U Up? Ingabe I-Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) Iluthinta Kanjani Ucansi Lwakho neLibido?

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• I-HRT iyithinte kanjani impilo yakho yezocansi?

U Up? yikholamu entsha yezeluleko kaHealthline, esiza abafundi ukuhlola ubulili nezocansi.

"Ngabe umuntu angalahlekelwa yingqondo ngempela kusuka ekuphakameni?" Lona ngumbuzo engiwubuze endaweni yokudlela yokugezela ngemuva kokuthukuthela kwami ​​lapho iGrindr yangixhuma nge-an ngokufutheka izaba ezizwakalayo.

Ngangiyindoda eshintshanayo onqenqemeni.

Izinyanga eziyisithupha ku-testosterone, uhlobo lwemithi yokwelapha ebuyisela ama-hormone engilulandelayo nodokotela we-endocrinologist, owayengisuse ku-libido engenhla kancane ngenhla etholwa ngabesifazane be-cisgender eminyakeni yabo yokuqala engama-30, kuya ekuhlanyeni okunamandla kokoma.

Abantu abaningi be-transmasculine babika lokhu lapho beqala i-HRT. Ubuhlanya mhlawumbe buzwakala bujwayelekile njengamanje lapho uthomba ebusheni noma ubheka emuva ngokwesaba okwedlulele. Lokho kungenxa yokuthi ukwelashwa okufaka esikhundleni se-hormone kungazizwa njengokuthomba kwesibili.

Ngangingajwayele ukuba ngale ndlela. Ngenkathi ngizenza owesifazane, ngangisebenza ekulawuleni inzalo okususelwa ku-estrogen kusuka ku-17 kuye ku-27. Angikaze ngibe semoyeni wokuya ocansini nomunye wabalingani ababili (yep) enganginabo kuleso sikhathi seminyaka eyishumi. Bobabili baze bangisola nangokuthi ngingungqingili osondelene naye, okuyisikhathi esesikhombise ukuthi umqondo ongafanele.

Ngemuva kokuqala i-HRT, uma sekuziwa ukuyenza, ngiya ngokuya ngihehe ngokomzimba nangothando kubantu kuphela njengamadoda, noma abesilisa abaningi, njengami.

Ngithole ukuthi angisakwazi ukusebenza kahle ebuhlotsheni bomuntu oyedwa, okuwukusendle ngokucabanga ukuthi ngiyalulama futhi ngibe ngumfazi oyedwa.

Nginomqondo ovulekile kakhulu kunakuqala - {textend} uma wonke umuntu ekwazi futhi ezimisele ukuvuma, ngijabule ukuhlola noma yini nakho konke umlingani wami acabanga ngakho. Njengoba umzimba wami uzizwa ulunge ngokwengeziwe, ngiluthokozela kakhulu ucansi futhi ngikhathazeka ngamalebula nokulindelwe okungaphansi. Ngiye ngizizwe njengomuntu ohlukile kwesinye isikhathi!

Ngabe lokhu kwenzeka kuwo wonke umuntu othatha ama-hormone? Kunezifundo ezimbalwa ngalesi sihloko, kepha osayizi besampula bavame ukuba bancane, okungamangalisi, ngoba amaqembu asebenzisa ama-hormone ayabekwa futhi kusekhona ukucwaswa okuzungeza ukuxoxa ngobulili ngokungagunci.

Futhi, ucansi ne-libido kungokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu nokuzithoba, okungaba nzima ukukala esifundweni.

Ngangifuna ukwehlisa izinga lokuthi ubulili babantu buthinteka kanjani ezinhlotsheni ezahlukene ze-HRT, ngakho-ke ngenza izingxoxo ezimbalwa ezingahlelekile. Ngenze konke okusemandleni ukuthola abantu beminyaka ehlukene, izinhlanga, ubunikazi nobulili, abathatha ama-hormone ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene - {textend} kusuka ekushintsheni kwezokwelapha kuye ekwelapheni izifo ze-endocrine.

Nakhu abakushoyo ngokuya ku-HRT nangempilo yabo yezocansi. (Amagama ashintshiwe).

I-HRT iyithinte kanjani impilo yakho yezocansi?

USonya * ungowesifazane we-cisgender osevile eminyakeni eyishumi nambili obesethatha iTri-Lo-Sprintec kanye nesibhamu se-estrogen samasonto onke ukwelapha isimo se-thyroid eminyakeni embalwa edlule.

USonya ubika ukuthi uzizwa ocansini kuze kube uqala i-HRT. Wamangazwa hhayi kuphela ushintsho ku-libido yakhe, kepha nokuthi ukuthanda kwakhe abesifazane kudluliselwe ikakhulu kwabesilisa.

