Yini Ongayilindela Ku-Orgasm Yomzimba Ogcwele, iSolo noma i-Partner

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• Ingabe lokhu empeleni kuyinto?
• Ngabe kuya ngesimo sakho?
• Ngabe kuyenzeka ngokwako, noma kungumkhuba wenhloso?
• Ngakho… uqala kuphi?
• Vimbela uhlelo lwakho
• Nethezeka
• Adonse umoya
• Ukubhucungwa
• Ngena emoyeni
• Thola eyakho izwi ibhokisi lokububula
• Thola izandla
• Hlanganisa ukuzwa
• Yakha, bese ubuyela phansi
• Ngabe izikhundla ezithile zisebenza kangcono kunezinye?
• Kuthiwani ngamathoyizi ocansi?
• Kuthiwani uma uzama ukunikeza umlingani wakho eyodwa - ngabe udinga ukwenza okuhlukile?
• Kuthiwani uma kungenzeki lutho?
• Okubalulekile

Sifaka imikhiqizo esicabanga ukuthi ilusizo kubafundi bethu. Uma uthenga ngezixhumanisi ezikuleli khasi, singathola ikhomishini encane. Nansi inqubo yethu.

Cula nathi: Heaaaad, amahlombe, imomozi / peen nezinzwane.

Cabanga uma - ngaphandle nje kokuba yirekhodi elidala lomculo wabantwana - lokho bekuwuhlu (lwezinye nje) zezitho zomzimba ezibandakanyeka kwi-orgasm.

Yebo, ku-orgasms yomzimba ogcwele, kunjalo.

“Ama-orgasms omzimba agcwele abhekisele kuma-orgasms amakhulu kakhulu azwakala sengathi akulo lonke ilungu lomzimba wakho,” kusho umqeqeshi wezocansi oqinisekisiwe uGigi Engle, iWomanizer sexpert kanye nombhali we “All The F cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Uthando Nokuphila. ”

"Izinzwane zakho zingagobeka, i-abs yakho iqinise, imilenze yakho ingaxhuma, ngisho neminwe yaziwa ngokundikindiki," kusho u-Engle.

Uthakazekile? Yebo ukhona. Qhubeka ufunde ukuze ufunde kabanzi.

Ingabe lokhu empeleni kuyinto?

Ubheja i-bum yakho - nayo yonke ibhod yakho eshisayo - kunjalo!

Eqinisweni, kunezindlela ezimbili eziyinhloko zokufeza "imisindo emnandi kakhulu ukuthi ingaba yiqiniso" i-orgasm yomzimba ogcwele:

1. Indlela ye-tantric, ebandakanya inhlanganisela yokuphefumula okujulile, amandla "okuhambisa," nokubekezela.
2. Futhi yini esizoyiqamba "indlela yokubeka," okubandakanya ukubeka imizwa ehlukene nezindawo ezinobungozi ngaphezulu komunye nomunye. (Isibonelo: clit + G-spot + nipples.)

Ngamanye amagama, kukhona umzila wakho kokubili futhi kancane woo-woo phakathi kwethu.

Ngabe kuya ngesimo sakho?

Ningesabi, banikazi bepipi, lokhu akuyona nje eyabanikazi bezitho zangasese! "Noma ngubani angaba ne-orgasm yomzimba ogcwele, kungakhathalekile izitho zobulili noma izitho zocansi," kusho u-Engle. Woot!

Ngendlela ye-tantric, inqubo icishe ifane, kungakhathalekile ukuthi iyini futhi iyibhithi.

Ngokwendlela yokubeka, i ethize izindawo ezine-erogenous ungqimba ngaphezulu komunye nomunye zizohluka ngomzimba.

Ngabe kuyenzeka ngokwako, noma kungumkhuba wenhloso?

Kuphakathi / noma!

“Kwesinye isikhathi ukugcwala komzimba kugcwele ukumangala okwenzeka lapho uhlola inqubo entsha yobulili, isikhundla, noma ithoyizi,” kusho uSearah Deysach, ofundisa ngocansi isikhathi eside futhi ongumnikazi we-Early to Bed, inkampani yemikhiqizo yobumnandi ezinze eChicago .

