I-Strap-on Sex 101: Ungayikhetha Kanjani i-Harness efanele ne-Dildo

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• Ibhande lezocansi kubo bonke
• Ukudlala ibhande kungajabulisa wonke umuntu
• Ukukhetha ihhanisi
• Imibuzo okufanele uyibuze uma uthenga i-harness
• Ukukhetha isitayela esifanele
• Izincomo zokubopha ibhande
• Izincomo zokubopha izingubo zangaphansi
• Cabanga ngezinto zokubopha
• Ezinye izinto ezimbalwa okufanele uzikhumbule lapho uthenga i-harness
• Manje, udinga ukukhetha i-dildo
• Ukukha umumo nosayizi ofanele
• Imibuzo okufanele uyibuze ngaphambi kokuthenga i-dildo
• Ezinye izincomo ze-dildo
• Qiniseka ukuthi i-dildo yakho ne-strap-on yakho iyahambisana
• Thenga (bese usebenzisa!) I-lube - inkatho!
• Ukujwayela amahanisi akho
• Yiba nesineke - futhi ujabulele

Sifaka imikhiqizo esicabanga ukuthi ilusizo kubafundi bethu. Uma uthenga ngezixhumanisi ezikuleli khasi, singathola ikhomishini encane. Nansi inqubo yethu.

Ibhande lezocansi kubo bonke

I-strap-on ifana ne-lube ngomqondo wokuthi ingenza impilo yocansi yomuntu noma ngubani ibe ngcono, kungakhathalekile ubulili noma ubulili bakhe.

Ifanele ucansi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, ucansi lwendunu, imisebenzi yokushaywa, ucansi olwenziwa ngesandla, nokushaya indlwabu, amabhande angagqokwa noma amukelwe yibo bobabili abantu abanezitho zobudoda nabantu abanezitho zobulili, kanye nawo wonke umuntu ophakathi.

Noma ama-strap-ons azwakala ephuma ngokuphelele kusizinda sakho, kusafanele ukuthi ufunde kabanzi ngawo - angangeza kakhulu ubumnandi nokuguquguquka empilweni yakho yezocansi.

“Abantu bavame ukuhlobanisa ukudlala amahanisi nezindima ezithile zobulili, ubulili, kanye nobunikazi, kepha lezi zinhlangano zigcina sezilimaza kunokuba zibe wusizo. Izenzo zocansi eziqondile azichazi ubunikazi bakho uma ungafuni, ”kusho u-Amy Boyajian, ongumsunguli kanye ne-CEO yeWild Flower, okuyisitolo sokuthenga ngocansi online esanda kukhipha isidlidlizi sokuqala ngqa sobulili, u-Enby.

Ulungele ukufunda kabanzi ngama-strap-ons nokuthi yonke imizimba ingakujabulela kanjani ukudlala amahanisi? Qhubeka ufunde.

Ukudlala ibhande kungajabulisa wonke umuntu

Manje uqinisekile ukuthi umuntu onepipi angakujabulela kanjani ukudlala amahanisi? Nayi imininingwane ethe xaxa yokuthi ukugqoka noma ukusebenzisa i-strap-on ngesikhathi socansi kungaba mnandi ngisho nakubantu asebavele bane-phallus yabo.

"Ukugqoka izintambo zokubopha kungavumela abantu abane-penises abanokukhubazeka kwe-erectile noma abakhishwe ama-prostate ukuze benze ucansi futhi bajabulise abalingani babo ngendlela abajwayele ngayo," kuchaza uthisha wezocansi nobudlelwano uSarah Sloane, ukufundisa amakilasi abopha amabhande eGood Vibrations nakwiPleasure Chest kusukela ngo-2001.

Futhi kuyindlela yokuthi abantu bazame ukungena kabili, kusho yena. Amathuba - nobumnandi - akupheli!

Uma umuntu onepipi enomlingani onesitho sangasese, i-harness ingagqokwa ngumlingani wakhe ukufeza ukungena kwendunu.

