Okufanele Ukwazi Ngabangane Abacabangayo

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• Kusho ukuthini?
• Izinhloso ezi-5 zokuba nomngane ocabangayo
• Ingabe KULUNGILE ukuthi izingane zibe nomngane ongazicabanga?
• Kufanele enze njani umzali?
• Kuthiwani uma umngane ocabangelayo ethusa?
• Izingane zikhula ngasiphi iminyaka kuso?
• Ingabe ixhunyaniswe ne-schizophrenia?
• Kuthiwani uma umuntu omdala enomngane ongacabangi?
• Ukubonana nodokotela nini
• Okubalulekile

Ukuba nomngane ocabangayo, kwesinye isikhathi obizwa ngokuthi umlingani ocabangayo, kubhekwa njengengxenye ejwayelekile futhi enempilo yokudlala ebuntwaneni.

Ukucwaninga ngabangane abangacabangi bekuqhubeka amashumi eminyaka, nodokotela nabazali ngokufanayo bezibuza ukuthi ngabe kunempilo noma "kujwayelekile" yini.

Ucwaningo oluningi lukhombisile kaninginingi ukuthi ngokwejwayelekile kuyingxenye yemvelo yobuntwana ezinganeni eziningi.

Ucwaningo lwaphambilini luthi amaphesenti angama-65 ezingane ezineminyaka engaphansi kweyi-7 ayenomngani ongazicabanga.

Kusho ukuthini?

Akuyona into engavamile ukuthi izingane zenze abangane abangabacabangi noma abangane - umuntu ezingakhuluma naye, ahlanganyele naye, futhi adlale naye.

Laba bazenzisi babangani bangathatha isimo sanoma yini: umngani ongabonakali, isilwane, okuthile okumnandi, noma ngaphakathi kwento, njengethoyizi noma isilwane esigxishiwe.

Ucwaningo oluningi lukhombisile ukuthi ukuba nomngani ocabangayo kuyindlela enempilo yokudlala kwengane. Izifundo zize zathola ukuthi kungahle kube nezinzuzo ezithile zokuthuthuka kulezo zingane ezakha abangane bokucabanga.

Izinzuzo zingafaka:

• ukuqonda okuphezulu kwezenhlalo
• ukuzijabulisa ngokwengeziwe
• kuthuthukise ubuhlakani
• amasu angcono okubhekana nezinkinga
• ukuqonda okwengeziwe kwemizwa

Abangane abacabangayo banganikeza ingane yakho ubungani, ukusekelwa, ukuzijabulisa, nokuningi.

Izinhloso ezi-5 zokuba nomngane ocabangayo

Ngo-2017, abacwaningi bachaza lezi zinhloso ezinhlanu zokuba nomngani ongamcabanga:

1. ukuxazulula izinkinga nokuphathwa kwemizwa
2. ukuhlola imigomo
3. ukuba nomngane wokudlala ngenganekwane
4. ukuba nomuntu wokunqoba isizungu
5. ukuvumela izingane ukuthi zihlole ukuziphatha nezindima ebudlelwaneni

Ingabe KULUNGILE ukuthi izingane zibe nomngane ongazicabanga?

Ngenkathi abanye abazali bengakhathazeka, kuyinto ejwayelekile ngokuphelele ukuthi ingane ibe nomngani oyicabanga.

Uma kuqhathaniswa nezingane ezingenaye umngani wokucabanga, izingane ezingenayo azihlukile ngezindlela ezilandelayo:

• izici eziningi zobuntu
• isakhiwo somndeni
• inani labangane abangacabangi
• isipiliyoni esikoleni

Esikhathini esedlule, ochwepheshe babekholelwa ukuthi ukuba nomngane ocabangelayo kukhombisa inkinga noma isimo sempilo yengqondo. Ngokusho, lokhu kucabanga kudicilelwe phansi.

Ngenkathi iningi labantu lihlobanisa izingane ezincane ezineminyaka engaphansi kwesikole nokuba nabangane bokucabanga, empeleni kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi izingane ezindadlana zibe nazo, nazo.

