UJennifer Lopez Ukhuluma Ngezinkinga Zokuzihlonipha

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Kwabaningi bethu, UJennifer Lopez (lo muntu) ngokuyisisekelo ufana noJenny ovela eBlock (the persona): intombazane enokuzethemba okukhulu, ekhuluma ngokushelelayo evela eBronx. Kepha njengoba umculi nomlingisi wembula encwadini entsha, Uthando lwangempela, ubengahlangani.

Isikhumbuzo esijulile somuntu siqu, esitholakala kusasa, sihlola isikhathi esizungeze isehlukaniso sakhe nowayethandana naye UMarc Anthony. Ngaleso sikhathi ngo-2011, u-Lopez uyabhala, "wabhekana nezinselele zakhe ezinkulu, wahlonza ukwesaba kwakhe okukhulu, futhi ekugcineni wavela umuntu onamandla kunanini ngaphambili."

Kuyamangaza ngandlela-thile ukuzwa u-J. Lo-owesifazane obonakala ezithembile, ekhanga, futhi enokuzethemba-evuma ukuthi unokuzethemba okuphansi, ukwesaba ukuba yedwa, ngisho nemizwa yokungafaneleki. Engxoxweni ekhethekile ngo NAMUHLA, ULopez utshele uMaria Shriver ukuthi wabona ukuthi unezinkinga zokuzethemba eminyakeni eyedlule, lapho i-ejenti yamuzwa ephikisana futhi encenga isoka lakhe langesikhathi sakhe. "Nganginomqondo ophusile futhi nginobuhlakani emigwaqweni. Benginokuzethemba kulokhu ebengingakwenza," utshela uShriver. "Bengingazethembi kangako ukuthi ngingubani nokuthi yini okufanele ngiyinikele njengentombazane nje."

Kungase kube nzima ukukukholelwa, kodwa lokhu kuhlukana kobuntu empeleni kuvame kakhulu kubantu abaziphilisa ngokuziphilisa, njengo-Lopez, kusho uSari Cooper, izithandani eziqinisekisiwe kanye nomelaphi wocansi. Laba bantu babonakala benobungane esiteji, kodwa "imvamisa lokho kuvala imizwa yokungafaneleki namahloni abanayo ezimpilweni zabo," usho kanje. Ngempela, ngenkathi uLopez kungenzeka ukuthi wayenesibindi esiteji, wayehlushwa ukungabi naso empilweni yakhe yothando, eqa ebudlelwaneni eya ebudlelwaneni ngokwesaba ukuba yedwa. Ngemuva nje kwezinsuku ehlukene naye UBen Affleck, ngokwesibonelo, uphinde waxhuma no-Anthony, umyeni wakhe ozayo.

Kodwa namuhla, ngokokuqala ngqa empilweni yakhe, u-Lopez akashadile. Futhi ukuba yedwa yinto engcono kakhulu ngezinkinga zakhe zokunamathisela, kusho uCooper. Uma wena, njengoJ. Lo, uzithola uqala ubudlelwano obusha ngaphandle kokuphumula ngemuva kokugcina, isinyathelo sokuqala esibaluleke kunazo zonke ongasithatha ukuchitha isikhathi esithile ukuzazi, kusho uCooper. "Chitha isikhathi ufuna ngaphakathi-hhayi ngaphandle, futhi ufunde ukuzindla ukuze ufunde ukuthi ungayisingatha kanjani leyo mizwa yokukhathazeka."

Ngenhlanhla, incazelo kaLopez yothando iyashintsha. Wayejwayele ukondla inganekwane esiyizwayo lapho siseyingane: "Uzongithanda kuze kube phakade, futhi ngizomthanda kuze kube phakade, futhi kuzoba lula impela," esho. "Futhi yehluke kakhulu kunalokho." Futhi isihloko sencwadi yakhe siyamfanela umbono wakhe omusha. "Uthando lweqiniso ukufunda ukuzithanda, ukuchitha isikhathi nawe, nokwenza izinto wedwa," kusho uCooper. "Kulula ukuthanda umlingani wakho, kepha nawe kudingeka ube nalo lolo thando kuwe." Futhi siyajabula ukubona uJ. Lo ethatha isikhathi esifanelwe kakhulu wedwa ukwenza lokho kanye!

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