Kwesinye isikhathi ibizwa ngokuthi ukukhonkotha, le ndlela yokungena endunu ingaba mnandi ngokumangazayo kubantu abanezitho zobudoda, kusho uBoyajian. “Indlala yesinye iphakathi kwamasentimitha ambalwa ngaphakathi kwendunu, ngasesiswini. Kwabanye, ukuvuselela indlala yesinye kungaveza imizwa ejabulisayo nama-orgasms angcono. ”

Futhi, ukukhonkotha kunganikeza ithuba lokuhlola amandla namandla wenjabulo okungenzeka angabi yingxenye yokudlala kwakho.

Inothi elibalulekile ekubambeni Uma ukudlala ngezinqe kusha ku-wheelhouse yakho yezocansi, ungaqali ngokukhonkotha. “Ufuna ukuhlola ukudlala ngezindunu ngezilimi, iminwe, amathoyizi amancane njengama-butt plugs, nangesikhathi sokushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kokuya ekuthini ubambe isikhonkwane,” kusho isazi sezocansi eMegan Stubbs, Ed.D. Lokhu kusiza ukulungiselela i-sphincter, noma iringi yemisipha ekugcineni kwe-rectum egcina i-anus ivinjelwe - ngaphandle kokuthi izinto zidinga ukudlula kuyo.

Ukudlala ngokukhonkotha kuvame ukufaka ithoyizi elikhudlwana kunomunwe noma ipulagi yezinqe, ngakho-ke uzofuna ukusebenza ngosayizi bese uvumelanisa nomuzwa wokungena futhi ugweme ubuhlungu noma ukungaphatheki kahle.

Ukudlala ngama-harness nakho kungajabulisa kakhulu kubanikazi bezitho zobulili ngesikhathi socansi. Ngokuya ngesimo somzimba wakho nalapho ubeka khona i-harness ye-thrust best, ukufaka i-harness kungaholela ku-clitoral noma i-orgasm yesitho sangasese sowesifazane-noma ngisho nokuhlanganisiwe.

Kubantu abaningi, ingxenye enkulu yenjabulo yokugqoka i-harness ukubuka umlingani wakho ejabulela umuzwa wokungena, kusho uStubbs. “Kunokusondelana okukhulu ekwazini ukungena kuzakwethu nokuba seduze kwabo. Umzimba wakho ungawumelana nawo ngqo futhi usebenzise izandla nemilomo ekuqabuleni nasekushayweni unhlangothi. ”

Kukhona nesici sokudlala ngokobulili esingajabulisa abanye. “Uma ungaphezi, ucansi oluboshwe ngamabhande lukuvumela ukuthi uphendukise ubulili obuhlukile. Uthatha okuthile okucatshangwa ukuthi kuqondile, futhi ubambe umgoqo kukho, ”kusho uSloane.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, "abanye abantu abangabesilisa abaphakathi nendawo, abasebenza ngobungqingili, noma abaziveza ngokuba neqhude, bangathola ukuthi ukugqoka noma ukugqoka i- strap-on kuzizwa kufanelekile ngobunikazi babo futhi kuqinisekisa ngendlela emangalisayo." Ukudlala ngokocansi ngomlomo okwenziwe nge-strap-on nakho kungashisa ngalesi sizathu.

Ekugcineni kokutholwa, abantu abane-vulvas bangakujabulela ukungena kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane noma kwendunu nge-strap-on.

"Ukungena kwesitho sangasese sangasese kungathokozisa abanye, ngenxa ye-G-spot, i-A-spot, umuzwa wokugcwala, namandla we-energy angavela," kusho uSloane.

I-A-spot, noma indawo yangaphakathi ye-fornix erogenous, iyindawo ebucayi yezicubu ekugcineni komsele wesitho sangasese sowesifazane. “Uma kukhuthazwa, lokhu kungakhuphula ukuvusa inkanuko, kusebenze ukuthanjiswa kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, futhi kuvuse isinungu,” kuchaza uBoyajian.

Ukudlala ngezitho zangasese nakho kungajabulisa kubantu abanezitho zangasese. "I-anus inezinkulungwane zeziphetho zezinzwa ezizwelayo ezigxile ezungeze imbobo nengxenye engaphandle ye-rectum," kusho uBoyajian. "Ukukhuthaza le ngxenye yomzimba, ebhangqwe yinjabulo yokwenza okuthile 'okuyi-taboo' kungavumela labo abanezitho zobufazi ukuba bangene ocansini ngokugcwele."