Sekukonke, uyabelana: "Kimi akukashintshi imikhuba yami yezocansi ngaphandle kokuthi i-libido yami ilahle eminye, ngoba ikakhulukazi bekukwelapha ukukhula kwezinwele ebusweni, ukukhuluphala kwesisindo, nephunga lomzimba, kepha bekuanele ukubona . ”

Bese kuba khona uMatt *, indlovukazi eneminyaka engu-34, indoda eshadile ye-cisgender ebithatha i-testosterone cishe iminyaka emibili. Uqale i-HRT lapho umlingani wakhe ecela ukuthi abonane nodokotela ozomsiza alwe nokukhathala kwakhe kanye nemizwelo yakhe. Uhlonze njengomuntu oyedwa ongumuntu oyedwa owayejabulela ukusondelana kakhulu ebudlelwaneni bokuzibophezela.

Ngemuva kuka-T, noma kunjalo, “Kufana nokuthi othile ubuyivuselele ngokuphelele ingqondo yami futhi bengifuna f * * * WONKE UMUNTU. Ngashada ngisemncane, futhi i-T yaholela kule nkinga exakile yokuthi 'Linda, yile ndlela wonke umuntu azizwa ngayo esikoleni esiphakeme nasekolishi? Ngabe lokhu kwenzeka kanjani ucansi olungaziwa? Lokhu kunengqondo kakhulu manje! '”

Ngiphinde ngakhuluma noFrankie *, umuntu we-transfeminine queer person (bona / labo izabizwana) obesebenzisa i-Estradiol kusukela ngo-2017. Ngaphambi kwama-hormone, uFrankie uthi “Ucansi lwaluyinkimbinkimbi. Ngangingaqiniseki ukuthi ngangifuna ukwenzani noma ukuthi ngangizizwa kanjani. Ngangihlehlisa okuningi komunye umuntu. ”

Ngemuva kokuqala i-estrogen, bazizwa behambisana kakhulu nokufunwa ngumzimba wabo (noma bengakufuni). Ngaphambi kwe-estrogen, babebandakanyeka kuphela emadodeni. Ngemuva, bekukhona ifayili le- ukuzamazama komhlaba ngishintshe ekuqaleni ngazizwa ngikhonjwa njengongqingili, "kodwa ngibe sengingena kuGrindr futhi, ahh, angiqageli!"

Sekukonke, uFrankie ubonga lezi zinguquko kwi-libido yabo kanye nezocansi ngokuthuthela endaweni ephephile nabanye abantu abaziwayo nabadlulisiwe ukuze baphishekele kakhulu njengamahomoni.

Ekugcineni, ngakhuluma nowesifazane odlulayo ogama lakhe linguRebecca *. Uneminyaka engama-22 ubudala futhi ubesebenzisa i-estrogen ngohlelo lokulethwa kwama-patch izinyanga ezingaba ngu-7. Yize engakaze abhekane noshintsho oluningi lwe-libido, intshisekelo yakhe kwezocansi ngaphambi kwe-HRT yayicishe isuselwe ku-kink ngokuphelele kunokuqhutshwa ukusondelana.

Manje, unokuxhumana okujulile ebudlelwaneni bakhe obunamakhompiyutha ngokukhomba isidingo sakhe sokuxhumana ngokomzwelo nokusondelana, futhi usithokozela isenzo uqobo kunanini ngaphambili. Ngithole okuningi ngokuhlangenwe nakho kukaRebecca: ukuthi ama-orgasms azizwa ehlukile ngokomzimba nge-estrogen kune-testosterone!

“Akuyona nje kuphela [ucansi] manje olwanelisayo, futhi oluqinisekisayo, kepha i-orgasm nayo isinde, inamandla kakhulu, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ngibe ne-orgasm ephindwe kabili kanye muva nje. I-orgasm isiphenduke ukuthunyelwa okufanele endaweni yesehlakalo noma lapho ngihlangana khona futhi yinto engikubheke ngabomvu futhi engikujabulelayo ukwakhela, kunokuba kube yinto engiyenzayo ukuze nje ngiyenze, ”kusho uRebecca.

Vele, lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kumelela kuphela abantu abambalwa abangamakhulu nabahlukahlukene abaphendulile. Abanye abantu babike ushintsho oluncane kuphela, futhi abanye abantu abanjengami babenoshintsho olukhulu ekuziphatheni okubi ngokobulili.

Ngiyethemba intshisekelo iyakhuphuka ngocwaningo olufanele, ngoba izifundo nezinhlelo ezinkulu zizodingeka njengoba siqala ukubona imiphumela yesikhathi eside yezinhlelo ezahlukahlukene ze-HRT emzimbeni womuntu - {textend} ikakhulukazi imizimba yezokuthutha.

Okwamanje, ngizoya kogeza ngamanzi abandayo. Futhi.

UReed Brice ungumbhali nosomahlaya ozinze eLos Angeles. UBrice uyi-alum ye-UC Irvine's Claire Trevor School of the Arts futhi waba ngumuntu wokuqala we-transgender owake waphonswa emhlanganweni wobungcweti neThe Second City. Lapho singakhulumi itiye lokugula ngengqondo, uBrice ubuye abhale ikholomu yethu yothando neyezocansi, "U Up?"