UCarrie Underwood Ubhebhe Impikiswano Evela Ku-inthanethi Mayelana Nenzalo Ngemuva Kobudala Bama-35

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Ku I-RedbookInhlolokhono yekhava kaSepthemba, u-Carrie Underwood uxoxe nge-albhamu yakhe entsha kanye nokulimala kwakamuva, kodwa ukuphawula akwenzile mayelana nokuhlela umndeni wakhe kugxile kakhulu kuwebhu yonkana. "Ngineminyaka engama-35, ngakho-ke kungenzeka siphuthelwe yithuba lethu lokuba nomndeni omkhulu," utshele umag. "Sihlala sikhuluma ngokutholwa nangokuthi sikwenze lapho ingane yethu noma izingane sezikhulile."

Akubonakali njengento ~eyimpikiswano~ ukusho, kodwa ukuphawula kuka-Underwood kwavusa ama-tweets athile anentshisekelo mayelana nokuzala. Abanye abantu babelane ukuthi bacabanga ukuthi ukuphawula kuka-Underwood bekungafanele. "Udinga ukwazi ukuthi iwindi lakho lokuba nezingane alivaliwe. Into ekumisayo yisinqumo sakho sokungavumi noma sokungavumi. Usengaba nezingane ezinempilo. U-35 akakhulile, u-35 akakephuzi kakhulu, u-35 ulungile," Umuntu oyedwa ubhale ku-twitter.

"Carrie ucabanga ukuthi, njengoba uneminyaka engama-35, iwindi lakho selivalile ukuthola enye ingane? Impela ukuthi uthola okudala akulula ukukhulelwa. Uma uyifuna, kwenze kwenzeke!" omunye wabhala. (Kuhlobene: UCarrie Underwood Wabelane Ngezithombe Ezinhle Kakhulu Esebenza Nomndeni Wakhe)

Abanye beza ukuzovikela u-Underwood. "Kungani wonke umuntu enikeza uCarrie Underwood ukushisa ngoba ethi ukhathazekile ngokuzala eneminyaka engama-35 ?? Awusiye udokotela wakhe, awazi ukuthi unesimo sempilo yini esenza kube nzima ukuthi athole izingane," umuntu oyedwa wabhala. "UCarrie Underwood uqinisile. Uma usuhlanganisa iminyaka engu-35 ukukhulelwa kwakho kuthathwa njengengozi enkulu. Amathuba okuba nezinkinga kumntwana nomama angaphezulu," kubhala enye.

Ukucaca, u-Underwood akazange athi abesifazane ngeke ngikwazi unezingane ngemuva kweminyaka engama-35, uvele wathi yena kungenzeka ngiphuthelwe yithuba lakhe lokuthola i- enkulu umndeni. Yena nomyeni wakhe uMike Fisher okwamanje banengane eyodwa. Abaphawulayo abakhombise ukuthi ama-35 akamdala kakhulu ukuthi angakhulelwa baqinisile, noma kunjalo. Eminyakeni yamuva nje, i-US ibone ukwanda kwabesifazane ababa nengane yabo yokuqala ngemuva kweminyaka engama-35, okungenzeka ukuthi kungenxa yokuvela kwentuthuko yezokwelapha efana ne-IVF, ukubanda kwamaqanda, kanye ne-surrogacy.

“Naphezu kwezinselele, abesifazane abaningi abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-35 bangakwazi ukukhulelwa nezingane ezinempilo,” ngokusho kwe-American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG). (Nazi izimpendulo zayo yonke imibuzo yakho mayelana nokuqandisa kwamaqanda nokuzala njengoba ukhula.)

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abakwa-tweeters abamvikele nabo banephuzu. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ukuzala kuqala ukwehla lapho uneminyaka engama-24 ngokuncipha okukhulu ngokushesha lapho abesifazane befika eminyakeni engama-30. "Inzalo ayinciphi ngokungazelelwe," kusho uMary Jane Minkin, MD, uprofesa wezokwelapha nezifo zabesifazane eYale Medical School. Umumo. "Kodwa uma usuneminyaka engama-35, uqala ukubona ukwehla okucashile, bese kuthi ukwehla kube okuphawulekayo okubonakalayo kuma-40. Ukuwa okulandelayo kube cishe neminyaka engama-43." Ngamanye amazwi, u-Underwood ubengekho phansi ekuphakamiseni ukuthi izinkinga zakhe zokuba nezingane eziningi zehlile. Abesifazane abakhulelwe abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengama-35 nabo banethuba eliphakeme lokuba nengane enenkinga yokuzalwa noma yokuphuphunyelwa yisisu noma ukubeletha, ngokusho kwe-ACOG. Ukwengeza, abesifazane abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-35 nabo bangase babe sengozini ye-preeclampsia, isimo esiyingozi esiholele ekutheni u-Beyoncé abe nesigaba C esiphuthumayo. (Futhi yisimo esifanayo esaphoqa uKim Kardashian ukuthi asebenzise ngokwesivumelwano ingane yakhe yesithathu.)

TL; DR? Uhlangothi ngalunye lwalunencazelo ehlukile yalokho okwakushiwo ngu-Underwood, futhi kunamaqiniso ngemuva kwephuzu ngalinye elivumelekile. Kepha kucace into eyodwa ukuthi: Ukuzala nokuguga kuzohlala kuyisihloko esithinta inhliziyo futhi esiziphendulela.

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