Ulungele ukuthenga i-strap-on? Cabanga ngezansi komhlahlandlela wakho wokuthenga ophelele wezintambo.

Ukukhetha ihhanisi

Ngamathani wezinketho zokubopha emakethe, ukuthola ukuthi iyiphi impahla, isitayela, nephuzu lentengo olifunayo okungathatha i-savvy ethile.

Ukuqala, noma ngabe unomlingani ohlela ukusebenzisa i-strap-on naye kungenza umehluko. “Uma unozakwethu engqondweni, qiniseka ukuthi ukuthenga kungumzamo ohlanganyelwe. Nizoyisebenzisa nobabili, ngakho-ke kufanele nobabili nibe nezwi emininingwaneni, ”kusho isazi sezocansi saseCalifornia uJill McDevitt, isazi sezocansi saseCalExotics.

Uma uthenga uwedwa, cabanga ngezidingo zakho nezinhlelo ozisebenzisayo ngaphambi kokuthenga. Nazi ezinye izinto eziwusizo.

Imibuzo okufanele uyibuze uma uthenga i-harness

• Uzosetshenziswa kanjani lo mkhiqizo? Ngobuphi ubulili obenzayo?
• Ngubani ozosebenzisa lo mkhiqizo futhi yiziphi izinhlobo zomzimba zabasebenzisi?
• Ngabe kubalulekile ukuthi ikwazi ukugezwa ngomshini?
• Ngizimisele ukusebenzisa malini?

Ukukhetha isitayela esifanele

Uma kukhulunywa ngokukhonkotha nokuya ocansini okungena ngaphakathi, kunezitayela ezimbili eziyinhloko zama-harnesses: izingubo zangaphansi nokubopha amabhande.

• Isitayela sangaphansi amahanisi abukeka njengezikhindi zangaphansi - kusuka kubashayi besibhakela kanye nezifinyezo kuya ezikhindi zabafana nezinsimbi, kunezitayela ezahlukahlukene.
• Isitayela sebhande amahanisi abizwa kanjalo ngenxa yemichilo yawo eguquguqukayo.

USloane uncoma izitayela zokubopha amabhande, ngoba uthi kulula ukulingana kahle emzimbeni futhi imvamisa banempilo eshalofini ende.

"Ufuna ukuthi amahhanisi akho akufanele njengebhulukwe le-jean obelizogqoka ekilabhini lapho ufuna ukuthi umuntu akuhlole ngempela: Lidinga ukushushumbisa" kusho uSloane. "Uma ikhebula lixhunywe ngokuqinile emzimbeni wakho, kulapho i-dildo izokwazi ukuhamba nomzimba wakho kangcono."

Uma ikhululeke kakhulu noma ingalingani, ungazizwa ungahlanganisiwe noma ungavumelanisiwe kusuka ku-dildo.

Kunokuphindaphindwa okumbalwa kwe-harness-on harness, kepha isitayela se-thong nesitayela se-jockstrap yizo ezivame kakhulu.

• I- isitayela se-thong imvamisa ikhululeke kakhudlwana kubantu abane-vulvas ngenxa yethambo lezintambo elihamba phakathi kwemilenze.
• I- isitayela se-jockstrap izobukeka njenge-jockstrap yakudala enezintambo ezizungeze izihlathi nezinqe ngasinye.

Yize zombili zisebenza ngokulingana, uma umuntu onepipi ezoligqoka, uMayla Green ofundisa ngocansi, umnikazi weTheAdultToyShop.com uphakamisa isitayela se-jockstrap, esizothokomala ngoba kunendawo yamasende.

