Ungamtshela Kanjani Uma Enguye "Lowo"

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• Ukuhlolwa Kwe-Chivalry
• Isivivinyo Sobungani
• Ukuhlolwa Kwemali
• Ukuhlolwa Kwezindinganiso Zomndeni
• Isivivinyo Sothando se- "Titanic"
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Angashiya amasokisi akhe angcolile phansi, kepha okungenani uyakuvulela umnyango. Uma kukhulunywa ngobudlelwano, uthatha okuhle ngokubi. Kodwa uma uthandana nomfana ocabanga ukuthi angaba nguMnu. Right, unquma kanjani ukuthi nguye ngempela omiselwe ukuchitha ukuphila kwakho konke naye?

Saya kochwepheshe ukuthola ukuthi singatshela kanjani ukuthi ngabe umfana unguMnu Right-noma nje uMnu. Right Now. Nazi izivivinyo ezinhlanu okufanele ziphumelele isithandwa sakho somphefumulo.

Ukuhlolwa Kwe-Chivalry

UPatti Stanger

, U-Millionaire Matchmaker, umbhali, nomlingisi we-Bravo TV, uthi i-chivalry ayifanga-okungenani hhayi uma kukhulunywa 'ngokuhle'.

"Izinto ezifana nokuvula isicabha semoto noma ukukunikeza ngokushesha ingxenye yakho yokudla uma uhlukanisa isidlo endaweni yokudlela - lezi yizimpawu ezibalulekile okufanele uzibheke ukuze wazi ukuthi ekugcineni uzokuphatha kahle yini," kusho uStanger.

Futhi kulokhu ikakhulukazi, izenzo zikhuluma kakhulu kunamazwi. "Amagama avame ukusetshenziswa esikhundleni sezenzo zothando, kodwa awanalutho ngaphandle kokulandelela," kusho usonhlalakahle kanye nochwepheshe wokulutha u-Andrew Spanswick.

Isivivinyo Sobungani

Ubudlelwano obuhle budinga ukuxhumana okuqinile kwengqondo nomzimba. "Ungabe usafuna ukuzihlalela nalo muntu noma ubengakujabuleli ucansi?" Kubuza 'isazi sobudlelwano' uLindsay Kriger.

Futhi kufanele uthathe umlingani wakho ngaphezu kwenani lobuso. “Ukubukeka kahle kuyaphela, kodwa ubuntu obubi abupheli,” uyanezela. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esizinze eCalifornia uColleen Long siyavumelana. "Ungaba nobumnandi ulinde ulayini naye e-DMV?" uyabuza. "Ubudlelwano obuhle kakhulu ngabantu abangaba abangane abakhulu," kusho uStanger.

Ukuhlolwa Kwemali

Akumangalisi ukuthi izibalo zikhombisa ukuthi izimpikiswano ngemali ziyisivumelwano emishadweni eminingi. Ngakho-ke, uStanger weluleka ukuthi uthole ukuthi umi kuphi ngaphambi kokwenza lezo zifungo. "Uyisebenzisa kanjani imali yakho? Uyisebenzisa kanjani eyakhe? Ingabe niyahluka? Uyavuma futhi uhlehlise noma ngabe uyonga futhi uwukusebenzisa imali? Yonke le yimibuzo ebalulekile okufanele uyibuze uma uqala ubudlelwano obuzibandakanya. , "Kusho uStanger.

"Ukungazibophezeli kwezezimali kuzodala ukucindezeleka nokuncishwa impilo yonke," kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esizinze eSouth California uTina Tessina. "Uma egembula imali kude noma evele eyisebenzisa kumathoyizi e-tech akamuva lapho ufuna ukuvikela ikusasa lakho lezezimali, ubudlelwano ngeke busebenze," uyanezela.

Ukuhlolwa Kwezindinganiso Zomndeni

Ingabe nobabili nifuna inani elifanayo lezingane, uma likhona? Ngabe ulindele ukuthi uguquke ebuKatolikeni uye ebuJudeni? “Kusukela enkolweni kuya ekunakekeleni ikhaya, ubulili, nezingane, kufanele nibe nezindinganiso nezinkolelo ezifanayo lapho kuziwa ekuzinikeleni,” kusho uchwepheshe wobudlelwano wosaziwayo uKailen Rosenberg.

"Okuningi okwenza ukungqubuzana ebudlelwaneni ukuthi abantu babe nezindinganiso ezihlukile ezingafani ezindabeni ezibalulekile futhi kungaxoxwa ngazo kusenesikhathi," kusho uKriger.

Isivivinyo Sothando se- "Titanic"

UStanger uthi ukucabanga ngalesi simo sokucabanga: Umkhumbi uyehla bese usemanzini, uqandayo. Ngabe ukukunika ugodo lokusindisa impilo yakho? Kuzwakala kuwumsebenzi onzima kodwa lolo "Titanic Love" njengoba i-Stanger ilubiza kanjalo, yilo oludingekayo ukuze kugcinwe ubambiswano lwempilo yonke. "Uma ekuthanda kakhulu kangangoba uyikho konke akukhathalelayo, lokho kuwubufakazi bokuthi uyena ohamba phambili kuye," uyanezela.

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