I-ICYDK, Ukuhlazeka Ngomzimba Kuyinkinga Yomhlaba Wonke

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• Ukuhlazeka komzimba kuyinkinga yomhlaba wonke.
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Kuzwakala sengathi izindaba ezikhuthazayo zokuqinisa umzimba zikhona yonke indawo kulezi zinsuku (buka nje lona wesifazane othathe izithombe ngengubo yakhe yangaphansi ukuze azizwe engcono ngesikhumba sakhe esixegayo kanye nama-stretch marks). Kepha luselude ukhalo okusamele luhambe. Izindaba zakamuva ezihlaba umxhwele? Iphephandaba likazwelonke e-Italy kubikwa ukuthi lanyathelisa i-blogger yemfashini ehlazisa umzimba uChiara Ferragni [ikhefu lokuhefuzela okuhlangene], okubonisa ukuthi ukuhlolisisa imizimba yabesifazane ngempela kuwubhadane lomhlaba wonke.

Iphephandaba le-National Italy I-Corriere della Sera kubikwa ukuthi wenze ukuphawula okungafunwanga nhlobo mayelana nephathi ye-bachelorette ye-blogger yemfashini esihlokweni sakamuva. Lolu daba ngokusobala lwathi yize abangani bakhe "babengekho besikhumba noma besesimweni somzimba," kodwa bonke babonakala bezijabulisa, ngokusho kweYahoo. Ngokujulile? Le ndaba iphinde yabiza ukukhuluphala kwesisindo sikaFerragni selokhu abeletha ezinyangeni ezine ezedlule. Kulungile, WTF?! (BTW, hhayi ukuthi lokhu kuyabalulekile lapha, kodwa kuyinto evamile ukuthi usabukeka ukhulelwe ngemva kokubeletha.)

UFerragni ubize iphephandaba ku-Instagram, etshela abalandeli bakhe abayizigidi ezingu-13.5, "Ngishaqekile ngokufunda umlayezo ongalungile othunyelwe yiphephandaba elibaluleke kangaka. Abesifazane banenkinga yokuzizwa bebahle... Umehluko muhle. Awuphelele. muhle. Ujabule muhle. Ukuzethemba kuhle. Ungavumeli abanye bakudicilele phansi noma bakutshele ukuthi ungubani, ”kubhala yena. (P.S. Kulungile Ukungawuthandi Umzimba Wakho Ngezinye izikhathi, Noma Usekela Ukuphila Komzimba)

Ukuhlazeka komzimba kuyinkinga yomhlaba wonke.

I-Googling encane igcizelela ukuthi kuvame kangakanani ukungcolisa umzimba emhlabeni wonke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unjani umumo noma usayizi. Futhi njengoba okuhlangenwe nakho kukaFerragni kubonisa, ihlazo ngokuvamile akunjalo nje umsebenzi wama-troll akwi-inthanethi, kodwa futhi nowezikhungo ezisemthethweni ezinethonya elifinyelela kude.

Ngasekuqaleni konyaka, isiphathimandla sezokuthutha saseLondon sagxekwa ngenxa yesibonakaliso sokuhlazeka komzimba. Ukuphendula amazinga okushisa ehlobo akhuphukayo, uphawu "lokucaphuna kosuku" kwesinye seziteshi zeshubhu lufundeka kanje, "Ngalesi sikhathi sokushisa, sicela ugqokele umzimba ongenawo-hhayi umzimba owufunayo," kubika. Ezimele. (Mhlawumbe umsebenzi wezokuthutha obhalile angafunda okuthile noma ababili kwabesifazane ababili abagijime umjaho waseLondon begqoke izingubo zabo zangaphansi ukufakazela ukuthi ayikho into efana "nomzimba womgijimi.")

Yini enye, Ezimele Uphinde wabika ngolunye udaba lokuphoxa umzimba ngesikhathi uMiss Iceland ephuma emqhudelwaneni wamazwe ngamazwe ngemuva kokuthi abahleli bethi kumele anciphe. ECanada, i-CBC ibike ukuthi i-orchestra yaseToronto itshele abaculi bayo ukuba bayeke ukugqoka izingubo zokugonana emzimbeni esiteji ngaphandle kokuthi "balungile futhi bazacile."

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Yize isimo esisabalele sokuhlanjalazwa umzimba sidumaza impela, empeleni kunezinto ezinhle ezivela kuzo zonke lezi zimo-okungukuthi, ukwakha ibutho elisha lezishoshovu ezinomzimba onjengoFerragni nabanye abakhulume ngemuva kokuba namahloni umzimba. (Okuhlobene: ULili Reinhart Wenze Iphuzu Elibalulekile Mayelana NeDysmorphia Yomzimba)

Futhi ngenkathi kukhuthaza ukubona ama-blogger nosaziwayo beshaya izandla kubazondayo nakumahlazo kwesokunxele nakwesokudla, inqubekela phambili yamazwe omhlaba yokulwa nokuhlazeka komzimba iyakhuthaza kakhulu: Ngasekupheleni konyaka odlule eParis, imeya u-Anne Hidalgo wabamba ingqungquthela ngomthelela wokuhlambalaza amafutha , iphelele ngombukiso wemfashini onamamodeli anosayizi omkhulu, ngokusho kuka Isomnotho. Ngenyanga edlule, iStockholm yavala izikhangiso zobulili ezihlazisa umzimba ezindaweni zomphakathi, ngokusho kuka- Ezimele. Futhi eNdiya, ibhayisikobho entsha ekhuluma ngezinkinga zamasiko ezisabalele zokuhlambalaza umzimba idala izingxoxo eziningi futhi ivusa izingxoxo ezibalulekile, kubika i United News of India.

Khonamanjalo, ukunyakaza komzimba-positivity ngokwayo akuphelele. Imodeli Kate Willcox, umdali nombhali we Iphilile Isikhumba Esisha, Kwenza icala lokuthi abesifazane abawela ndawana-thile phakathi kosayizi 0 nosayizi 14 abasamelwe kwabezindaba, njengoba sabika ngaphambilini. "Imikhiqizo eminingi yemfashini manje iyakhula ukuze ifake osayizi abangeziwe, kodwa namanje ayikawashintshi amamodeli abawasebenzisayo ezimpahleni zabo 'zosayizi oqondile' noma 'amasampula'," kusho uWilcox. Umumo. (Okuhlobene: I-First Plus-Size Supermodel Ikhuluma Nge-Evolution ye-Body-Positive Movement)

Ukunyakaza kokuqina komzimba kusesekude ukuba kwenziwe ekulweni nokuhlazeka komzimba nokwenza abantu bazo zonke izinhlobo nobukhulu bazizwe behlanganisiwe, bamelwe kahle, futhi-ngaphezu kwakho konke okuhle. Izindaba ezinhle: Lezi zingxoxo zenzeka ezingeni lamazwe ngamazwe, okusho ukuthi sesisondele kakhulu ekuphileni emhlabeni we-body-pos. (Okuhlobene: Ukuthi Ukujabhisa Omunye Umuntu Ekugcineni Kwangifundisa Ukuthini Ukuyeka Ukwahlulela Imizimba Yabesifazane)

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