Izincomo zokubopha ibhande

• Uma umusha ekudlaleni ngentambo, uStubbs uncoma i-Vac-U-Lock - umshini we-neoprene ongashintshwa ngomshini, oguquguqukayo kakhulu oqukethe osayizi bamasongo amabili okulula ukushintshanisa.
• Uma ufuna i-unisex harness enesici sokuzamazama sokuzikhethela, i-Stubbs ithi i-Body Extension harness iyinto enhle kakhulu. "Inezintambo eziguquguqukayo kanye ne-slimmer dildo profile eyenza kube kuhle ukuthi umuntu omusha adlale endunu."
• Uma unepipi futhi ufuna ihhanisi, uSloane uncoma iDeuce ngabakwaSpareParts."Leli bhande linamasongo amabili, elilodwa lizobamba ipipi, kanti elinye libambe isisekelo sedilozi."
• Uma ufuna i-harness engagqokwa ngozakwethu bezimo eziningi zomzimba, zama iJoque by SpareParts, kuphakamisa uSloane. Iyashintsha, iyagezwa ngomshini, futhi ngenxa yemichilo yesitayela se-jock, ingafakwa yinoma yimuphi umlingani. "Lokhu engikuthanda kakhulu ukukuncoma kubantu abanemizimba emikhulu," esho.
• Uma ufuna i-harness eshibhile kodwa esebenzayo, uSloane uncoma i-jock-style Uprize Harness. "Ku- $ 22 futhi ngezindlela ezi-4 zokuzivumelanisa nezimo, kuyinkambiso enhle yokuqala."
• Uma ufuna ibhande lesitayela eliqinile kakhulu, zama i-Cherry Bombin 'Roadster Harness, kuphakamisa uSloane.

Uma ukhetha ukubukeka kwehhanisi lesitayela sangaphansi, njengoba abantu abaningi abasanda kuhlanganyela ocansini bebhande, qiniseka ukuthatha izilinganiso ngokucophelela zamathanga akho nesinqe ngaphambi kokuthenga ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uthola usayizi ofanele.

Izincomo zokubopha izingubo zangaphansi

• Uma umusha ukubophela ukudlala futhi ufuna okuthile okulula ukukusebenzisa futhi okuzinzile, uSloane uphakamisa ukuthi kusho iTomboi Harness yiSpareParts, ebiza u- $ 90.
• Uma ufuna okuthile okuzwakala sengathi ugqoke izingubo zangaphansi nje, uMcDevitt uphakamisa iCalexotics Scandal Panty Set, ebukeka njengebhulukwe elithandekayo kodwa iza ne-dildo.
• Uma ufuna izingubo zangaphansi eziza ngezitayela ezahlukahlukene ongazisebenzisa ne-dildo yakho, zama lezo ezivela eRodeoh. "Inzuzo yalokhu ukuthi ungayiphonsa elondolo lapho usuqedile njenganoma yiziphi izingubo zangaphansi ezijwayelekile," kusho uSloane.

Uma usesabelomali - amahanisi ezingubo zangaphansi angabiza kancane - noma usuvele unayo i-strap-on harness futhi awufuni ukuthenga owesibili, ungagqoka amahanisi wesitayela oboshwe phezu kwezingubo zangaphansi ukuthola ukubukeka kwezingubo zangaphansi nokuzizwa ngokuzinza kwe-strap-on.

Cabanga ngezinto zokubopha

Manje njengoba usazi ukuthi yisiphi isitayela osifunayo, gcina izinto zokubopha engqondweni. Amahhanisi eza nezinto ezahlukahlukene kubandakanya intambo, isikhumba, i-neoprene, inayiloni, i-spandex, i-polyester, noma ukuxuba kwalokhu. Futhi, i-harness ingaba ne-dildo eyakhelwe ngaphakathi kepha imvamisa iza ngokwehlukana ukuze ukwazi ukuyinamathisela eyodwa.

Ufuna into ongayihlanza kalula, ikakhulukazi uma uzoyisebenzisa nabalingani abaningi.

“Okuthile okugezwa ngomshini kusho ukuthi ungayigeza futhi ungakhathazeki ngamagciwane noma ukudluliswa kwamagciwane,” kusho uSloane. Lokhu kuzokwenza ukuthi ukuphuma kwe-lube kube lula futhi.

Ngenkathi kufanele uhlolisise imiyalo yomkhiqizo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umkhiqizo ungagezeka ngomshini, uSloane uthi, zonke izinto zokubopha ezingezona izikhumba noma injoloba kufanele zibe njalo.

Ezinye izinto ezimbalwa okufanele uzikhumbule lapho uthenga i-harness

Amanye amahhanisi aboshwe ngamabhande, njenge-Velvet Vibrating Harness eyenziwe yiTantus, anepokhethi eyakhelwe ngaphakathi yesidlidlizi senhlamvu, esivumelana nayo uma ufuna ukushukunyiswa okuhlangene.