Wake wasebenzisa i-vibe kanogwaja ngenkathi umlingani wakho ephulula isifuba sakho? Noma ugqoke i-massager ye-prostate ngenkathi uthola ngomlomo? Ingabe i-orgasm ngisho nangaphezulu, kahle, umabhebhana kunokujwayelekile? Izinkinga zingafaneleka njenge-orgasm yomzimba ogcwele!

Lokho kusho ukuthi, "abanye abantu bafuna ama-orgasms asemzimbeni ogcwele futhi basebenze ukuziqeqesha ukuba nabo," kusho uDeysach.

Ngakho… uqala kuphi?

Kupholile, kupholile, ngakho-ke usekamu labantu abafuna injabulo abazama ngamandla ukuba ne-orgasm yomzimba ogcwele. Akunandaba ukuthi ubheka kanjani, lezi zeluleko zingasiza.

Vimbela uhlelo lwakho

I-orgasm yomzimba ogcwele (mhlawumbe) akuyona into ozoba nayo ngesikhathi semizuzu eyi-10 esheshayo.

"Bekela eceleni isikhathi sangempela sokuhlola," kusho uCaitlin V, MPH, udokotela wezocansi waseRoyal, inkampani evumelana ne-vegan kanye nenkampani yokugcoba.

Sikhuluma ngeSonto lonke ntambama, bakithi!

Nethezeka

Ukuzifakela ingcindezi yokuba nomzimba ogcwele u-O okuphambene wokukhululeka.

Zikhumbuze: Iphuzu lokuhlola ama-orgasms omzimba ogcwele akusho ukuthi kufanele ube ne-orgasm yomzimba ogcwele kepha uku:

• funda kabanzi ngomzimba wakho
• khulisa ukuqonda kwakho kobumnandi

Adonse umoya

"Ukuphefumula kungakhipha injabulo enkulu kakhulu, kungakumangaza," kusho uBarbara Carrellas, i-ACS, AASECT, uchwepheshe we-tantra nomlobi we "Urban Tantra: Ucansi Olungcwele Ngekhulu Lamashumi Amabili Nanye."

"Ekugcineni, uzothola ukuthi ukuphefumula kungakusiza ukuletha amandla ezocansi empilweni yakho."

Utusa ukuzama into ebizwa ngokuthi “umoya ongaphansi.”

Ukuyinikeza:

1. Hlala unqamule imilenze, umgogodla uqonde.
2. Beka izandla zakho esiswini sakho, bese usikhulule ngokuphelele isisu sakho ukuze sinwebe ezandleni zakho.
3. Khipha wonke umoya emaphashini akho.
4. Ngasikhathi sinye phefumulela emlonyeni wakho ngenkathi ukhipha ingquza yakho ngobumnene. (Ngokuzimisela. Cabanga ukuthi indunu yakho iqabula phansi.)
5. Khipha ngomlomo wakho, ugcine i-anus yakho lapho ikhona.
6. Phinda.

Akungabazeki, kuzwakala kuwacky kancane. Kodwa "uzozizwa ukhululekile futhi ugcwele yonke indawo," kusho uCarrellas.

Enye indlela uCainlin V athi ingasebenza ngokulinganayo (futhi ayibandakanyi ingquza yakho) ukuphefumula okuyindilinga.

Ukuzama lokhu:

1. Ukugcina izindebe zihlukaniswe kancane nomhlathi ukhululekile, phefumula ngomlomo wakho.
2. Yizwa ngemuva umphimbo wakho uphumule, bese uvumela umoya uwe phakathi kwezindebe zakho.
3. Phinda, ucabange umoya ohamba ngephethini eyindilinga.

Uma uthatha indlela ye-tantric, uCarrellas uncoma ukuthi uhlale lapha futhi uqhubeke nokugxila ekuhambeni komoya.

Njengoba wenza kanjalo:

1. Hambisa izinkalo zakho ngokukhululeka.
2. Yenza noma imiphi imisindo ize ngokwemvelo.
3. Yazisa nge-perineum yakho (indawo ephakathi kwezitho zakho zangasese ne-bum).
4. Zijwayeze ukuvumelanisa izingqinamba zaphansi okhalo nomoya wakho.
5. Hlala nayo.

Ngokusho kukaCarrellas, uzoqala ukuba nokushaywa, ukuzwa okubanzi okusabalale emzimbeni wakho wonke. Umzimba? I-Pfft, kufana ne-blissgasm.

