Okuwukuphela Kwento Ezothola U-Candace Cameron Bure Ukuphendula Kumazwana Anenzondo Ku-inthanethi

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Ngenkathi uCandace Cameron Bure ebamba iqhaza Ukubuka amasizini amabili, imibono yakhe elandela imithetho yadala inkulumo-mpikiswano phakathi kwabaphathi bamazwe akanye nabo, kodwa uthi wenza umzamo wokungahlali nomphakathi lapho izinto sezishuba. "Ekupheleni kosuku ngangihlale ngifuna ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi uma ngikhuluma futhi ngiveza imibono yami ukuthi izinto zinomusa futhi zihloniphekile ngisho noma singavumelani," kusho uBure. Umumo. Isikhathi sakhe ohlelweni lwezingxoxo saba yisici esikhuthazayo ekubhaleni incwadi yakhe entsha Unomusa Uhlobo Olusha: Amandla Okuphila Ngomusa. Izincwadi ze-Etiquette zingase zingashisi njengoba zazinjalo emashumini eminyaka adlule, kodwa eminyakeni yobudala ye-inthanethi, kulungile ukusho ukuthi wonke umuntu angasebenzisa isifundo sokuvuselela ngomusa okwamanje.

Iseluleko se- I-Fuller House Umlingisikazi unikeza encwadini yakhe kusebenza kuzo zombili izimo ze-IRL (funda: Amadili okudumisa nomndeni owandisiwe) nokuxhumana okuku-inthanethi. Unikeza ngamathiphu okuhamba ezimweni emsebenzini, ekhaya, kanye nabangane, nezeluleko zokuthi uhlale kanjani uzolile ngaphansi kwengcindezi futhi ubhekane nokugxekwa okungalungile. UBure uthi ujwayele ukuzama ukunganaki noma yikuphi ukuphawula okungathandeki online, ngaphandle okumbalwa. “Kunezinto ezithile engingeke ngiziyeke,” usho kanje. "Uma othile ekhuluma ngezingane zami-ngiyibhele, ngakho-ke ngeke ngihlale ngigoqekile ngivumele lezo zinhlobo zezinto zidlule," usho kanje. Ukhethelwe nokuthi akhulume uma imibono ephoxa umzimba ibhekiswe kumqeqeshi wakhe uKira Stokes. Eqinisweni, ukuphawula okugxekayo ngoStokes "obukeka njengendoda" kusize ekuvuseleleni ukunyakaza kwe-Mind Your Own Shape okuhlose ukwenza i-Intanethi indawo enomusa. “Ngizamile ukumvikela ngesikhathi behlasela umzimba wakhe omuhle onemisipha,” kusho uBure. "Ngizohlala nginamathela kubangani bami." (Nanku obunye ubufakazi bokuthi lezi zinhloso ze- # FitnessFriends.)

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngesikhathi i-troll isanda kuqhathanisa isidumbu sika-Bure nesomyeni wakhe, uthathe isinqumo sokuphendula lowo obephawula, kodwa ngaphandle kokuziphendulela. Usikisela ukusabela ekuhlazekeni umzimba ngokugxila ezintweni ozithandayo ngomzimba wakho, noma ngabe ukhetha ukuphendula obala. "Noma ngabe uhlazeka emzimbeni noma kukhona umuntu obhala ukuphawula ngawe, into yokugcina ofuna ukuyenza wukuhlasela, ngoba kuvele kubhebhethekise umlilo futhi akekho ozozizwa kahle ekugcineni kwawo," kusho uBure. (Okuhlobene: Kungani Ukuhlazeka Ngomzimba Kuyinkinga Enkulu Kangaka nokuthi Yini Ongayenza Ukuyiyeka)

U-Bure unamasu ambalwa awabelana ngawo encwadini ukuze ahlale enomusa ngisho noma othile engena ngaphansi kwesikhumba sakho noma eshaya ngaphansi kwebhande. Lapho izinto seziqala ukufuthelana, thatha umoya omuhle ngaphambi kokuphendula. Uphakamisa nokuthi uzame konke okusemandleni akho ukubona isimo ngombono womunye umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sikude kangakanani nokucabanga kwakho okungenzeka ukuthi kukude. Ekugcineni, thola okuthile ongakwenza nsuku zonke ukuze uzibeke esimweni esifanele sengqondo. "Ukuzindla noma ukuthandaza ekuseni kukugxilisa ngempela futhi kukunikeza umbono oqondile osukwini lwakho," usho kanje. (Amathiphu amaningi: Ungakwehlisa Kanjani Uma Usuzokhululeka)

Ukuba nomusa akusizi nje kuphela ukuthi uxhumana nobani, kungakushiya uzizwe ujabulile, esho. (Futhi ucwaningo luphakamisa ukuthi uqinisile.) Ukuba nomusa kunginikeze ukuthula ngoba ngiyazi ukuthi uma nginothando olukhulu kunabo bonke ngikwazi ukuzwa okuhle ngengikwenzile osukwini noma ngizizwe kahle ngami ngaphandle kokuzisola, Uthi.

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