Amanye amahanisi aboshwe nawo afika ephaketheni elinendandatho yeqhude elidlidlizayo. "Ukwengeza indandatho yeqhude elidlidlizayo ku-dildo kuyindlela enhle yokwengeza ukudlidliza ngaphandle kokuzama i-dildo eshukumisayo," kusho uSloane. Kepha imvamisa ungathola iringi yokudlidliza engaphansi kwama- $ 5, okuvame ukushibha kunokuthenga iphakethe le-combo pack.

Ekugcineni, amanye amahanisi azoba nezindandatho ezingashintshwa, kanti ezinye zinamasongo abekwe unomphela. Endabeni yokugcina, qiniseka ukuthi iringi izolingana ne-dildo yakho noma uhlele ukuyithenga.

Manje, udinga ukukhetha i-dildo

Njengakwi-harness, ubukhulu, isitayela, nezinto ezibonakalayo ze-dildo konke kubalulekile. Ake siqale ngezinto ezibonakalayo.

Amathoyizi ocansi abhekwa njengezinto ezintsha, okusho ukuthi azilawulwa yi-Food and Drug Administration (FDA). Lokho kusho ukuthi kufanele wazi ukuthi ngabe into yokudlala iphephile yini emzimbeni noma inesibindi.

"Uzofuna okokusebenza okungavuni, ikakhulukazi uma ithoyizi lizofakwa endunu lapho kunamagciwane amaningi khona," kusho uStubbs.

Izinto ezidabukisayo zingabamba amagciwane ngaphakathi kwento yokudlala, kwenze kube nzima ukuyihlanza futhi kungabi efanelekile ukusetshenziselwa ngaphakathi naseduze kwesitho sakho sangasese.

Izinto zokwakha ezingekho emthethweni zifaka:

• abicah
• insimbi engagqwali
• ingilazi
• I-Pyrex
• Amapulasitiki e-ABS

Ngokuya ocansini okokuqala ngqa, uStubbs uphakamisa ithoyizi le-silicone. Lezi zivame ukusinda kancane futhi kube lula ukuzilawula kunengilazi engenasici engilazi. Futhi, inokupha okuningi ngakho-ke kungenzeka ikhululeke kakhudlwana kumlingani otholayo.

Hlala wazi: Uma uzosebenzisa ibhande-ukungena ukungena ngokungafani nokushaya indlwabu noma ukudlala ngomlomo, awufuni ithoyizi le-silicone elithambile kakhulu, njengeCyberskin noma i-Ultra Skin.

"Kuzoba yinselele ukuwafaka ngaphandle kokudinga ukuphatha i-shaft ngesandla sakho sonke isikhathi," kusho uStubbs. Ukubheja kwakho okuhle kakhulu ukuphatha ithoyizi ngesandla sakho bese uhlola ukuthi liyadlikiza kangakanani. Cabanga ngokuthi lokho kungazwakala kanjani ngaphakathi komzimba wakho, noma komunye umuntu.

Izinto okufanele uzigweme zifaka:

• injoloba ye-thermoplastic (TPR)
• i-thermoplastic elastomer (TPE)
• i-polyvinyl chloride (i-PVC)

"Uma uthenga i-porous dildo, kuzofanele usebenzise ikhondomu nayo njalo futhi uyihlanze ngokucophelela," kusho uSloane.

Uma ungenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi kwenziwa yini i-dildo, zama ukufunda imininingwane yomkhiqizo noma ucele usizo kumthengisi uma uthenga esitolo samathoyizi esidala.

Ukukha umumo nosayizi ofanele

I-dildo yakho kufanele ihambisane nezidingo zakho kanye nezifiso zokudlala i-harness. Ukuphinda, uma unozakwethu ohlela ukusebenzisa i-dildo kuyo noma, mhambise esitolo uma.

“Wonke umuntu unezifiso ezingafani, ngakho-ke khuluma ngokusobala nomlingani wakho ngobukhulu nangamabhande abathandayo,” kusho uSloane. Uma zizongenwa, ungahle uzikhethe kubo i-dildo.

