Izindawo Ezi-4 Ezijulile Zesitho Sobulili Ongafuni Ukuphuthelwa
-Delile
- Kodwa Okokuqala, i-Clit
- I-G-Spot
- I-A-Spot
- I-O-Spot
- I-V-Spot
- Isikhumbuzi: Yonke Injabulo Iyintokozo Enhle
- Buyekeza kwe-
Kuningi kakhulu esithweni sangasese sowesifazane (kanye ne-vulva) kunalokho obungase ukuqagele.
Cishe uyazi ukuthi i-clitoris yakho ikuphi, futhi mhlawumbe uthole indawo yakho ye-G, kodwa uke wezwa nge-A-spot? I-O-spot? Hm? Futhi bewazi ukuthi i-clitoris yakho ibamba iqhaza elibalulekile kulezi zindawo zobumnandi futhi? (Okuhlobene: Thepha Kulezi Zindawo Eziyi-7 Zabafazi Ezi-Erogenous Zenjabulo Yomzimba Uphela)
Nazi izindawo ezine ezidla ubulili besifazane (futhi, imininingwane mayelana ne-clitoris nokujula kwesitho sakho sangasese) okudingeka ukwazi kakhulu, nokuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani ngokugcwele ngakunye. Ukuzingela okujabulisayo.
Kodwa Okokuqala, i-Clit
Ngaphambi kokungena ~ deep ~ ezindaweni zangaphakathi zobumnandi besifazane, ake sikhulume nge-clit. I-clitoris iyingxenye yesakhiwo esibizwa ngokuthi i-urethral-clitoral complex. Lokhu kufaka isiponji se-urethral, umzimba we-clitoral wangaphakathi nangaphandle, kanye nezindlala eziningana namapayipi endaweni efanayo yokwakheka. Ngenxa yalokho, amandla e-clitoris' okuthokoza adlulela ngale kwe-nubbin ebonakalayo (eyaziwa nangokuthi i-glans clitoris) phezulu kwevulva yakho. Inwebela impela emzimbeni, ngaphansi kwelabia, ibuyele emuva okhalweni. I-clitoris egcwele ingaba amayintshi angu-5 isiyonke kwabanye besifazane, ngokwesilinganiso cishe ngamayintshi angu-2.75. (Nakhu okubonakalayo kwe-clitoris ephelele efomini le-sonogram.)
Njengoba i-clitoris yangaphakathi inweba ngaphakathi komzimba, kulula kakhulu ukuvuselela le ngxenye yesakhiwo se-urethral-clitoral ngaphakathi komzimba, ngokusebenzisa isitho sangasese sowesifazane (futhi kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nangendunu). Yilapho-ke lezi zindawo ezishisayo zangaphakathi zingena khona.
I-G-Spot
Ngenkathi kunenqwaba yama-athikili mayelana ne-G-spot, ngingahle ngiyeke ukungakhulumi ngayo ku-athikili emayelana nezindawo zobumnandi besifazane. Kungani? Ngoba le ndawo (ngaphezulu kwendawo, empeleni) iyimpande ye-clitoris yangaphakathi. Itholakala ngaphambili (ngaphambili) kodonga lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane.
"I-G-spot muva nje kucatshangwa ukuthi iyisakhiwo esisebenza kakhulu esakhiwe isitho sangasese sowesifazane, i-clitoral body, ne-crura (imilenze ye-clitoris) kunendawo ethize," kuchaza uHeather Jeffcoat, DPT, udokotela wezifo. ukwelashwa ngokomzimba kanye nomlobi we Ucansi Ngaphandle Kobuhlungu: Umhlahlandlela Wokuzilapha Ngempilo Yocansi Okufanele. Ngakho-ke, akuyona into yayo "uqobo" kepha yaphazanyiswa yisiponji se-urethral, i-clitoris, ne-Skene's Glands (okuningi kulawo maduzane). I-G-spot ayilona ucezu oluzimele lwe-anatomy, kodwa kunalokho ithatha indima yokusebenza njengenhlanganisela yalezi zakhiwo ezizimele.
Ukuyithola, faka iminwe emibili noma ithoyizi le-G-spot esithweni sangasese bese uxhuma ngemuva kwethambo le-pubic. Kufanele uzizwe uzungeze futhi uzame ingcindezi, isigqi, nokunyakaza okuhlukahlukene ukubona ukuthi yini ezwakala kahle ngomzimba wakho.
