Ukuquleka kwabantwana: izinyanga ezi-3, 6, 8 nezingu-12

-Delile

• Inkinga yezinyanga ezintathu
• Okufanele ngikwenze
• Inkinga yezinyanga eziyi-6
• Okufanele ngikwenze
• Inkinga yezinyanga eziyi-8
• Okufanele ngikwenze
• Inkinga yezinyanga eziyi-12
• Okufanele ngikwenze

Unyaka wokuqala wokuphila wengane ugcwele izigaba nezinselelo. Ngalesi sikhathi, ingane ithambekele ekubhekaneni nezinkinga zokukhula ezine: ngo-3, 6, 8 futhi lapho inezinyanga eziyi-12 ubudala.

Lezi zinkinga ziyingxenye yokukhula okujwayelekile kwengane futhi zihlobene nokunye "ukugxumagxuma kwengqondo", okungukuthi, izikhathi lapho ingqondo yengane ikhula khona ngokushesha, imakwa yizinguquko ezithile zokuziphatha. Imvamisa, kulezi zinkinga izingane ziba nzima ngokwengeziwe, zikhale kakhulu, zicasuke kalula futhi zibe zidinga kakhulu.

Qondisisa izinkinga zomntwana ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila nokuthi yini engenziwa kulowo nalowo. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi umndeni ngamunye unesakhiwo sawo, izici zawo kanye namathuba awo, ngakho-ke, kufanele uvumelane ngokuvumelana nawo.

Inkinga yezinyanga ezintathu

Le nkinga iba khona ngoba kuze kube yileso sikhathi, enganeni, yena nomama bangumuntu oyedwa, njengokungathi ukukhulelwa ngaphandle kwesibeletho. Lesi sigaba singachazwa njengokuzalwa kwesibili, owokuqala ungokokuzalwa, ngosuku lokubeletha futhi lapho kufika izinyanga ezi-3, ukuzalwa kwengqondo kuyenzeka. Kulesi sigaba, ingane iqala ukuxhumana ngokwengeziwe, ukubheka emehlweni, ukulingisa ukushukuma komzimba, ukudlala nokukhononda.

Inkinga yezinyanga ezi-3 yenzeka ngokunembile ngoba ingane inombono wokuthi ayisabambeki kunina, iyaqonda ukuthi ayiyona ingxenye yayo, imbona njengomunye umuntu futhi idinga ukuyibiza ukuze ithole lokho ekudingayo, okungakwazi kudala ukukhathazeka enganeni. ingane, ukwazi ukubonwa ngezinye izikhathi zokukhala. Le nkinga ihlala, ngokwesilinganiso, izinsuku eziyi-15 futhi inezimpawu ezithile ezifana nalezi:

• Shintsha kokuphakelayo: kujwayelekile ukuthi umama ezwe ukuthi ingane ayisafuni ukuncelisa nokuthi isifuba sayo asisagcwali njengakuqala. Kepha okwenzekayo ukuthi ingane isivele ikwazi ukuncela ibele kangcono futhi ilikhiphe ngokushesha okukhulu, ukunciphisa isikhathi sokuncelisa sibe yimizuzu emi-3 kuye kwemi-5. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isifuba asisashiyi ubisi olungaka esitokweni, sikhiqiza okwamanje nangokuya kwesidingo. Kulesi sigaba, omama abaningi baqala ukwengezelela ngoba bacabanga ukuthi abayiniki ingane ubisi olwanele, okuholela ekuntulekeni kwesikhuthazi futhi ngaleyo ndlela balumule ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
• Izinguquko ekuziphatheni nasekulaleni: ingane kulesi sigaba ivame ukuvuka kaningi phakathi nobusuku, iqiniso lokuthi omama abaningi bazihlanganisa noshintsho lokondliwa futhi baqonde ukuthi yindlala. Ngakho-ke, lapho ingane ikhala, umama uyinika ibele, lapho izama ukuyidedela ingane ikhale futhi bobabili baye emuva naphambili, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ingane incela ngisho ngaphandle kwendlala, ngoba izizwa iphephile kunina , njengalapho eqonda ukuthi laba ababili bamunye.