Ucwaningo oludala olutholakele lwezingane ezineminyaka engu-5 kuya kwengu-12 lunabangani abazicabangayo.

Amantombazane maningi amathuba okuba nabangane abacabangayo kunabafana.

Ukucabanga kungaba yingxenye ebalulekile yokudlala nokukhula kwengane. Ukuba nomngani ocabangayo kungasiza ingane ukuthi ihlole ubudlelwane futhi isebenze ngobuhlakani bayo.

Kufanele enze njani umzali?

Uma ingane yakho ikutshela ngomngane wayo ocabangayo, buza imibuzo. Ungafunda kabanzi mayelana nengane yakho, izintshisekelo zayo, nokuthi yini umngani ongacabanga angabenzela yona.

Isibonelo, ingabe umngane wabo wokuzicabangela ubafundisa indlela yokubhekana nabangane?

Kungasiza futhi ukudlala ngokuhambisana. Setha indawo eyengeziwe esidlweni sakusihlwa, noma ubuze ingane yakho ukuthi umngani wayo uza ngohambo, ngokwesibonelo.

Uma ingane yakho noma umngani wabo ozenza umngane efuna noma edala izinkinga, ungabeka imingcele. Asikho isidingo sokunikela ekuziphatheni okubi, ukuzenzisa noma okunye. Futhi, ukubeka imingcele kungaba umzuzu wokufundisa.

Kuthiwani uma umngane ocabangelayo ethusa?

Ngenkathi iningi labangane abacabangelayo licatshangwa njengabantu abanomusa, abanobungane, futhi abalalelayo, akubona bonke abaye bachazwa kanjalo. Abanye babizwa ngokuthi bayaphazamisa, abaphula umthetho, noma banolaka.

Kungenzeka ukuthi abanye abangane abacabangayo baze bathuse, bacasule, noma babange ukungqubuzana nezingane.Ngenkathi izingane eziningi ziveza ukulawula noma ithonya ekuziphatheni komngani wazo, ezinye izingane zikuchaza njengokungalawuleki kwazo.

Yize kungaqondakali ngokuphelele ukuthi kungani umngani ocabangayo ezokwethusa, kubonakala sengathi lobu budlelwano obucatshangwayo busanikeza uhlobo oluthile lwenzuzo enganeni.

Lobu budlelwano obunzima kakhulu busengasiza ingane ukuthi izulazule ebudlelwaneni bezenhlalo futhi ibhekane nezikhathi ezinzima emhlabeni wangempela.

Izingane zikhula ngasiphi iminyaka kuso?

Abanye abazali bakhathazeka ngokuthi izingane ezinabangani bokucabanga abanakho ukuqonda okuhle ngokoqobo uma kuqhathaniswa nomcabango, kepha lokhu akulona iqiniso ngokwejwayelekile.

Eqinisweni, izingane eziningi ziyaqonda ukuthi abangane bazo abazicabangayo bayazenzisa.

Yonke ingane yehlukile futhi izokhula kule ngxenye yempilo yayo ngesikhathi sayo. Kuneminye imibiko yezingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-7 enabangani abangabacabangayo, noma eminye imibiko ikhombise abangani abangabacabangi abakhona ezinganeni ezifika eminyakeni eyi-12.

Asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka uma ingane endala isakhuluma ngomngani wayo ocabangayo.

Uma ngabe kukhona okunye okukhathazayo ngenxa yokuziphatha kwengane yakho - hhayi nje ukuthi banomuntu ozenza umngani wabo - ungafinyelela kuchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo ogxile ekunakekelweni kwezingane.

Ingabe ixhunyaniswe ne-schizophrenia?

Uma kukhulunywa ngomcabango ocacile, abazali bangabaza ukuthi ngabe ingane yabo empeleni ibona ukusangana noma ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo.

Ukuba nomngane ocabangayo akufani nokuhlangabezana nalezi zimpawu, okuvame ukuhlotshaniswa ne-schizophrenia.

I-Schizophrenia ayikhombisi izimpawu kuze kube yilapho umuntu ephakathi kweminyaka yobudala.

