Omama Abayi-7 Babelana Ngendlela Okuyiyona Ngempela Ukuba Ne-C-Section

-Delile

• "Umzimba wami wawuzwa sengathi amathumbu ami avele akhishwa futhi aphinde aphinde abuyele phakathi noma nje."
• "Bekunomculo emsakazweni kanti odokotela nabahlengikazi bebecula kanye kanye nezingoma ngazwilinye njengokungathi sise-movie ethile."
• "Kuzwakale kumangaza ngendlela exakile ukungazizwa izinhlungu kodwa ukuzizwa zigudluza ingaphakathi lami."
• "Bengikhathele, ngikhungathekile, futhi ngidumele. Abahlengikazi bangiqinisekisile ukuthi angiphumelelanga."
• "Ukuhlinzwa uqobo bekukuncane ukuhlukumezeka kimi."
• "Nakuba bengindikindiki kodwa uyawuzwa umsindo ikakhulukazi uma odokotela sebekugezela amanzi."
• "Ngikhumbula iphunga elihlukile ngesikhathi sokuhlinzwa, engalithola kamuva ukuthi iphunga lezitho zami kanye namathumbu."
• Buyekeza kwe-

Ngenkathi isigaba se-Cesarean (noma i-C-section) singase singabi isipiliyoni sokuzalwa kwamama wonke umama, noma ngabe kuhlelwe noma ukuhlinzwa okuphuthumayo, lapho ingane yakho idinga ukuphuma, noma yini iyahamba. Ngaphezulu kwamaphesenti angama-30 okuzalwa okuholela esigabeni se-C, ngokusho kweWorld Health Organisation. Noma ngubani osabuza ukuthi omama abazele nge-C-section nabo "bangomama bangempela" njengalabo abazala indlela endala kufanele balalele.

Ukuhlonipha iNyanga Yokuqwashisa Ngengxenye KaKesari, ake iqondwe unomphela: Ukuba nesigaba se-C hhayi indlela elula yokuphuma. Lokho kucwaswa emphakathini kumele kuphele lapha futhi manje. Qhubeka ufunde ngezindaba ezivela kwamanye amaqhawe aziwayo aphila kukho. (Okuhlobene: Ukondliwa Umama Omusha Uveza Iqiniso Mayelana Nezigaba ze-C)

"Umzimba wami wawuzwa sengathi amathumbu ami avele akhishwa futhi aphinde aphinde abuyele phakathi noma nje."

"Ngangithola ingane yami yesithathu futhi yayimikhulu, ifana ne-98th percentile enkulu. Ngaphinde ngatholakala ngine-polyhydramnios emasontweni angu-34, okusho ukuthi nganginoketshezi olwengeziwe, ngakho-ke kwangenza ngibe sengozini enkulu yokukhulelwa. Ukuba ne-C- ehleliwe ehleliwe. isigaba kwakuyindlela ephephe kunazo zonke. Kusukela ngesikhathi sokubeletha kwami ​​kwesibili (ukubeletha kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane) ngagcina ngokopha ngokushesha ngemuva kwalokho futhi ngidinga ukuhlinzwa okuphuthumayo, ngangifuna nje ukugwema leso simo sokucishe sife cishe manje. Noma kunjalo, bekuyindida ukungena isibhedlela esingenazo izingqinamba, ukungabi namanzi, akukho zimpawu zokubeletha. Ukulala phansi etafuleni lokusebenza uphapheme kuyinto enhle kakhulu. Zikunikeza i-epidural, ngakho-ke uyazi ukuthi awukwazi ukuzwa lutho, kodwa usazizwa ukudonswa ngaphakathi ngikhumbula amazinyo ami egedlezela futhi ngingakwazi ukuyeka ukuqhaqhazela ngoba bekubanda kakhulu. Babeka ikhethini esifubeni sakho, futhi ngenkathi ngikwazisa lokho, kungenze ngashawa luvalo ngokungazi ukuthi kwenzekani. ukudonsa nokudonsa bese bekuwukuphusha okukodwa okukhulu esiswini sami-bekungathi kunomuntu ogxume kuso bese kuphuma ingane yami yentombazane engama-9-pound-13-ounce! Futhi lokho kwaba ingxenye elula. Amahora angu-24 alandelayo kwakuwukuhlushwa okumsulwa. Umzimba wami uzwe sengathi amathumbu ami asanda kukhishwa futhi aphonswa emuva ngokungahleliwe. Ukuphuma embhedeni wasesibhedlela uye endlini yangasese kwakuyinto ethatha ihora lonke. Ukuhlala nje embhedeni ukuze ulungele ukusukuma kudinge ukuzimisela okukhulu. Bekufanele ngihambe ngibambe imicamelo emibili esiswini sami ukuzama ukufihla ubuhlungu. Ukuhleka kubuhlungu, futhi. Ukuzigingqa kubuhlungu. Ukulala kubuhlungu." -U-Ashley Pezzuto, 31, Tampa, FL

