UDemi Lovato Ubungaza 'Ukuzethemba Komzimba' Ngenkathi Eqopha Isimo Sabo Socansi Sokuqala
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UDemi Lovato unenkinga ngomzimba wakhe iminyaka, kodwa lo mculi oneminyaka engu-28 ube nokuzethemba okukhulu komzimba ngoLwesibili ngenkathi beqopha indawo yabo yokuqala ngocansi yochungechunge lwabo oluzayo lwe-TV Ulambile. U-Lovato, nokho, washeshe wavuma ukuthi umsebenzi owawusenziwa wawungelula.
"Bekufanele ngiqophe indawo yocansi namuhla. Eyami yokuqala! Benginokukhathazeka kancane ngingena kuyo kodwa abalingisi nabasebenzi bebechwepheshe futhi kulula ukusebenza nabo, kwangithulisa ngokushesha," babhala ku-Instagram, eceleni kwesithombe lapho befake khona izingubo zangaphansi ezimnyama. "Ngibe sengicabanga ukuthi ngiziqhenya kanjani ngokukwazi ukuzizwa ngikhululeke ngokwanele esikhunjeni sami ukwenza lokho. Angijwayele ukukhombisa izingalo zami ngaphambili .. manje ngikulokhu !! (Kuyavunywa, akubonisi lutho KODWA NJE ). " (Okuhlobene: UDemi Lovato Ubonge 'uQueen' Lizzo ngokulungisa iPaparazzo Ngemuva Kokubaphatha Kakubi)
U-Lovato uqhubekile namagama-ncazo echaza ukuthi nakuba ngezinye izikhathi bezabalaza ngokuba sesikhumbeni abakuso, ngoLwesibili ikakhulukazi, bafuna ukwabelana “ngokuqhuma okungahleliwe kokuzethemba” kwabo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
"Angizizwa kahle ngaso sonke isikhathi esikhunjeni sami, ngakho-ke uma ngenza njalo, FUTHI ngizizwa ngithandeka ngokwanele ukuthumela - ngenza lokho nje!" Banezela. "Kubalulekile ukugubha ukunqoba okuncane. Yay ngalokhu kuqhuma okungahleliwe kokuzethemba komzimba kanye nokuya ocansini olungajabulisi."
Ngo-Ephreli 2021, Umnqamulajuqu umemezele ukuthi i-NBC ihambise ama-oda endiza Ulambile, noLovato esebenza njengomkhiqizi wezinkanyezi nomphathi omkhulu. Bazovela njengoTeddy, umdwebi wesitayela sokudla onenkinga yokuthandana nokugcina ubudlelwano obunempilo nokudla, ngokusho kuka. Umnqamulajuqu. UValerie Bertinelli naye uzolingisa njengomama kaTeddy uLisa, umnikazi wendawo yokudlela obekezelele ubunzima bakhe bokudla. (Okuhlobene: UDemi Lovato uchaziwe ukuthi kungani abize isitolo sogathi esifriziwe ngokuba "yingcindezi")
Ngemva kwenyanga ngoMeyi 2021, u-Lovato wavuma ukuthi basabhekene nezinselelo njengengxenye yokululama kwabo ukuphazamiseka kwemikhuba yokudla. Bangena ku-Instagram ngaleso sikhathi futhi bathumela inkomishi ebhalwe amagama athi, "Ngifanelekile," kanye nophawu lokutakula kanye nophawu lokutakula oluvela ku-National Eating Disorders Association.
"Ngapenda lokhu ku-@colormemine eminyakeni edlule.. nakuba ngangisenkingeni yenkinga yami yokudla, ngangikwenza lokhu ngethemba lokuthi ngizokukholelwa ngempela ngolunye usuku [sic]. Ngisazabalaza namanje. Nsuku zonke, "kubhala uLovato." Kunezikhathi lapho ngikhohlwa khona ngezinkinga zami zokudla nangezinye izikhathi kuphela engikucabangayo. Noma kunjalo."
"Kodwa yilokho ukubuyiselwa kwe-ED kubukeka kwabanye abantu futhi ngisenethemba lokuthi ngelinye ilanga ngeke ngisacabanga ngakho," baqhubeka. "Okwamanje umgqomo wami ungikhumbuza ukuthi ngiwufanele, futhi namhlanje ngiyakholelwa."
ULovato uphinde wakhuluma ngokululama kwabo kokuphazamiseka kokudla ku-albhamu yabo yango-2021, Ukudansa NoDeveli ... Ubuciko Bokuqala. Ingoma yabo ethi "Ikhekhe Lekhabe" ibungaza ukuba namaqebelengwane osuku lokuzalwa, hhayi ikhabe, ukumaka uhambo lwabo lokuzungeza ilanga. Futhi ngoFebhuwari 2020, uLovato uxoxe ngokulutha kwabo no-Ashley Graham kumodeli Isenzo Esihle Esihle i-podcast.
“Bengicabanga ukuthi iminyaka embalwa edlule bekuwukululama [kwami] ekuphazamisekeni kwemikhuba yokudla kuyilapho empeleni nje [mina] ngiwela kukho ngokuphelele,” kusho uLovato. "Futhi ngivele ngabona ukuthi mhlawumbe izimpawu zami bezingacaci njengakuqala, kodwa bekuyinkinga yokudla."
U-Lovato ukhumbule ukuzivivinya ekholelwa ukuthi bayalulama empini yabo ne-bulimia ngenkathi kuphambene.
"Ngokweqiniso ngicabanga ukuthi lokho yikona okuholele ekutheni yonke into yenzeke eminyakeni edlule, njengami ngicabanga ukuthi ngithole ukwelulama ngingazange ngilulame," kusho uLovato, osanda kuphuma njengomuntu ongayena kanambambili. "Bese ngiphila lolu hlobo lwamanga ngizama ukutshela umhlaba ukuthi ngangijabule nami lapho ngingenjalo." (Okuhlobene: U-Demi Lovato Uvula Ngokungaphathwa Ngobulili Selokhu Bashintsha Izabizwana Zabo)
Yize uLovato ethatha impilo usuku ngalunye, njengoba besho ngoLwesibili ku-Instagram, bazi kahle ukuthi kubalulekile "ukubungaza ukunqoba okuncane" futhi, okwamanje, ukuzethemba wena. Futhi lokho, bafundi abathandekayo, akuyona into encane - kungaba ngesikhathi sobulili obugqoke izingubo zangaphansi noma ngoMgqibelo ebusuku ochithwe ngezingubo zokubila ubukele iNetflix.
Uma wena noma othile omaziyo elwa nenkinga yokudla, sicela athinte i-National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) kokuthi 1-800-931-2237, khuluma nothile ku-myneda.org/helpline-chat, noma uthumele i-SMS ethi NEDA ku-741-741 noma uye ku-NationalEatingDisorders.org.