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Izinzuzo zokuncelisa azinakuphikiswa. Kodwa ucwaningo olusha lungabaza umthelela wobuhlengikazi emakhonweni engqondo esikhathi eside engane

Ucwaningo oluthi, "Ukuncelisa, Ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kanye nokungaqondi kahle ebuntwaneni: Ucwaningo lwabantu," olushicilelwe kumagazini ka-April 2017. Izifo zezingane, ibheke imindeni eyi-8,000 evela kuqoqo lezinsana ezikhula isikhathi eside i-Growing Up in Ireland. Abaphenyi basebenzise imibiko yabazali nothisha kanye nokuhlola okulinganiselwe ukuqonda indlela izingane eziziphatha ngayo, ulwazimagama oluchazayo, namakhono okuqonda abaneminyaka emi-3 nengu-5 ubudala. Imininingwane yokuncelisa ibele ibikiwe ngomama.

Ucwaningo lwangaphambilini luthole ukuxhumana phakathi kokuncelisa ibele okungenani izinyanga eziyisithupha nokuxazulula izinkinga kangcono lapho uneminyaka engu-3. Kodwa-ke, kulolu cwaningo olusha, abacwaningi banqume ukuthi ngeminyaka emihlanu ubudala, wawungekho umehluko ophawulekayo ngokwezibalo zamakhono okuqonda phakathi kwalezo zingane ababenceliswa ibele nalabo ababenganikwanga.

Kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi lolu cwaningo lunemikhawulo - okungukuthi, alukwazi ukubhekelela ezinye izinto eziningi ezinomthelela kumakhono wokuqonda ezingane.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, lolu cwaningo aluguquli isincomo se-AAP sokuthi omama kufanele bancelise ibele kuphela ezinyangeni eziyisithupha zokuqala futhi baqhubeke nokuncelisa unyaka owodwa nangaphezulu njengoba kwethulwa nokudla. Futhi ekuphawuleni okuhambisana nalolu cwaningo, "Ukuncelisa ibele: Sazi ini, futhi Sisukaphi Lapha?," ULydia Furman, MD, ugcizelela izinzuzo eziningi zokuncelisa, kufaka phakathi ukuthi kufakazelwa ukuthi kunciphisa "zonke izimbangela nokufa kwezingane okuhlobene nokutheleleka, ukushona okungazelelwe okuhlobene nokufa kwezinsana, kanye nomdlavuza webele womama kanye nengozi yenhliziyo nemithambo yegazi. "

Kepha, uDkt. Furman uyabhala, ucwaningo futhi "lungumthelela ocabangelayo ezincwadini zokuncelisa ibele futhi empeleni alutholanga mphumela wokuncelisa ibele emandleni okuqonda."

Umbhali wocwaningo uLisa-Christine Girard, Ph.D., uMarie-Curie Research Fellow e-University College Dublin, utshele i-Parents.com, "Inkolelo yokuthi izingane ezincela ibele zinenzuzo ekukhuleni kwazo kwengqondo, ikakhulukazi, ibe yisihloko esithi mpikiswano isikhathi esingaphezu kwekhulu manje. Okudinga ukugcizelelwa lapha umbono we imbangela. Izingane ezinceliswa ibele zivame ukuthola amaphuzu aphezulu ngezinyathelo zekhono lazo lokuqonda ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kepha lokhu, ngokuyinhloko, kungaba ngumphumela wezinye izinto ezihambisana nokukhethwa komama ekunceliseni ibele. "

Wengeze wathi, "Imiphumela yethu izophakamisa ukuthi ukuncelisa ingane ngayinye, kungenzeka kungabi njalo i isizathu esiyimbangela 'sezingane ezihlakaniphile,' yize singase sihlotshaniswe nezici zomama. "

Ukuthatha kwabazali? UDkt. Girard uthi, "Kwabomama abakwaziyo, ukuncelisa ibele kuhlinzeka ngomcebo wezinzuzo ezibhaliwe kubo bobabili umama nezingane, futhi kubalulekile ukugcizelela ukuthi okutholakele kwethu, maqondana nokuthuthuka kwengqondo ikakhulukazi, akususi ngalutho kulokhu. Ngaphezu kwalokho , okutholakele kwethu uqobo kukhombisa izinzuzo eziqondile zokuncelisa ukuncipha kokungasebenzi kahle ebuntwaneni, yize umphumela umncane futhi ubonakala uphila isikhashana. "

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