Okuhlobene: Ingabe Ama-Opioid Ayadingeka Ngempela Ngemva Kwesigaba C?

"Bekunomculo emsakazweni kanti odokotela nabahlengikazi bebecula kanye kanye nezingoma ngazwilinye njengokungathi sise-movie ethile."

"Lapho ngithola ukuthi ngidinga ukwenza u-C-section nengane yami yokuqala, ndodakazi yami, ngashaqeka. Sathola ukuthi empeleni nginesibeletho esimise okwenhliziyo, okusho ukuthi sibheke phansi, yingakho ephuliwe. Mina ube nezinsuku eziyi-10 zokucabanga ngakho futhi acubungule izindaba.Umama wami ubelethe ngokwemvelo amadodakazi amathathu, kanti igama elithi 'C-section' lithathwa njengegama elingcolile, noma okungenani elifana nelithi 'ukuthatha indlela elula' Ukuthola i-C-section kwakungeyona into engangicabanga ukuthi ingase yenzeke kimi. Noma ubani owayazi ukuthi kukhona engikuhlelayo wazizwa enesidingo sokungitshela izindaba zakhe ezihlasimulisayo. Ngangivele ngikhathazekile ngokuhlinzwa okukhulu; Angikaze ngichithe ubusuku esibhedlela. Ngakho-ke ukungaze ngizwe umuntu oyedwa eza ngaphambili athi, 'hey bekungekubi kangako' akuzange kungilungiselele kahle. Usuku lokuhlinzwa kwami ​​ngazizwa ngiphelele. kwaze kwadingeka ukuthi udokotela wami aqhubeke engikhumbuza ukuthi ngiphefumule kakhulu ukuze ngehlise umoya ngoba umfutho wegazi wami wawukhuphuka phezulu kakhulu. Ngake ngisetafuleni lokuhlinza ngazizwa sengathi ngisephusheni. Kwakunomculo emsakazweni futhi odokotela bami nabahlengikazi babecula behambisana nezingoma ngazwi linye sengathi sikwisethi ethile yefilimu. Ngizohlala ngicabanga ukuthi 'Yingakho Bayibiza Nge-Blues' ngu-Elton John ngokuhluke kakhulu manje. Njengoba lo bekungumcimbi omkhulu kangaka wokuphila kimi, bengilindele ukuthi yonke into izoba lukhuni ngokweqile futhi ingathi sína ngokungizungezile, kodwa ngabona ukuthi kwakungolunye usuku olujwayelekile kubo bonke abanye abantu. I-vibe egumbini yakudambisa nakanjani ukwesaba kwami ​​ngoba ngabona ukuthi lokhu kwakungeyona 'isimo esiphuthumayo' njengoba ngangicabanga ukuthi kuzoba njalo. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi angibuzwanga ubuhlungu nhlobo ngenxa yokuba ndikindiki kuwo wonke umuthi, kepha ngizwe ngidonsa futhi ngidonsa, cishe kube sengathi othile uzama ukungikitaza ngaphakathi ngendlela engakhululekile. Sekukonke ngizizwa ngibusisekile ngokuba nakho okuhle kangaka. Ngicabanga ukuthi kungenze ngaba ngomunye walabo besifazane manje abangakwazi ukudlulisa izindaba ezinhle. Kungase kuzwakale kusabeka kakhulu lapho kwenzeka kuwe, kodwa ngeke kube kubi njengoba kuvame ukwenzeka. " -Jenna Hales, 33, Scotch Plains, NJ

"Kuzwakale kumangaza ngendlela exakile ukungazizwa izinhlungu kodwa ukuzizwa zigudluza ingaphakathi lami."