Ukubhucungwa

Uma uhlola nomlingani wakho, cela umlingani wakho akubhucuze ngamafutha abalulekile anuka kamnandi.

Uma uwedwa, hlola ukuzihlikihla usebenzisa i-lotion yakho oyithandayo.

Izitho zomzimba ezizogxila kuzo:

• izingibe namahlombe
• emuva emuva
• amathole
• phansi kwezinyawo
• izingalo zangaphambili

Ngena emoyeni

Kungenzeka ukuthi usuvele uqale ukuzwa amandla we-erotic akha. Yakhe ngokwengeziwe ngosizo lwe:

• izithombe zocansi
• amanyala alalelwayo
• ukufunda ngokuzwakalayo izindima ezikwenza uvuse inkanuko
• inganekwane
• inkulumo engcolile

U-Engle uthi: “Uma ungumuntu owesabayo, kungcono. Sawubona, ama-oda othisha wezocansi!

Thola eyakho izwi ibhokisi lokububula

Ayikho eyodwa umsindo ohlotshaniswa ne-orgasm yomzimba ogcwele, kepha ukwenza imisindo ye-guttural njengo "oh" no- "ah" kungakusiza ukuthi ufike lapho, ngokusho kukaDeysach.

"Kodwa ungagxili kakhulu emisindweni oyikhiphayo," esho. “Yenza nje imisindo izwakale kahle.”

Thola izandla

"Sebenza kusuka ngaphandle ngaphakathi," kusho u-Engle. Okushoyo, chitha isikhathi esithile koku:

• amathanga angaphakathi
• isisu esingezansi
• indunduma yenkantini
• amalaba
• i-perineum
• amabhola
• izicubu zesifuba
• izingono
• ingxenye eyinyama ye-bum yakho

Ngemuva kwesikhashana, u-Engle uncoma ukuvuselela isiponji se-urethral (aka G-spot) noma i-prostate (aka P-spot).

Zombili lezi zindawo ezine-erogenous zaziwa ngokungaziwa ngokukhiqiza ama-orgasms azizwa enamandla ngokwengeziwe.

Hlanganisa ukuzwa

"Ama-orgasms omzimba ogcwele kungenzeka kakhulu uma uhlanganisa izinhlobo eziningi zokuvuselela ucansi," kusho u-Engle. Cabanga: I-G-spot + clitoris + ingquza. Noma, ingono + yepipi.

Uthi: “Lapho ukuphela kwezinzwa kuhileleka, i-orgasm iyaqina.”

Yakha, bese ubuyela phansi

Okwaziwa nangokuthi ukuhlela, lokhu kulapho uziletha khona emaphethelweni e-orgasm bese ubuyela phansi… kaninginingi.

Ngokusho kukaCaitlin V, ukwenza kanjalo kuzokwenza ukuthi i-orgasm yokugcina ibe namandla kakhulu (funda: umzimba ogcwele).

Ngabe izikhundla ezithile zisebenza kangcono kunezinye?

"Kuncane ngesikhundla esisodwa esithile nangaphezulu ngokushintsha phakathi kwezikhundla ezahlukahlukene nemizwa," kusho uCaitlin V.

Uyanezela ukuthi ukhiye ukwehluka, ukulindela, nesikhathi.

Lokho kusho, ukuvuselelwa kwe-G-spot ne-P-spot kukhona kucatshangelwe ukukhulisa amathuba okuba nomzimba ogcwele.

Ngakho-ke, uma une-G-spot, ungazama:

• isithunywa sevangeli esiphakamisiwe (isithunywa sevangeli sinomcamelo ngaphansi kwezinqe zakho)
• umgibeli ngaphezulu
• isitayela sezinja

Konke lokhu okuthathu kukuvumela ukuthi uguqule i-angle ukuze ushaye i-G-spot yakho.

Futhi uma une-prostate, ungahlola:

• ukuciphiza izitho zangemuva (noma ukushaya ngisho nokushaya endunu uma uyi-Anal Play Expert)
• inja yezinja
• isithunywa sevangeli esiphakamisiwe

Lezi zikhundla ezifanayo zizosebenza uma uthokozela i-solo sesh. Kepha esikhundleni sokuthi uzakwethu akungene, uzobe uzingenela ngeminwe noma ngamathoyizi.

