho.

Kungaba nzima futhi kubantu abangaboni ukuthi badlulise ngokunembile ukuthi bahlangabezana kanjani namaphupho abo, ikakhulukazi uma benolwazi oluncane lokubona. Kepha kukonke, okuqukethwe amaphupho omuntu ongaboni cishe kufana nokwakho. Bathola nje amaphupho abo ngokuhlukile.

Eminye imibuzo?

Ukubheja kwakho okuhle ukuya ngqo emthonjeni bese ukhuluma nothile emphakathini oyimpumputhe. Uma ukhuluma nabo ngenhlonipho futhi usuka endaweni enentshisekelo yangempela, bangajabula ngokunikela ngemibono yabo.

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Okubalulekile

Wonke umuntu uyaphupha, noma engakhumbuli, nabantu abayizimpumputhe abekho. Ucwaningo oluningi luye lwahlola ukuthi abantu abangaboni baphupha kanjani. Okutholakele kuyasiza, kepha nakanjani kunemikhawulo ethile.

Ukuqonda okulinganiselayo ukuthi abantu abangaboni baphupha kanjani, cabanga ukufinyelela kothile emphakathini oyimpumputhe noma uhlole ama-akhawunti wabantu bokuqala ku-inthanethi.