"Ngibe nezingane ezimbili ngesigaba sika-C esihleliwe ngenxa yokuthi umlando wami wezokwelapha wokuhlinzwa kwe-GI ukuze ngelaphe i-ulcerative colitis ungenze ngaba mpofu kakhulu ekubelethweni kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Ukuthola i-epidural kuyingxenye ecindezela kakhulu yenqubo-njengoba kufanele inqubo eyinyumba enjalo, uwedwa kulelo tafula ngenkathi bekufaka inaliti ende kuwe, okungaduduzi. Bakubeka phansi ngemuva kokuthi kwenziwe ngoba ukundindizela kwenzeka ngokushesha okukhulu. Enganeni yami yesibili, ukundindizela iqale ohlangothini lwami lwesobunxele kuphela futhi ekugcineni yagcina isakazeka kwesokudla sami-bekuyinto engajwayelekile ukuthi ngibe nohlangothi olulodwa kuphela. Ngesikhathi sokuhlinzwa, bengikwazi kahle ukudonsa nokukhohlisa okwenzeka emzimbeni wami ukukhipha indodakazi yethu. Bekuzwakala ngendlela emangalisayo okuxakayo ukuthi angizwe ubuhlungu kodwa ngizwe zinyakazisa ingaphakathi lami.Kuthe lapho umntwana wami ebeletha angizange ngizwe ukuthi ikhala okwemizuzu emingaki, kodwa ngambona ngaphambi kokuba ayiswe enkulisa. Inqubo ye -up ayizizwa njengokulethwa. Akukho ukudonsa noma ukudonsa, vele uhlanze futhi uthunge njengoba ulele phansi etafuleni ucubungula konke okusanda kwenzeka. Lokho okungekho muntu ongixwayise ngakho, noma kunjalo, kwakuwukuncipha kwangemva kokubeletha okwenzeka noma nini lapho ngincelisa. Ngokuyisisekelo, ukuncelisa ibele kubangela ukuthi isibeletho sifinyele futhi sisisize sibuyele kusayizi ojwayelekile ngemva komntwana. Kimina, kwenzeka cishe emahoreni amabili ngiqale ukuncelisa indodakazi yami ukululama. Abahlengikazi bafuna ukuthi i-epidural yakho igugile ukuze uqale ngokushesha ukuhambahamba, ngoba lokho kusiza kakhulu inqubo yokutakula. Kepha kwathi nje lapho i-epidural yami iphela ngezwa ukuqina futhi ngicabanga ukuthi ngizokufa-kwaba sengathi kunomuntu oqhuba ummese emzimbeni wami. Akukhona nje kuphela ukuthi kwakuwukufinyela engangingakaze ngikuzwe ngenxa yokuthi ngangingakaze ngisebenze ngokweqiniso, kodwa kwakwenzeka khona kanye lapho ngangisikwa khona. Kwakubi futhi kwafika ngamagagasi lapho ngangizoncela inyanga ezayo noma ngaphezulu. Ukuhamba ngemuva kwesigaba se-C nakho bekuyinselele ezinsukwini ezimbalwa. Njengoba ngingumelaphi womzimba, bengingasebenzisa ubuqili ukunciphisa izinto ezibuhlungu njengokugoqela eceleni kwakho ngaphambi kokuthi uvuke ukuvikela ukusikeka nokukhulula izicubu zakho zesisu. Noma kunjalo, ukuginqika nokuvuka phakathi nobusuku emasontweni amathathu okuqala kuyohlale kungihlupha. Ngizwe sengathi yonke into ezothungwa izophuma. "-U-Abigail Bales, 37, eNew York City

Okuhlobene: Ukuzalwa Okumnene kweC-Section Kuyanda

"Bengikhathele, ngikhungathekile, futhi ngidumele. Abahlengikazi bangiqinisekisile ukuthi angiphumelelanga."

