U-Iskra Lawrence Uvule Indaba Ngokuzabalaza Ukujima Ngesikhathi Ekhulelwe

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Ngenyanga edlule, isishoshovu somzimba, u-Iskra Lawrence umemezele ukuthi ukhulelwe ingane yakhe yokuqala nesoka uPhilip Payne. Kusukela lapho, umama ozayo oneminyaka engu-29 ubelokhu evuselela abalandeli ngokukhulelwa kwakhe nezinguquko eziningi umzimba wakhe obhekene nazo.

Encwadini ye-Instagram eyabiwe ngempelasonto, u-Lawrence ubhale ukuthi abalandeli bakhe abaningi babuze ukuthi uhlangabezana kanjani nenqubo yakhe yokuzivocavoca nengane esendleleni. Ngenkathi imodeli ithe yena kuyinto eqeda isikhathi sokuzivocavoca umzimba, uphinde wavuma ukuthi kube nzima ukulungisa inqubo yakhe, ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba. (Okuhlobene: I-Iskra Lawrence Ibakhuthaza Kanjani Abesifazane Ukuba Babeke #CelluLIT Yabo Ekubonisweni Okugcwele)

"Ngeke ngiqambe amanga kube nzima," kubhala uLawrence ku-Instagram kanye nochungechunge lwezithombe zakhe ekilasini lokuzivocavoca le-TRX, lapho esenezinyanga ezine ekhulelwe (njengamanje usondela esikhathini sezinyanga ezinhlanu). "Umzimba wami uzizwa uhlukile, amandla ami ahlukile futhi izinto eziza kuqala kimi zihlukile. Kodwa-ke, angikaze ngiqaphele ukuthi ngifuna ukuba sendaweni engcono kakhulu yokuphila kahle ngoba ngifuna ukuba umntwana uP abe nekhaya elingcono kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka."

Eqhubeka nokuthunyelwe kwakhe, uLawrence uthe ubelokhu "ekuthatha kancane" ngokuzivocavoca umzimba futhi elalela izinkomba zomzimba wakhe zansuku zonke zokusiza ukuhola ukukhetha kwakhe kokuzivocavoca. “Ngikubeke eqhulwini nokuvikela amandla ami,” engeza. "Akukho lutho noma akekho ongangenza ngicindezeleke noma ngizwe noma yiluphi uhlobo njengamanje ngoba lawo mandla ayondla enganeni yami." (Nakhu ukuthi ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka kungathinta kanjani ukuzala kwakho.)

ICYDK, kuningi okushintshile uma kukhulunywa ngezincomo zochwepheshe mayelana nokuzivocavoca umzimba ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ngenkathi kufanele njalo thintana ne-ob-gyn yakho ngaphambi kokungena enkambisweni entsha noma uqhubeke nokusebenza kwakho okujwayelekile nengane usendleleni, ngokuvamile, abesifazane abakhulelwe banemikhawulo embalwa yokuzivocavoca okuphephile kunangaphambili, ngokusho kwe-American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG ). Njengoba uLawrence abonile kokuthunyelwe kwakhe, ukhiye ukuthola ukuthi ungakushintsha kanjani ukuzivocavoca umzimba ngokuya ngezidingo zakho nokwazi imikhawulo yakho ukuze ungaziphakamisi kakhulu. (Bona: Izindlela ezi-4 Okudingeka Ushintshe Ukuzivocavoca Kwakho Lapho Ukhulelwa)

Ngokuqondene noLawrence, uthe usafunda okusebenza kangcono emzimbeni wakhe ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Kodwa umama olindele ukubheka phambili uzokwabelana nabalandeli bakhe ngezinto ezintsha azitholile: "Izolo emasontweni angama-21, benginokunye kokuzivocavoca kwami ​​okuhle kakhulu," ubhale kanje. "Ngisazizwa sengathi ngingena emsebenzini. Umzimba wami uzizwa unamandla futhi uyaphila futhi ngizizwa ngiphumelele kakhulu."

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