Imibuzo okufanele uyibuze ngaphambi kokuthenga i-dildo

• Ngizosebenzisa kanjani leli dildo?
• Ngabe ngifuna i-dildo ebukeka njengepipi noma enamabhola?
• Ngabe ngifuna ukuthi kube umbala wesikhumba sami noma somlingani wami noma ngincamela omunye umbala?
• Yibuphi ubude nobukhulu obulungele ukuthi ngizosebenzisa i-dildo?
• Ngabe ngifuna i-dildo ebushelelezi noma enombhalo?
• Ngabe ngifuna i-dildo iphindwe kabili njenge-packer (egqokwe ngaphansi kwezingubo ukudala ukukhohlisa kwepipi)?

"Cishe uzosebenzisa kakhulu i-dildo engamasentimitha angu-5 kuya kwangu-6 ubude no-1.5 kuya ku-1.75 amayintshi ububanzi," kusho uSloane. Lokho kungahle kube kukhulu kakhulu kumlingani wakho, ikakhulukazi uma kusanda kukhonkotha noma ukungena.

Ithiphu enhle ngosayizi phansi, ikakhulukazi uma usaqala. “Ungahle uyibuke bese ucabanga, Lokho kuncane kakhulu! Kepha uma ungakaze uzame ukuziluma noma ukungena ngaphambilini, nakanjani uqale ube mncane kunalokho ocabanga, ”usho kanje. Ngokuyisisekelo, ungabi mkhulu, uye ekhaya, bese uqaphela ukuthi kukhulu kakhulu.

Kubalulekile futhi ukubheka ukwakheka kwe-dildo. "Kwabanye abalingani, ukuthungwa kungacasula," kusho uSloane. Lokho kusho ukuthi, uma uzakwethu engenile esebenzise futhi wajabulela ama-plugs we-butt aqoshiwe, ama-dildos (angaxhunywanga ku-harness), noma amathoyizi e-G-spot, kunesizathu sokukholelwa ukuthi bazothokozela isipiliyoni esenziwe ngombala.

Cabanga ngokuthi ngabe ufuna ukwazi ukugqoka i-dildo noma cha - futhi eyaziwa nangokuthi ukupakisha. Ukusuka kokuguquguqukayo kwamandla kuya ekudlaleni kobulili nokuvuma, lokhu kungakhanga ngempela kwabanye abantu. Uma i-dildo ingagoqwa noma ifakwe phansi, noma ingaphindeka kabili njenge-packer, izosho njalo encazelweni yomkhiqizo.

Ezinye izincomo ze-dildo

• Uma wena nomlingani wakho nisha ukuhlanganyela ocansini, zama iTantus Silk Small, engena enkulu noma ephakathi. “Uma umlingani wakho enovalo ngokungena, kulula, kuba ngcono. Lokhu kubushelelezi futhi kubukeka cishe njengomunwe, ”kusho uSloane.
• Uma umusha futhi ufuna ithoyizi elingokoqobo, uSloane uphakamisa iSpur VixSkin nguVixen. Ngobubanzi obungu-5.75 inches nobubanzi obungu-1.12 inches, ilusayizi omuhle wama-novice wezintambo.
• Uma ufuna i-dildo engokoqobo, zama iNew York Toy Collective. "Banokuma okuyiqiniso ngemibala engokoqobo - nemibala engeyona eyeqiniso uma uthanda lokho," kusho uSloane. ISilo sithandwa kakhulu ngekhanda elivelele elenza likwazi ukukhuthaza i-G-spot. Futhi, iguquguquka ngokwanele ukuba ifakwe.
• Uma ufuna i-dildo eyenzelwe ngokukhethekile imizimba emikhulu, zama iMason ye-NYTC. Yinde, yenza kube lula ukuyisebenzisa, ngaphandle kwebhande elifakiwe.

Qiniseka ukuthi i-dildo yakho ne-strap-on yakho iyahambisana

Amanye amahanisi angasetshenziswa ngobukhulu obuhlukahlukene be-dildo, kanti amanye angasetshenziswa kuphela nosayizi othile. “Ufuna ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi isisekelo noma iringi yehhanisi ilingene elizobamba i-dildo,” kusho uSloane.