Kuthiwani ngamathoyizi ocansi?

I-TBH, noma iliphi ithoyizi elinegama elithi "G-spot" noma "prostate" kusihloko kufanele likuhlole. Thatha lezi, ngokwesibonelo, ezingathengwa ku-inthanethi:

• Isidlidlizi se-Dame Arc G-spot
• I-Le Wand Bow G-spot & P-indawo ye-wand
• We-Vibe vector wendlala massager
• ULeo Hugo isidlidliza i-prostate massager

Lokho kusho ukuthi, u-Engle uthi abalingisi bezocansi bomlomo abanjengo-We-Vibe Melt neWomanizer Starlet 2.0 nabo bangenza iqhinga.

"Abayithinti ngqo i-clitoris, engasiza ekwakheni ukungezwani esiswini nasemisipha ezokhishwa ngesikhathi se-orgasm," kusho u-Engle.

Okungcono futhi: Sebenzisa amathoyizi amaningi ocansi ndawonye ngasikhathi sinye.

“Zama ukufaka izibopho zezingono ngenkathi ufaka ipulagi yesinqe futhi usebenzisa isidlidlizi ngasikhathi sinye,” kusho uCaitlin V. “Noma ukufaka i-massage massager ngenkathi usebenzisa i-stroker stroker.”

Kuthiwani uma uzama ukunikeza umlingani wakho eyodwa - ngabe udinga ukwenza okuhlukile?

Okokuqala, qala ukhiphe izisusa zakho.

Kungani ufuna ukuhlola ukugcwala komzimba okugcwele nomlingani wakho? Ingabe kungenxa yokuthi kuzokwenza uzizwe uthanda ~ all lover onamandla ~?

"I-Ego ayisona neze isizathu esihle sokuhlola okuthile ngokocansi," kusho u-Engle. Qiniseka ukuthi ubuza lo Q ngoba ama-orgasms asemzimbeni ogcwele uyinto yakho futhi umlingani wakho unentshisekelo yokuhlola ndawonye.

Okulandelayo, khumbula ukuthi “awukwazi ngempela yenza i-orgasm yomuntu othile - ungabasiza bafike lapho, ”kusho uDeysach.

"Ongakwenza ukuthi ubavumele (kanye nezimpawu zabo ezingakhulumi nangamazwi) babe ngumhlahlandlela wakho," uyanezela.

Ngakho-ke, uma bethi "khona lapho!" hlalani lapho. Futhi uma bethi “Lokho! Lokho! ” yenza lokho.

"Futhi uma uhlola ukuhlela, qiniseka ukuthi wena nomlingani wakho niyakwazi ukuxhumana uma besondela ukuze nazi lapho niphindela emuva," kusho uCaitlin V.

Ngoba abantu abaningi be-orgasm-bazivimba ngokubamba umoya, uDeysach futhi uncoma ukukhuthaza i-boo yakho ukuthi iphefumule.

Noma, ukusondelana ngokwengeziwe: Bakhuthaze ukuba baphefumule ngokuvumelanisa nge wena.

Kuthiwani uma kungenzeki lutho?

Lokho kuyi-A-OK, kusho uCaitlin V: "Manje usunemininingwane eyengeziwe ngalokho okwenzayo nokungakuletheli injabulo owawungenayo ngaphambili!"

Ungayisebenzisa le Intel ngesikhathi sokufakwa kwakho ocansini esikhathini esizayo ngenjabulo eyandisiwe.

Okubalulekile

Ama-orgasms aphelele angaba, kahle, aphelele. Kepha lokho akusho ukuthi zithokozisa kakhulu, ziyajabulisa, zinesimo sezulu, zisondelene, ziyakhulula, noma ziyaqapheleka kunanoma yiluphi olunye uhlobo lwe-orgasm.

Uma ufuna ukuhlola i-O ephelele yomzimba? Kuhle. Phefumula, hamba kancane, xhumana, futhi uhlanganise.

Futhi uma kungenjalo? Qhubeka ufune injabulo nganoma iziphi izindlela (zomthetho, ezivumelanayo, ezazi ubungozi) ezikitaza (ahemfancy.

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