Lo Mama Uncelisa Ibele Ngenkathi Ezivocavoca Futhi Uhlobo Olumangalisayo

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Ukuba ngumama kunendlela yokukhipha ikhono lakho lemvelo lokwenza izinto eziningi, kepha leli izinga elilandelayo. Umama weFit uMonica Bencomo wayezimisele ukuqhubeka nokusebenza kwakhe ngaphandle kokudela isifiso sakhe sokuncelisa ingane yakhe ibele. Yize kungelula neze ukwenza ukuzinakekela kanye nezidingo zobumama, uMonica uthole indlela yokwenza konke kusebenze-futhi ngokwenza njalo, wenze lokho amanye ama-mamas amaningi akwenzile: Ufakazele ukuthi omama bangancelisa nganoma yisiphi isimo.

UBencomo, obhulogi kwaMoms Wear Heels, ubelokhu ekhombisa ukubheka ngokuziqeqesha kwakhe, futhi eziningi zazo zifaka ama-cameo avela ezinganeni zakhe ezimbili ezithandekayo. Ingxenye engcono kakhulu? Umama ukwazile ukuncelisa ngenkathi egcina imikhuba yakhe yokuzivocavoca umzimba.

Umama ophile kahle ukholelwa ekwenzeni noma yini angayenza ukuze agcine imikhuba yakhe enempilo, kodwa uyakuqonda ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukunyonyoba kulokho kuvivinya umzimba uma ungumama oncelisayo. Ukuphila kalula kwamholela ekuzivocavoceni nasekunceliseni ngesikhathi esifanayo, kodwa ukusabela ezithombeni nakumavidiyo akhe kufakazela ukuthi uBencomo akenzi nje lokho okumsebenzelayo—ukhuthaza omama yonke indawo.

"Nginqume ukuthumela uhambo lwami lokuncelisa ibele oluhlaza nokuyiqiniso ngoba kubalulekile kimi ukuthi ngikhuthaze omama ukuthi bahlanganise nomndeni empilweni yabo yokuzivocavoca," kusho uBencomo. Ukukhulelwa okufanelekile. "Omama abaningi abangochwepheshe bezempilo bafaka umqondo wokwelula ukuncelisa ibele ngenxa yesifiso sabo sokuklebhuka, ukuthatha izishisi ezinamafutha, nezinye izithasiselo ezingenampilo enganeni esencelisayo. Ukuncelisa ibele kubangela ukuthi imizimba yethu ngokwemvelo igcine amafutha amaningi, nakho okubaluleke kakhulu cha-cha kulabo abancintisana nobungqabavu njengami. "

Kepha amava kaBencomo amfundise ukuthi ukuncelisa nokuhlala esimweni esimangalisayo akudingeki ukuthi kuhlangane.

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