"Ukukhuthazwa kwale ndawo kuye kwaziwa ukuthi kukhiqiza ama-orgasms anamandla, 'ukuphuma komuntu', futhi kungasiza ngesikhathi sokuvuka komjikelezo wabesifazane wokuphendula ngokocansi," kusho uMichael Ingber, MD, uchwepheshe wezempilo yezocansi kanye nesazi se-urogynecologist.
Ukukhuthazwa kwale ndawo enendawo eyi-G kuyisihluthulelo se "squirting" ngenxa yokuthi isondelene kakhulu nezindlala zeSkene kanye nesipanji somchamo. Isipanji se-urethral isicubu esinesiponji esivala i-urethra futhi sihlale ngemuva kwethambo le-pubic, khona kanye phezu kwempande ye-clitoris yangaphakathi. Yilokho okwenza kube yingxenye ye-urethral-clitoral complex. Izindlala zeSkene zihlala ngapha nangapha kwalesi sipanji. Umsebenzi wabo webhayoloji uyaphikiswa, kepha babizwa ngokuthi "yindlala yabesifazane" ngoba uma bevuseleleka, bagcwalisa uketshezi olunjenge-prostate olufana ne-alkaline fluid okucatshangwa ukuthi lubhekele ukukhishwa kwe-ejaculation yabesifazane (yize kudingeka ezinye izifundo nocwaningo fakazela lokhu ngokuphelele).
I-A-Spot
I-A-spot (i-anni fornix) itholakala idlula indawo ye-G odongeni olufanayo lwangaphakathi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Ukuze uyithole, uzodinga i-G-spot wand, njengoba ingaba ngu-8-10cm ngaphakathi komzimba, eduze nomlomo wesibeletho (okuyimboko ewumngcingo ekugcineni komsele wesitho sangasese sowesifazane, cishe njenge-bouncer yesibeletho sakho). "Le ndawo ijule kancane, futhi ingakhuthazeka nangomunwe ekuhambeni kohlobo lwe- 'come hither', ngokufaka ingcindezi odongeni lwangaphakathi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane," kusho uShweta Pai, MD, umeluleki wezempilo kwiLove Wellness.
Ungase ufinyelele i-A-spot ngesikhathi socansi, kodwa kungaba lula ukusebenzisa iminwe noma ithoyizi njengoba i-engeli kancane. Uma ufuna ukuthola indawo ye-A ebandakanyeka kwezocansi, isitayela sezinja ukubheja kwakho okuhle kakhulu, njengoba lesi sikhundla sivumela ukungena okujulile.
Uma uthanda ukudlala ezimpundu, i-A-spot nayo ingenye yezindawo ezibhekene ne-orgasm ngesikhathi sokungena kwe-anal. Udonga olungunxande nolwesifazane kusondele kakhulu kunalokho ongakucabanga, kuhlukaniswe kuphela ungqimba oluncane lwethishu. Ngesikhathi sokungena okujulile kwe-anal, uma kukhona okucindezela odongeni olungunxande, kungavusa ngokungaqondile i-backend ye-clitoris, okuholele ku-orgasm. Akucaci ngokuphelele ngokwesayensingani lokhu; kucatshangwa ukuthi kungani kwenzeka ama-anal orgasms. Ungafinyelela futhi ku-O-spot (eza ngokulandelayo) nge-anal nayo. Eqinisweni, lezi zakhiwo zonke zisondelene kangangokuthi ziyashayisana. (Zama ukuyishaya kwesinye salezi zikhundla zocansi lwendunu.)
I-O-Spot
I-O-spot, kwesinye isikhathi ebizwa ngokuthi yi-C-spot, iseduze nasemlomo wesibeletho, ekujuleni komsele wesitho sangasese sowesifazane. (FTR, ukujula kwesitho sakho sangasese kuzohluka kumuntu nomuntu, kodwa ucwaningo lwakamuva luveze ukuthi ukujula okumaphakathi kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane kungaba amayintshi angu-3.77 (9.6 cm).