Njengoba lesi yisikhathi lapho ingane iqala ukuthola umhlaba, iba matasa ngokwengeziwe futhi umbono wayo uyathuthuka, konke kusha futhi kuyimbangela yokuphazamiseka futhi isivele iyaqonda ukuthi lapho kukhala izidingo zayo kuzohlangatshezwana nayo, kudala ukukhathazeka kwesinye isikhathi nokucasuka.

Okufanele ngikwenze

Ngokubheka ukuthi kuyisigaba esijwayelekile ngokuphelele sokulungiswa kokukhula futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni, abazali kufanele bazame ukuhlala bezolile futhi bagcine indawo enokuthula ukusiza ingane ukuthi ikwazi ukwenza lokhu, ngoba ezinsukwini ezimbalwa inkambiso izobuyela kokujwayelekile. Ingane akufanele iphuziswe lesi sigaba.

Kuyelulekwa ukuthi umama uphikelela ekunceliseni ibele ngoba umzimba wakhe uyakwazi ukukhiqiza inani elidingekayo lobisi oludingwa yingane. Ngakho-ke, uma ukubamba kwengane kulungile futhi amabele engalimazi noma aqhekeke, akukho okukhombisa ukuthi ingane incelisa kabi ngakho-ke, ukuncelisa ibele akumele kumiswe. Iphuzu elilodwa okufanele liqashelwe ukuthi kulesi sigaba ingane iphazamiseka kalula, ngakho ukufuna ukuncelisa ezindaweni ezinokuthula kungasiza.

Ezinye izindlela ezingasiza ngalesi sikhathi esibucayi zibandakanya ukunika ingane ithanga eliningi nokusebenzisa indlela ye-kangaroo, ukuxoxa izindaba ezibonisa imidwebo enemibala ezincwadini, phakathi kwezinye izinto ezibonisa ukuthintana nokunaka. Bona lapha ukuthi iyiphi indlela yeKangaroo nokuthi ungayenza kanjani.

Inkinga yezinyanga eziyi-6

Phakathi kwezinyanga ezi-5 nezingu-6 zengane, unxantathu womndeni wakhiwa futhi kungaleso sikhathi lapho ingane ibona khona ukuthi kukhona isibalo sikababa. Njengoba ubaba asebenza kusukela azalwa, ubudlelwano bengane abunencazelo efanayo njengoba bunjalo nonina, futhi cishe izinyanga eziyisithupha kuphela lapho lokhu kwaziwa kwenzeka bese kuqala inkinga.

Izimpawu zesimo esibucayi ukukhala ngokweqile, izinguquko zokulala nemizwa, ingane ayinaso isifiso sokudla futhi ingahle iswele futhi icasuke. Ukudida okuncane, ukuqala kokuzalwa kwamazinyo kuvame ukwenzeka ngalesi sikhathi futhi izigaba ezimbili zingadideka, ngoba ukufakwa kwamazinyo nakho kubangela ukungakhululeki futhi ingane ingacasuka futhi icasuke, ngaphezu kokubanga isifo sohudo ngisho nomkhuhlane . Bona izimpawu zokuzalwa kwamazinyo okuqala.

Inkinga yezinyanga eziyisithupha nayo iyenzeka kumama futhi ivame ukumthinta kakhulu kunengane, okumele ibhekane nokungena kukababa ebudlelwaneni, futhi kuvame ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi abesifazane abaningi babuyele emsebenzini, baqinise inkinga yabo.

Okufanele ngikwenze

Lesi yisikhathi sokuba umama anikeze isikhala nokuthi ubaba abe khona empilweni yengane, ngaphezu kokuxhasa nokusiza umama. Umama kumele aziphathe ukuze angazizwa enecala noma umona, njengoba edinga ukukhulisa inethiwekhi yengane yokuxhumana. Noma kunjalo, ngokusho kwabanye ochwepheshe, ukujwayela kwengane ekunakekeleni izingane kulula uma kwenziwa ngaphambi kwezinyanga eziyi-8, ngoba kulesi sikhathi abazali abasazizwa kangako. Bheka okuningi mayelana nokukhula kwengane enezinyanga eziyisithupha ubudala.

