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I-Paige Spiranac yahamba igciwane eminyakeni emibili edlule njenge-golfer enhle ne-swing ochwepheshe. Futhi manje ungomunye wabesifazane abangama-36 ku-2018 Ezemidlalo Ziboniswe Udaba lwe-Swimsuit, eduze nokuthandwa kuka-Kate Upton no-Ashley Graham. Kokukodwa SI isithombe, i-Spiranac inyakazisa ukubukeka okusikhumbuza i-Wonder Woman, eveza amandla namandla. Ongeke ukusho esithombeni ukuthi indlela yakhe eya kulokho kunikezwa amandla empeleni yayimnyama impela.

Abalandeli abayisigidi esingu-1.3 "bathanda" izithombe zakhe namakhulu ezinkulungwane bembuka esiteshini sakhe segalufu se-YouTube, uSpiranac waba uphawu lokuphikisana njengoba izintatheli nabanye abasebenza naye begalufu bephonsa umthunzi ngezingubo zakhe zeSpandex futhi bekhomba ngonya isimilo sakhe, ithalente lakhe lezemidlalo, ngisho naye umndeni. Yize isilinganiso sale nzondo sasintsha kuye, uSpiranac uyatshela Umumo, "kunini ngikhumbula, ngihlukumezekile."

"Ngisakhula, nganginesimo sezinwele lapho izinwele zami zazizophuma khona kalula, futhi ngangiphethwe yisifuba somoya," usho kanje. "Izingane zazicabanga ukuthi ngiyinqaba, noma zicabanga ukuthi nginezifo, ngakho zangikhafulela eziphuzweni zami futhi zangijikijela ngamatshe, zithi 'yima izinyawo ezingu-10 kude naye ngaso sonke isikhathi.'

Lokhu kuhlukunyezwa kuholele ekutheni abazali bakaSpiranac bafundise indodakazi yabo ekhaya kuze kudlule isikole samabanga aphezulu, futhi ukuhlukunyezwa kwaqhubeka njalo kulo lonke ekolishi, uthi. Ngemuva kokuthweswa iziqu, umsebenzi wakhe wegalufu waqala ukwanda futhi kanjalo nokuba khona kwakhe ku-inthanethi-okwaholela ekuhlukunyezweni okukhulu nge-cyber eminyakeni emibili edlule.

“Ngiphusha engingakwazi ukukugqoka, ngigqoka njengomsubathi [ngaphambi kokudlala igalofu wayengumqeqeshi womzimba], futhi abantu basho izinto ezimbi,” usho kanje. "Ngihlazekile, ngahlukunyezwa, ngaphathwa kabi, futhi ngathumela izinsongo zokubulawa ngokugqoka iziqongo zethangi noma iziketi zokufaka ifomu. Akekho umuntu obheka lo muntu enginguye."

Ukuxhashazwa nge-inthanethi kube nemiphumela eyingozi ngesikhathi sohambo lokuqala lwaseSpiranac lwaseYurophu. Umenyelwe ukuyodlala eDubai ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ngemuva kokuvunguza komoya ovunguzayo ku-inthanethi, wafika kulo mqhudelwano ecabanga ukuthi amaphupho akhe egalofu ayafezeka. Uhlangatshezwe yimithombo yezindaba egxeka isimilo sakhe, isimilo sakhe, nokukhuliswa kwakhe - konke okwenza umuntu abe ngumuntu wangempela. Ontanga ayebahlonipha emdlalweni wegalofu bahlanganyela kulokhu kugconwa nokuhlukunyezwa. "Ngangizizwa nginesizungu kakhulu," uyavuma. "Ngangihlezi endlini yokugezela ngibheka yonke into futhi ngaba nokuphazamiseka okukhulu kakhulu. Ngangingakwazi ukuphefumula, angikwazanga ukukhala. Ngabheka ubhavu futhi ngaleso sikhathi ngacabanga ukuthi ukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma ukuthi ngingabe ngisaphila. . Udadewethu ubekhona wangisiza ngakho, wabiza umuntu ozosiza. " (Yazi amaqiniso: Lona ingqondo yakho ekuqineni.)

