Ingabe Kungokwemvelo Ukuba Ne-Crush Kumqeqeshi Wakho Womuntu Siqu?

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Impendulo emfushane: Yebo, kinda. Eqinisweni, ngenkathi ngibuza uRachel Sussman, udokotela wezengqondo onelayisense kanye nodokotela wezobudlelwano nombhali we IBhayibheli Lokuhlukana, ngalokhu, ahleke. "Hhayi, udadewethu ubeneminyaka ethandana nomqeqeshi wakhe uqobo," esho. "Yebo, kuyenzeka ngempela!"

Impela, ubudlelwano bakho nomqeqeshi womuntu siqu bobungcweti. Kepha kusondelene futhi, kusho uSussman. "Nobabili nigqoke izingubo zokujima, yena uyanithinta, kungenzeka ukuthi usesimweni esihle kakhulu ... Futhi, uyazivocavoca, ngakho-ke ama-endorphin akho ayaphamba," ebalula. "Kuyaqondakala kakhulu ukuthuthukisa ukuchotshozwa okuncane." (Kungakho-ke wena ne-SO yakho kufanele nisebenzisane.)

Akukhona nje ukusondelana ngokomzimba okungase kubangele imizwa. "Abaqeqeshi bavame ukukubona usengozini kakhulu, futhi kungumsebenzi wabo ukukuqinisekisa futhi bakukhuthaze. Lokho kungazizwa kahle," kusho uGloria Petruzzelli, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo semitholampilo esinemvume eSacramento, CA.

I-crush encane ingaba yingozi futhi ingase ikukhuthaze ukuthi uqhubeke nezikhathi zakho zokujima. Kepha uSussman noPetruzzelli bayavuma ukuthi kufanele kube nemingcele enempilo ebudlelwaneni babaqeqeshi. Okungenani, kusho u-Sussman, uma ukukhanga kubonakala kuhambisana, uzodinga ukukhuluma ngokuthi lokho kusho ukuthini, ukuthi nobabili nifunani, nokuthi ubudlelwano benu bomsebenzi kungase kudingeke buguquke kanjani. (Landela laba baqeqeshi be-celeb ku-Instagram.)

UPetruzzelli uthi ngokubona kwakhe, umqeqeshi othandana neklayenti akulungile. "Kukhona umehluko wamandla kulobo budlelwano-umqeqeshi unamandla engeziwe," kusho yena. Umqeqeshi othatha isinyathelo ngaphandle kokuxoxa ngakho kuqala, noma esikisela ukuthi uthole umqeqeshi omusha, kufanele aphakamise ifulegi elibomvu.

Kepha uma nje unomkhuba wokuwela kubo bonke abafundisi ohlangana nabo, ungakuthola kulula. Kuyenzeka, futhi kulungile. Ukube nje amaphakethe ayisithupha bekulula ukuwabamba.

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