Inkinga yezinyanga eziyi-8

Kwezinye izingane le nkinga ingenzeka ngenyanga yesi-6 noma kwabanye ngomhlaka 9, kepha imvamisa yenzeka ngenyanga yesi-8 futhi kubhekwa njengenkinga yokwehlukana, usizi noma ukwesaba abantu ongabazi, lapho ubuntu bengane bungashintsha kakhulu.

Le nkinga yiyona ehlala isikhathi eside kakhulu, cishe amasonto ama-3 kuye kwangama-4 futhi yenzeka ngoba ingane iqala ukuhlukaniswa nonina kaningi futhi, ekhanda layo, iyaqonda ukuthi ngeke isabuya, okuholela ekuzweleni kokulahlwa. Kunekhefu eliqinile kuphethini lokulala kule nkinga, ingane ivuka ubusuku bonke ivuke ithukile futhi ikhala kakhulu. Ezinye izimpawu zifaka ukuyaluza nokuphelelwa isifiso sokudla, ukuba namandla kakhulu kunezinye izinkinga. Kodwa-ke, njengoba lesi sigaba sincike ebuntwini bengane ngayinye, kujwayelekile nokuthi ezinye izingane zidlule kule nkinga ngokushelela.

Okufanele ngikwenze

Imibhangqwana eminingi ihambisa ingane yayo iyolala embhedeni owodwa nayo, kepha lo mkhuba awulungile ngoba abazali abalali ngokuthula ngokwesaba ukulimaza ingane futhi kukhona le ngozi, ngaphezu kokuhlukanisa izithandani nengane incike kakhulu kubazali, befuna ukunakwa okwengeziwe. Lapho ingane ihlaselwa ukukhala ebusuku, kungcono ukuthi kube ngumama wokuthulisa ingane, ngoba lapho umama ehamba, ingane iba nomcabango wokuthi ngeke isabuya. Lokhu kumsiza ukuthi aqonde ukuthi ukuba khona kukamama kungalandelwa ukungabikho.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, kulesi sigaba ingane inganamathela entweni echazwe yiyo, okubalulekile ngoba imele isimo sikamama futhi iyisiza ukuthi ibone ukuthi, njengoba into inganyamalali, umama, noma akekho, ngeke unyamalale. Yize kunjalo, elinye icebo ukuthi umama uhlale eyamukela into bese eyishiya nengane, ukuze ezwe iphunga likanina futhi angazizwa engenalusizo.

Njengakwezinye izigaba, kubalulekile ukuthi unikeze ingane uthando futhi uyinakekele ukuze uyiqinisekise ngosizi lwayo, ngaphezu kokuhlala uvalelisa ingane ukukwenza kucace ukuthi izobuya futhi ngeke ishiywe. Isibonelo esihle sokudlala kulesi sigaba ukufihla nokufuna.

Inkinga yezinyanga eziyi-12

Lesi yisigaba lapho ingane iqala khona ukuthatha izinyathelo zokuqala ngakho-ke, ifuna ukuthola umhlaba futhi ikwazi ukuzimela ngokwengeziwe. Kodwa-ke, uhlala ethembele futhi edinga kakhulu abazali bakhe. Inkinga yenzeka ngqo ngenxa yalesi sizathu.

Izimpawu ezinkulu zale nkinga ukucasuka nokukhala, ikakhulukazi lapho ingane ifuna ukufinyelela entweni noma inyakaze kwenye indawo futhi ingakwazi. Kujwayelekile nokuthi ingane ayifuni ukudla futhi ayikwazi ukulala kahle.

Okufanele ngikwenze

Mayelana nokuqala kwenqubo yokuhamba, abazali kufanele bakhuthaze ingane ukuthi inyakaze, ixhase, ihambisane futhi yeseke, kepha ingalokothi iphoqe, ngoba ingane izoqala ukuhamba lapho icabanga ukuthi ingakwazi nalapho ubuchopho nemilenze kuhlangana. Noma kunjalo, kwesinye isikhathi ingane ifuna futhi ingakwazi, okumenza aphatheke kabi. Kwelulekwa ukuthi imvelo inempilo, yamukelekile futhi inokuthula, futhi noma lesi sigaba singaba nzima kancane, siyabukeka futhi sibaluleke kakhulu.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho ingane ithola ukwesekwa nokuvikelwa okwengeziwe kulesi sigaba sokwehlukana, ithambekele ekubhekaneni kangcono naso.