Kungaleso sikhathi, ngesikhathi sakhe esiphansi kakhulu, lapho u-Spiranac enza khona isinqumo sokuthi angabi yisisulu, kodwa esikhundleni salokho kube yingxenye yesixazululo. Ube yinxusa lenhlangano emelene nobuxhwanguxhwangu iCybersmile. “Nginenhlanhla ngokwanele yokuba nohlelo lokusekela, kodwa uma uneminyaka engu-12 noma engu-13 futhi uba nalowo muzwa, ucindezelwa izwe langaphandle, ucabanga ukuthi ukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma ukuzibulala,” usho kanje.

Olunye ucwaningo olukhulu ukwedlula zonke olwenziwe ngobuxhwanguxhwangu be-intanethi phakathi kwabafundi besikole esiphakathi nasesikoleni samabanga aphezulu, olushicilelwe ngonyaka owedlule, lukhombisa ukuthi amaphesenti angama-70 abafundi aba namahlebezi asatshalaliswa ngabo ku-inthanethi, kanti amantombazane maningi amathuba okuthi ahlukunyezwe nge-inthanethi. Khonamanjalo, esigamekweni sakamuva eFlorida, abafundi ababili basesikoleni esiphakathi babekwa icala lokuxhashazwa nge-inthanethi ngemuva kokuthi omunye umfundi ezibulele. Imibiko yamaphoyisa ithi izixhwanguxhwangu ku-inthanethi zaqala amahlebezi mayelana nesisulu esinezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi, sisebenzisa amagama anenhlamba, futhi basabisa ngokudalula imininingwane eyimfihlo. (Kuhlobene: Lesi sandiso se-Chrome singamisa Abazonda I-inthanethi)

"Kuyinkinga yangempela," kusho uSpiranac.Selokhu isinqumo sakhe sokumela ukuthi abanye bahlukunyezwe, uthi ulitholile izwi lakhe, futhi ukufakazela lokhu ngokushaya izandla kwakhe engenamahloni kubazondayo.

Owayekade eyintatheli yesifazane e-ESPN usanda kuhlukumeza i-2018 SI Abesifazane ababhukuda, bethi ukufaka izithombe zabantu abanqunu akubaniki amandla abantu besifazane, kusho ukuhlazeka nokunengeka. USpiranac usheshe waphendula ngokubhala, "Abesifazane abehlukene bazizwa benamandla ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene, futhi akulungile ukutshela umuntu ukuthi yini angayenza nongakwazi ukuyenza."

Lokhu kuzethemba okusha kususelwa ekunyakazeni okuphakamisayo kwe- SI dubula, kusho uSpiranac. “Angikwazi ukucasha ngalutho futhi lokho bekunginika amandla,” usho kanje. "Lonke lolu daba lubuyisela amandla kubantu besifazane. Kunzima kwabesifazane usuku nosuku; kufanele siziphathe kahle, kodwa hhayi. futhi muhle, unesifiso sokuvelela, kodwa hhayi futhi ukuvelela. Kusifaka ingcindezi enkulu kulokho okumele sibe yikho nesingaba yikho."

Futhi kusichazamazwi sika-Spiranac, "ukunika amandla" akuchazwa yisiqephu sengubo. Kungumuzwa.

"Cishe bonke abesifazane engihlangane nabo bake babhekana nokuhlukunyezwa," usho kanje. "Amamodeli ngokusebenzisa SI babonga kakhulu ukuthi ngikhulume ngakho, ngoba bahlala bexhashazwa futhi-ngenxa yokuthi bazacile kakhulu, bagcwele ngokuphelele, noma yini ngokubukeka kwabo. Inhloso enkulu ukuthi owesifazane azibuke esibukweni futhi azizwe emangalisa ngaye. Uma uzizwa unamandla, kuyamangalisa futhi kuyamangaza, futhi ngifuna wonke umuntu ukuthi ezwe lawo mandla. "

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