Lo Mthelela Wokuqina Wayenempendulo Efanele Lapho Umuntu Ebuza, "Uphi Amabhuzu Akho?"

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Umgqugquzeli wezokuzivocavoca nomqeqeshi womuntu siqu uKelsey Heenan usanda kuphumela obala ngokufika kwakhe ngemuva kokucishe afe ngenxa ye-anorexia eminyakeni eyi-10 eyedlule. Kwadingeka ukuzikhandla okukhulu nokukhula komuntu siqu ukuze afinyelele endaweni lapho ekugcineni ezizwa eqiniseka esikhumbeni sakhe. Manje, usebenzisa lokho ukuzethemba ukuze aphendule ama-troll ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.

Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule, omunye wabalandeli bakaHeenan abangu-124,000 ushiye amazwana kwividiyo yakhe ebuza ukuthi, "Aphi ama-boobs akho?"

Njengokulindelekile, umfutho wakhe wawuwukuphindisela lowo ozonda izandla. “Ukusabela kwami ​​kokuqala: ‘Kufanele uyeke ukubafuna…

Esikhundleni sokuvumela ukuphawula kumkhathaze, uHeenan ukusebenzise ukunika amandla labo emphakathini wakhe wokuqina. “Bengifuna ukwabelana nawe ngalokhu ukuze ngikuthumelele isikhuthazo,” kubhala yena. "Nansi into. Kuzohlala kukhona abantu laphaya abazozama ukukudicilela phansi ohambweni lwakho. Bazokuba nombono omubi. Bazokuzonda ngalokhu okwenzayo. Bazokwenza ngisho nokuphawula ngomzimba WAKHO. . "

Iseluleko sakhe? "Eqinisweni, kuyeke kuhambe (kanzima ngangokunokwenzeka kwesinye isikhathi)," kusho yena. "Indlela umzimba wakho obukeka ngayo ibhizinisi lakho hhayi omunye." (Kuhlobene: USia Cooper Uthi Uzizwa "Esifazane Kakhulu Kunangaphambili" Ngemva Kokukhipha Izimila Zakhe Zebele)

UHeenan unxuse abalandeli bakhe ukuthi bakukhumbule lokho inqobo nje umawena bayajabula ngomzimba wakho, ayikho imibono yomunye umuntu ebalulekile."Ukusebenza kwakho kanzima, ukuzibophezela kwakho, ukuzinikela kwakho, umusa owenzayo nawe kanye nokuzimisela kwakho ukwamukela izinto ongeke uzishintshe ... lezi zinto zizokuvumela ukuthi wakhe ukuzethemba kulo lonke uhambo lwakho," kubhala yena.

Kungase kube ngu-2019, kodwa ukuhlambalaza umzimba kuseyinkinga enkulu. Ama-Kudos kwabesifazane abanjengoHeenan abangathatha lokho kukhathazeka bese bekufaka kumyalezo omuhle. (Okuhlobene: U-Emily Ratajkowski Uthi Ungumuntu Onamahloni Ngenxa Yamabele Akhe)

“Ukuphelela akukho,” kusho yena. "Thola ukuzethemba ngokuhluka kwakho."

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