I-schizophrenia ebuntwaneni iqabukela futhi kunzima ukuyithola. Uma kwenzeka, kuvame ukwenzeka ngemuva kweminyaka yobudala engu-5 kodwa ngaphambi kuka-13.

Ezinye izimpawu ze-schizophrenia yobuntwana zifaka:

• ukuphambana
• ukushintsha kwemizwa
• ukusangana, njengokuzwa amazwi noma ukubona izinto
• ushintsho olungazelelwe ekuziphatheni

Uma ingane yakho iba nezinguquko eziphazamisayo ngokuzumayo ekuziphatheni kwayo futhi ihlangabezana nokunye okungaphezu komngani ocabangayo, finyelela kudokotela wezingane noma uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo.

Ngenkathi izimpawu ze-schizophrenia nabangane abacabangayo bevame ukwehluka futhi behlukene, kunezinye izimo ezingokwengqondo nezingokomzimba ezingaba nesixhumanisi.

Ucwaningo olwenziwe ngonyaka ka-2006, ngokwesibonelo, luthole ukuthi izingane eziqhubeka nokukhula kwezifo ze-dissociative zazinamathuba aphezulu kakhulu okuba nomngani wokucabanga.

Izinkinga ze-Dissociative yizimo zempilo yengqondo lapho umuntu ehlangabezana nokunqamuka kokungokoqobo.

Olunye ucwaningo luphakamise ukuthi abantu abadala abane-Down syndrome banezinga eliphakeme labangane abacabangelayo futhi kungenzeka ukuthi bagcine laba bangani sebekhulile.

Kuthiwani uma umuntu omdala enomngane ongacabangi?

Alukho ucwaningo oluningi ngabangane bokucabanga lapho sebekhulile.

Ocwaningweni lwakamuva, abacwaningi bathole ukuthi kulabo okufundwe kubikwe ukuthi babhekana nomngani wokucabanga esemdala. Kodwa-ke, lokhu bekungusayizi omncane wesampula futhi kunemikhawulo ethile. Ucwaningo olwengeziwe luyadingeka.

Uma sekushiwo lokho, kubonakala kungabikho okukhombisa ukuthi umngani ocabangelayo oqhubeka abe mdala kusho noma yini ehlukile kunaleyo yobuntwana.

Kungaba nje isibonakaliso sokubhekana nesimo noma somcabango oqinile, yize ochwepheshe bengaqiniseki.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma umuntu omdala ezwa amazwi, abone izinto ezingekho, noma ahlangabezane nezinye izimpawu zamehlo noma i-psychosis, isimo sempilo yengqondo, njenge-schizophrenia, kungenzeka ukuthi sidlala.

Ukubonana nodokotela nini

Izikhathi eziningi, abangane bokucabanga abanabungozi futhi bajwayelekile. Kepha uma ukholwa ukuthi ingane yakho ihlangabezana nokuningi, bheka udokotela wayo oyinhloko.

Noma nini lapho isimilo nemizwa yengane yakho ishukuma kakhulu noma iqala ukukukhathaza, finyelela ukwesekwa kudokotela wengane yakho noma uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo.

Uma umngane wengane yakho ocabangayo eke abe nokwethuka, abe nolaka, noma asabise ingane yakho, ukuhlolwa nochwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo kungakunika ukuthula kwengqondo.

Ukuthola udokotela eduze kwakho, landela lezi zixhumanisi:

• isazi sezifo zengqondo
• isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo

Ungase futhi ufune umeluleki onelayisense, udokotela ongumhlengikazi wezifo zengqondo, noma omunye udokotela ongasiza.

Okubalulekile

Ukuba nomngane ocabangayo kuyingxenye ejwayelekile futhi enempilo yokudlala kwengane. Ukuba neyodwa kukhombise nezinzuzo ekukhuleni kwengane.

Uma ingane yakho inomngani oyicabangayo, kulungile. Bangakhula baphume kukho ngesikhathi sabo njengoba beyeka ukudinga amakhono abafundiswa ngumlingani wabo.