UJulianne Hough Ukhuluma Kahle Ngomshikashika Wakhe Nge-Endometriosis
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Elandela ezinyathelweni zezinkanyezi ezinjengoLena Dunham, uDaisy Ridley, kanye nomculi u-Halsey, uJulianne Hough ungusaziwayo wakamuva owaphumela obala ngesibindi ngomzabalazo wakhe we-endometriosis-kanye nezimpawu ezinzima nokuphazamiseka ngokomzwelo okungahambisana nakho.
Isimo esivamile, esithinta abesifazane abayizigidi eziyi-176 emhlabeni wonke, senzeka lapho izicubu ze-endometrium - izicubu ezijwayele ukugoqa isizalo-zikhula ngaphandle kwezindonga zesibeletho, imvamisa zizungeze ama-ovari, amashubhu e-fallopian, noma ezinye izindawo ezisezingeni eliphansi. Lokhu kungadala ubuhlungu obukhulu besisu nobuphansi emuva, izingqinamba zokugaya ukudla, ukuphuma kwegazi okunzima ngesikhathi sakho, ngisho nezinkinga zokuzala.
Njengabaningi besifazane abangakahlonzwa, u-Hough wahlushwa "ukopha njalo" kanye "nezinhlungu ezibukhali, ezibukhali" iminyaka, sonke lesi sikhathi ekholelwa ukuthi kwakuhambisana nesifundo. "Ngithole isikhathi sami sokuya esikhathini futhi ngacabanga ukuthi kunjena nje - lobu buhlungu obujwayelekile obutholayo kanye namajaqamba obutholayo. Futhi ngubani ofuna ukukhuluma ngokuya esikhathini kwabo eneminyaka engu-15? Akuzwakali," esho.
Masibhekane nakho, akekho othanda ukuya esikhathini—noma ukuqunjelwa, amajaqamba, nokushintshashintsha kwemizwelo okuhambisana nakho. Kepha i-endometriosis ithatha lezo zimpawu ziye ezingeni elisha ngokuphelele. Njenganoma yimuphi umjikelezo wokuya esikhathini, izicubu ze-endometrial ezigudlukile ziyaphuka zibangele ukuthi wophe, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi zingaphandle kwesibeletho (lapho kungekho khona ukuphuma!) ziyavaleleka, kubangele izinhlungu ezingapheli phakathi nesisu phakathi nangemuva kwesikhathi sakho. . Futhi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, i-endometriosis ingabangela ngisho nezinkinga zokuzala kusukela ekwakhiweni kwezicubu ezingaphezu kwezitho ezibalulekile zokuzala. (Okulandelayo: Bungakanani Ubuhlungu Bomzimba Obujwayelekile Kwisifo Sokuya Esikhathini?)
Engazi ukuthi i-endometriosis yayiyini, uHough wamane wanika amandla ngobuhlungu obukhubazekile. "Isiteketiso sami ngisakhula sasihlala sithi 'Tough Cookie,' ngakho uma kufanele ngithathe ikhefu kwakungenza ngizizwe ngingavikelekile futhi ngibuthakathaka. Ngakho angizange ngitshele muntu ukuthi ngizwa ubuhlungu, futhi ngagxila ebuhlungwini. ukudansa, ukwenza umsebenzi wami, hhayi ukukhononda, "usho kanje.
Ekugcineni, ngo-2008 eneminyaka engama-20, ngenkathi esekwi-set Ukudansa nezinkanyezi, ubuhlungu besisu baba bukhulu kangangokuba ekugcineni waya kudokotela ngokugcizelelwa ngumama wakhe. Ngemuva kokuthi i-ultrasound iveze i-cyst esibelethweni sakhe sangakwesobunxele nezicubu ezibomvu ezisakazeka ngaphandle kwesibeletho sakhe, wahlinzwa ngokushesha ukuze kususwe isithasiselo sakhe futhi aqothule izicubu zesibazi ezazisakazekile. Ngemuva kweminyaka emihlanu yobuhlungu, wagcina exilongiwe. (Ngokwesilinganiso, abesifazane baphila nalokhu iminyaka eyisithupha kuya kweyishumi ngaphambi kokutholakala.)
Manje, njengomkhulumeli wenkampani ye-biopharmaceutical umkhankaso i-AbbVie othi "Get in the Know About ME in EndoMEtriosis", ohlose ukusiza abesifazane abaningi ukuthi bafunde futhi baqonde kangcono lesi simo esibucayi, uHough usesebenzisa izwi lakhe futhi futhi ukhuluma ngokuthi kunjani ngempela. ukuhlala ne-endometriosis, ukuqwashisa ngesimo esivame ukungaqondakali futhi, unethemba lokuthi, ukuvimbela abesifazane ekukhuthazeleni iminyaka yokuhlupheka.
Yize uHough ekwabelana ngokuthi ukuhlinzwa kwakhe kwasiza "ukusula izinto" okwesikhashana, i-endometriosis isathinta impilo yakhe yansuku zonke. "Ngiyasebenza futhi ngikhuthele kakhulu, kodwa kuze kube namuhla kusengakhubaza. Kunezinsuku lapho nginjengakhona, Angikwazi ukuzivocavoca namuhla. Angazi ukuthi isikhathi sami sinini ngoba inyanga yonke futhi ibuhlungu ngempela. Kwesinye isikhathi ngizoba sezithombeni zezithombe noma ngisebenze futhi ngidinga ukumisa engikwenzayo ngilinde kudlule, ”usho kanje.
Impela, ngezinye izinsuku udinga nje "ukungena endaweni yengane," kodwa uyakwazi ukulawula izimpawu zakhe. "Nginebhodlela lamanzi engilifudumezayo nenja yami ewumthombo nje wokushisa wemvelo. Ngiyibeka ngqo kimi. Noma ngingena kubhavu," esho. (Ngenkathi i-endometriosis ingalapheki, izinketho zokwelapha ukuphatha izimpawu ezinjengokuhlinzwa nokuhlinzwa zikhona. Ungafaka nokuzivocavoca okuphakathi ukuya kokukhulu esimisweni sakho sansuku zonke ngoba ukuvivinya umzimba kusiza ukunciphisa amahomoni wokwamukela izinhlungu akhishwa ngesikhathi sakho umjikelezo wokuya esikhathini.)
Ushintsho olukhulu kakhulu, noma kunjalo? "Manje, esikhundleni sokuthi ngidlule kukho bese ngithi 'Ngiyaphila ngiyaphila' noma ngenze sengathi akwenzeki lutho, ngiphethe futhi ngiyaphimisa," usho kanje. "Ngifuna ukukhuluma ngakho-ke akumele silwe nathi sodwa buthule."
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