"Ukukhulelwa kwami ​​bekulula. Akukho ukugula kwasekuseni, ukungabi nesicanucanu, ukuhlanza, ukungathandi ukudla. Indodakazi yami ibibhekise ikhanda phansi ibheke emuva, okuyindawo ekahle yokulethwa. Ngakho-ke ngicabange ukuthi ukubeletha kuzoba lula kanjalo. Bese ngisebenze amahora angaba ngu-55. Ekugcineni kwathathwa isinqumo sokuthi isigaba se-C sasiyadingeka ngoba umzimba wami wawungaqhubeki nje kuphela. Ngakhala. Ngangikhathele, ngikhungathekile futhi ngidumele. Abahlengikazi bangiqinisekisa ukuthi angizange ngihluleke. le ngane, hhayi ngendlela ejwayelekile ebengikade ngiyicabanga. Angikhathali ukuthi ubani uthini, isigaba se-C ukuhlinzwa okukhulu. Ngilele noma ngivukile, uyasikwa. Angikwazanga ukuzamazamisa lo mcabango njengoba Ngenhlanhla angibuzanga ubuhlungu ngesikhathi sokuhlinzwa.Mhlawumbe kwakuyinhlanganisela ye-anesthesia ebengiyithola nge-epidural amahora angama-12 nangaphezulu noma i-anesthesia eyengeziwe enikezwe ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa, kodwa angizizwanga yokudonsa, ukudonsa, noma ingcindezi emnene udokotela wangitshela ukuthi nginga-noma angikhumbuli ngoba engangigxile kukho kwakuwukuzwa ekhala kuqala. Wabe esekwenza. Kepha angikwazanga ukumbamba. Angikwazanga ukumanga noma ukumanga. Bengingeke ngibe umuntu wokuqala ukumthulisa. Kungaleso sikhathi lapho izinhlungu zashaya khona. Ukungakwazi ukuzwa isikhumba kuya esikhumbeni kwakubuhlungu. Esikhundleni salokho, bambamba bamphakamisa phezu kwekhethini base bemhambisa ngamabhayisikobho ukuze babheke ubungqabavu futhi bamhlanze. Ngikhathele futhi ngidabukile, ngazumeka phezu kwetafula lokuhlinza ngenkathi beqeda ukungivalela. Lapho ngiphaphama ngilulama ekugcineni ngambamba. Kamuva ngathola ukuthi umhlengikazi uzamile ukumnika umyeni wami e-OR kodwa wangamthatha. Wayazi ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani kimi ukuba ngibe ngowokuqala ukumbamba. Uhlale eceleni kwakhe, wahamba eceleni kwebhasinethi yakhe esuka kwelinye igumbi waya kwelinye, wabe esenginikeza isikhathi sami ebengicabanga ukuthi ngilahlekile. "-UJessica Hand, 33, Chappaqua, NY

"Ukuhlinzwa uqobo bekukuncane ukuhlukumezeka kimi."

"Ngangino-C-section nezingane zami zombili. Uketshezi olwalusesibelethweni sendodakazi yami lwaluphansi kakhulu ngasekupheleni kokukhulelwa kwami, ngakho-ke kwadingeka ngithonywe amasonto amabili ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Futhi ngemuva kwamahora okuphusha, sanquma ukuthola i-C- Ukululama kuzizwe kukude futhi kumnandi futhi bengingakulungele ngokwengqondo noma ikuphi, kufaka phakathi ukubeletha amasonto amabili ngaphambi kwesikhathi ebengikuhlelile. Ngakho-ke lapho ngikhulelwa owesibili, indodana yami, ngangilokhu ngizikhumbuza ukuthi ngikulungele kanjani Kodwa-ke amanzi ami aqhekeka emasontweni angama-27 ngenkathi ngilalisa indodakazi yami enezinyanga eziyi-18. Ngafakwa ngokushesha esibhedlela ukuze odokotela bazame ukuvimba indodana yami ukuthi ingazalwa kusenesikhathi. amasonto amathathu, kwadingeka ukuthi aphume.Ngangazi ukuthi ngizoba nesigaba se-C.Futhi noma okokuqala ngqa ngazizwa ngifana nesivunguvungu esinje, kulokhu ngangizizwa ngikhululekile nje ukuthi ukuvalelwa kwami ​​embhedeni wasesibhedlela Angisakhumbuli okuningi ngokuhlinzwa, kodwa ngijabule ukuthi ekugcineni kwase kuphelile. Futhi ngiyabonga, ngisho yize indodana yami yazalwa amasonto ayi-10 kusenesikhathi, yayinamakhilogremu ama-3.5 aqinile, athathwa njengekhulu le-preemie. Uchithe amasonto amahlanu e-NICU kodwa namuhla uphile saka futhi uyachuma. Ukuhlinzwa ngokwako kwaba ukuhlukumezeka okuncane kakhulu kimi. Ngibe nezinye izinkinga eziningi kakhulu ukuthi isimo somzimba sivele silinganiswe uma siqhathaniswa nemizwa ezungeze zombili lezi zinsizakalo. "-U-Courtney Walker, oneminyaka engama-35, eNew Rochelle, NY