I-O-spot empeleni ngobuchwepheshe ngemuva umlomo wesibeletho, odongeni olungemuva lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, kodwa awukwazi ukubuyela lapho. (Izinto kuphela ezingadlula emlonyeni wesibeletho, empeleni, igazi lokuya esikhathini, amaqanda/isidoda, ama-IUD, izingane, njll.) Zimbalwa kakhulu iziphetho zemizwa ezizwela ukuthinta esithweni sangasese sowesifazane kanye nomlomo wesibeletho, kodwa kukhona kukhona iziphetho zemizwa ezwela ingcindezi, ngakho-ke uma ufaka ingcindezi emlonyeni wesibeletho, ingabandakanya le ndawo yobumnandi. (Sawubona, i-orgasm yomlomo wesibeletho.)
Ukuze uyikhuthaze, uzodinga ukungena okujulile komunwe, i-dildo, noma ipipi. "Uma utholakala eG-Spot, jikisa umunwe wakho ngama-degree angu-180, manje ubheke odongeni lwangemuva lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, bese uwudlulisela phambili kumasentimitha ambalwa," kusho uDkt Pai. Abanye ochwepheshe bakhetha ukuhlukanisa i-O-spot nomlomo wesibeletho, kodwa indawo yabo iseduze kakhulu (njengokuthi, phezu komunye nomunye) kangangokuthi bayahambisana. (Uma umbono wokuzicwilisa usabeka kakhulu, funda lokhu.)
Njenge-A-spot, i-O-spot ingabanjwa ngesikhathi sokudlala kwe-anal. "Ngenxa yokuthi itholakala engxenyeni engemuva yesitho sangasese sowesifazane, ingavuselelwa ngokudlala ngendunu kanye nokugqugquzela okujulile kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane okugxila engxenyeni engemuva yesitho sangasese sowesifazane," kuchaza uJeffcoat.
I-O-spot iyona ngempela eyenza ucansi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane lube mnandi. Udinga ukunaka umzimba wakho ngoba umlomo wesibeletho uyazwela futhi ukushaya kakhulu kungabangela imihuzuko. Futhi, ishintsha kuwo wonke umjikelezo wakho (imvamisa iyancipha futhi iqine kakhulu ngemva nje kokuya esikhathini, futhi iphakeme futhi ithambe ngesikhathi sokuvuthwa), ngakho-ke qaphela ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngesikhathi socansi. Uma uzwa ubuhlungu noma ukungaphatheki kahle, yima uthathe ikhefu noma uye endaweni evumela ukungena okujulile. (Okuningi lapha: Izizathu Zokuzwa Ubuhlungu Ngemuva Kocansi)
I-V-Spot
I-V-spot cishe iyona ndawo okukhulunywa ngayo kancane ngayo endaweni ye-vulva-vaginal. "V" imele i-vaginal vestibule, ukuvuleka kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, noma indawo ngaphambi nje kokungena kumsele, kwesokudla udlule i-labia minora (izindebe zangaphakathi). Yonke le ndawo iqukethe ithoni yeziphetho zemizwa, futhi “kwabanye besifazane, imizwa ikhula isondele ngempela phezulu lapha,” kusho uDkt. Ingber.
Enye yezingxenye ezibucayi kakhulu ze-V-spot yi-fourchette, etholakala ezansi kokuvula kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, ngemuva (noma ezansi) kokuvula. Ungakwazi ukuvuselela le ndawo usebenzisa ulimi, ithoyizi, noma iminwe. Yiba mnene futhi ubone ukuthi yini okujabulisayo kuwe.
Isikhumbuzi: Yonke Injabulo Iyintokozo Enhle
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi yonke intokozo idalwe ilingana futhi noma ngabe unayo yinhle kakhulu. (Okuningi lapha: Ungaba Kanjani Nocansi Olukhulu, Ngokusho Kwezazi)
"Okusemqoka ukuthi wonke umuntu wesifazane uhluke kakhulu ngokuhlukile, unezindlela ezahlukahlukene zobumnandi, ukwakheka komzimba okuhlukile, nezakhi ezihlukile zengqondo," kunezela uDkt Pai. "Kungakho, lapho uzulazula futhi ucabanga ngempendulo yakho yocansi, gxila ezingxenyeni zomzimba wakho ezikujabulisayo."
Ukuhlola nokwazi umzimba wakho kuhle kakhulu, kodwa akuyona yonke into ezokusebenzela. Yiba nelukuluku futhi uzijabulise!
UGigi Engle ungudokotela wezocansi oqinisekisiwe, uthisha, futhi umbhali wamaphutha we-All The F * cking: Umhlahlandlela Wezocansi, Uthando, Nempilo. Mlandele ku-Instagram naku-Twitter ku- @GigiEngle.