Futhi, ukuzinza kuyisihluthulelo sokulawula. Uma usesitolo sezocansi futhi ungakwazi, zama lokhu ndawonye. Uma lokho kungenzeki, yenza iluphu ngeminwe yakho ubukhulu bendandatho. Ngemuva kwalokho, zama ukudonsa i-dildo. "Uma i-dildo base ishwabana kangangoba ingena, ungahle udinge indandatho encane," kusho uSloane.

Thenga (bese usebenzisa!) I-lube - inkatho!

Akunandaba ukuthi uhlela ukuyisebenzisa kanjani i-strap-on yakho, uzofuna i-lube.

"I-anus ayizithambisi, ngakho-ke i-lube yinto efanelekile ekudlaleni kwendunu," kusho uBoyajian. “Noma ngabe uvuleke kanjani, akukho okuzovimbela ukungezwani okungafuneki ngaphandle kokuthi ufake i-lube. Lokhu akusizi nje kuphela ukuvikela ama-microtear abuhlungu, kodwa kuzokwenza nendlela yocansi lwendunu ibe mnandi kakhulu, ”kusho bona.

Ngenkathi isitho sangasese sowesifazane sizithambisa ngokwaso, imvamisa sithambisa kuphela imizuzu engama-30 yokungena, kusho uSloane. Kumahluko phakathi kwento ezizwa imnandi futhi ingazizwa imnandi, ngakho-ke qiniseka ukusebenzisa nokuqhubeka ufake i-lube ngesikhathi socansi.

Ngenkathi kunezinketho eziningi ezahlukahlukene ze-lube emakethe, khumbula: Ama-lubes asuselwe abicah awanakusetshenziswa nge-dildo esekwe ngabicah ngoba ithoyizi lizokwehlisa isithunzi. Njengoba uSloane esho, "Ayikho into edabukisa njengokufaka i-lube esusicone ku-dildo yakho entsha bese uyibona iqala ukubukeka." Iphuzu elifanele.

Uma usebenzisa ithoyizi, gcoba i-lube womabili kusihloko sedilo nomgodi ozongenwa. Lokhu kuzosiza isilayidi se-dildo ukungena kalula.

Ukujwayela amahanisi akho

Manje njengoba unamathoyizi akho, isinyathelo esilandelayo ukujwayela ukuwasebenzisa!

“Ngiphakamisa ukuthi abantu bazinike isikhathi sokudlala ngayo bodwa,” kusho uSloane. Yigqoke, thola lapho udinga khona i-dildo ukuze uhlale ukuze uzizwe ulawula, ushaya indlwabu ngayo, wakhe ukuzethemba ngokuthi umzimba wakho uhamba futhi usebenza kanjani nethoyizi.

"Ngaphezu kwengxenye yokuthokozela ucansi oboshwe ngentambo ukuzizwa unentambo ku-strap-on, ngakho-ke ngincoma ukuthi abantu bafinyelele ezingeni lokuzethemba ngaphambi kokulisebenzisa nomlingani wakho," esho.

Uma unomzimba omkhulu, uSloane unikeza lesi siphakamiso esilandelayo: “Uma uhlela ukwenza ucansi lokungena nomlingani wakho, zama ukufaka i-harness engxenyeni enkulu yesisu sakho, cishe isigamu sebanga eliphakathi kwendunduma yenkaba nenkinobho yesisu bese ubona ukuthi lokho kuzwakala kanjani ”Uqhubeka athi:" Lokhu kuzokunikeza ukulawula okuningi ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ngamasentimitha e-dildo ngesikhumba nangomzimba. "

Yiba nesineke - futhi ujabulele

“Ukuhlola kwakho ngehhanisi play kungenzeka kungabi umugqa noma kuqonde njengezinye izinhlobo zokudlala ngocansi,” kusho uBoyajian. "Kungathatha isikhathi ukuthola ukuthi yimaphi amathoyizi azwakala kahle kuwe, yiziphi izikhundla ezikhululeke kakhulu, nokuthi uthanda ukungena kanjani."

Ngakho-ke, bekezela ngenqubo, lalela umzimba wakho, futhi ujabulele lokhu kungezwa okusha.

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