Okuhlobene: Ngiphinde Ngathola Kanjani Amandla Ami Amakhulu Ngemuva Kokuba Nesigaba se-C

"Nakuba bengindikindiki kodwa uyawuzwa umsindo ikakhulukazi uma odokotela sebekugezela amanzi."

"Kudingeke ukuthi odokotela bangincenge ukuthi ngiphule amanzi ngengane yami yokuqala, kwathi ngemuva kwamahora nginezinciphiso eziqinile nokusebenza kanzima odokotela babiza abakwa-C-emergency ngoba ukushaya kwenhliziyo kwendodana yami kwehle ngokushesha okukhulu. Babiza isigaba-C ngo-12: 41. pm nendodana yami yazalwa ngo-12: 46 pm Kwenzeka ngokushesha okukhulu ukuthi umyeni wami wakuphuthelwa ngenkathi bemgqokisa. Kwakungafiphele, kodwa ubuhlungu obabukhona kamuva babubuhlungu kakhulu kunendlela engangicabanga ngayo. esibhedlela kodwa izinhlungu zaba ngcono ngagcina ngingenwa umkhuhlane omkhulu.Kwavela ukuthi ngingenwe isifo kwadingeka ngifakwe kuma-antibiotics.Isibazi sami sasivuvukele futhi ngangiphatheke kabi kakhulu.Kwakwenza kwaba nzima ukujabulela ukuhlala ekhaya usana olusanda kuzalwa. Kodwa ekugcineni lwaphela futhi ukhohlwa yikho konke-okungilethe ukuthi ngikwenze ngiphinde futhi! Eminyakeni eyisithupha kamuva, ukukhulelwa kwami ​​kwesibili kwaba nzima kakhulu ngenxa yesimo esibizwa ngokuthi i-placenta previa lapho i-placenta ikhula khona ngokoqobo phezu umlomo wesibeletho futhi kungabangela ukopha . Ngenxa yokuthi i-placenta yayisendaweni eyingozi, kwadingeka ngibe ne-C-section ehleliwe emavikini angu-39. Ngisho noma ukukhulelwa kwami ​​kwakudabukisa, ingxenye yesibili ye-C empeleni yayiphumule kakhulu! Kwakungokuhlangenwe nakho okuhluke kakhulu. Ngaya esibhedlela, ngashintsha igiya—njengoba kwenza umyeni wami nakulokhu!—bangingenisa egunjini lokuhlinza. Ingxenye esabekayo kunazo zonke kwakuyi-epidural. Kepha ngagona umcamelo ukudambisa izinzwa zami, ngezwa ingcosana, kwase kuphelile. Ngemuva kwalokho, abahlengikazi bangibuza ukuthi yimuphi umculo engiwuthandayo nodokotela wangena kungekudala ngemuva kokungidabula kukho konke. Umyeni wami nomunye udokotela bahlala ekhanda lami sonke isikhathi, bakhuluma nami, futhi benza isiqiniseko sokuthi ngilungile isinyathelo ngasinye sendlela-konke bekungiqinisekisa kakhulu. Yize ngangindikindiki kodwa usewuzwa umsindo ikakhulukazi lapho odokotela sebekugezela amanzi! Ngangikuzwa ukudonswa kwezingaphakathi zami, futhi leyo kwakuyingxenye exaka kakhulu. Kodwa ukuzwa yonke into futhi ngomoya ophansi uqaphele okwenzekayo kwaba umuzwa omnandi kangaka. Indodana yami yesibili yafika futhi ngathola ukumbamba njengoba bengivala. Ukululama kwakungekubi kangako okwesibili. Ngangazi kangcono ngalesi sikhathi, ngakho-ke nganginyakaza ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka futhi ngazama ukungakwesabi ukunyakaza ngakunye. Lokho kucindezela okuncane kwenza ukululama kwaba nempilo futhi kusheshe. Lokhu wukuhlinzwa okukhulu, kepha okuza nomvuzo omuhle kakhulu. "-UDanielle Stingo, 30, Long Island, NY

"Ngikhumbula iphunga elihlukile ngesikhathi sokuhlinzwa, engalithola kamuva ukuthi iphunga lezitho zami kanye namathumbu."

"Mina nodokotela wami sithathe isinqumo sokuthi kufanele ngibe no-C-section ngenxa yobungozi bezinkinga ngenxa yokulimala emhlane engikuthole ngisemusha. Ukulethwa kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane kungasusa i-disc yami kuyo yonke indlela, okuyiyo Kungaholela ekugcineni ekukhubazekeni.Kwakuyisinqumo esilula ukusithatha futhi ngazizwa ngikhululekile ukungakhathazeki ngokuthi ngizoqala nini ukubeletha nokuthi umyeni wami uzoba khona azongisiza - angikucasulanga nakancane ukuthi ngangizoba ne-C-section ehleliwe njengoba kwenza abantu besifazane abaningi.Ekuseni ngokuhlinzwa kwami ​​ngikhumbula ngishaywa uvalo, nokho.Okwangethusa kakhulu kwaba lapho betshela umyeni wami ukuthi aphume ekamelweni ukuze anginikeze i-epidural-ke. Ngangazi ukuthi yiqiniso. Ngangiqhaqhazela futhi ngiba nesiyezi. Lapho imithi isiqalile ukusebenza ngezwa ngixakile ngoba ngokokuqala ngqa eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-20 ngangingasezwa nhlobo izinhlungu zeqolo! kuyinqaba nokubuka abahlengikazi besonga imilenze yami bese behambisa umzimba wami ukubeka i-ca i-theter yayivele ingahambi kahle. Ngazizwa nginokuzenyeza, kodwa ngithe sengiphinde ngahlangana nomyeni wami ngehlisa umoya. Ngesikhathi sesigaba se-C, bekuzwakala njengokuhlangenwe nakho okungaphandle komzimba ngoba bengizizwa ngidonsa futhi ngidonsa, kepha ngangingenabo ubuhlungu. Ikhethini lalivuliwe ngakho angikwazanga ukubona lutho ngaphansi kwesifuba sami, futhi. Ngikhumbula iphunga elihlukile engafunda kamuva ukuthi iphunga lezitho zami namathumbu ami. Nginomuzwa wokuhogela onembe ngendlela exakile futhi wawukhuliswa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kodwa leli kwakuyiphunga elingavamile kunawo wonke. Ngezwa ngifikelwa ubuthongo obukhulu kodwa akwenele ukuthi ngivale amehlo ngilale. Ngabe sengiqala ukuthola intuthwane futhi ngizibuza ukuthi kuzoba isikhathi esingakanani.Bese bekhipha ingane yami yomfana bayikhombisa kimi. Kwakumangalisa. Kwakungokomzwelo. Bekukuhle. Ngenkathi bemhlanza futhi behlola izibalo zakhe, kwakudingeka bahambise i-placenta futhi bangithungise. Lokhu kuthathe isikhathi eside kunalokho ebengikulindele. Mude ukudilivwa kwendodana yami. Kamuva ngathola ukuthi udokotela wami empeleni ubethatha isikhathi sakhe ukungithunga ukuze akwazi ukushiya i-tattoo yami iqinile. Ngahlabeka umxhwele ngoba ngangingakaze ngimtshele ukuthi ngifuna ukuyisindisa! Kukonke, ngingasho ukuthi isigaba sami se-C sasiyingxenye engcono kakhulu yokukhulelwa kwami. (Ngangingowesifazane okhulelwe olusizi!) Anginazikhalo futhi bengizophinda ngikwenze ngokushaya kwenhliziyo."-Noelle Rafaniello, 36, Easley, SC

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