Umama Omusha Ubhala Okusuka Enhliziyweni Mayelana Nokuzithanda Emva Kokubeletha

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Uma ungumama ku-Instagram, okuphakelayo kwakho cishe kugcwele izinhlobo ezimbili zabesifazane: uhlobo olwabelana ngezithombe zezinsuku zabo ezinamaphakethe ayisithupha ngemva kokubeletha, nalabo ababukisa ngokuziqhenya ngama-stretch marks kanye nesikhumba esixegayo egameni. wokuthuthukiswa kwabesifazane. Bobabili abesifazane bakhuthaza ngendlela emangalisayo ngendlela yabo, kodwa akukhona njalo mayelana nokubuyela esimweni noma ukwamukela lokho okubizwa ngokuthi "amaphutha." Kwesinye isikhathi kumayelana nokuzisika kancane futhi uthathe isikhathi osidingayo ukuze wamukele umzimba wakho omusha - futhi akekho owazi ukuthi uzizwa ungcono kunoKristelle Morgan.

Kokuthunyelwe okuhle kwe-Instagram, umama omusha uvumile ukuthi unenkinga yokwamukela umzimba wakhe osushintshile ngemuva kokubeletha indodakazi yakhe.

"Ngangikade ngiwumqemane, nganginamahla ndinyuka nomzimba wami kodwa kukonke ngiyazi ngangibukeka ngimuhle impela," wabhala kanye nesithombe sesisu sakhe nengane yakhe esanda kuzalwa ilele eceleni kwakhe. "Kwabe sekufika ukukhulelwa futhi nganginkulu. Ngasinda ngasekupheleni ngokushesha okukhulu."

UMorgan waqhubeka echaza ukuthi ukukhulelwa kwakhe kwakungelula. Wayenoketshezi oluningi lwe-amniotic futhi indodakazi yakhe yayimile, okwabangela isisu sakhe ukuba "sibe sikhulu kakhulu" futhi kubangele ama-stretch marks avela sekwephuzile ekukhulelweni kwakhe. "Nganginezindinganiso ezingenangqondo zokuthi umzimba wami wawuzobukeka kanjani ngemuva kokuzalwa (yebo mhlawumbe ngoba nami sengikwazi ukulandela bonke labo mama abashubile be-Instagram)," kubhala yena. "Kodwa lokhu kuyiqiniso kwabaningi bethu."

Kodwa-ke, ngemuva kwesikhathi esidingeka kakhulu nokubekezela, uMorgan ubonile ukuthi umzimba wakhe unjani njengamanje. “Umzimba wami ubukeka kanjena yinani elihle engingalikhokhela ingelosi encane engilala nayo eduze kwami,” kusho yena.

"Kumele ngizikhumbuze ukuthi ngibe mnandi emzimbeni wami, ngichithe izinyanga eziyi-9 ngakha impilo futhi yebo kungenzeka ingaze ibukeke njengakudala kodwa kulungile," ubhale wengeza, "kodwa futhi kulungile ukudabuka ngakho . "

Unephuzu. Kaningi abesifazane bayatshelwa ukuthi bacabange ngandlela thile uma kuza emzimbeni wabo ngemuva kokukhulelwa. Khumbula ukuthi kungumzimba WAKHO nokuthi unelungelo lokuthatha sonke isikhathi osidingayo ukuze uzizwe ukhululekile kuso. Futhi uma ungazizwa kahle ngakho, lokho akukwenzi ube buthakathaka noma ungazethembi kangako. Kusho nje ukuthi uphila ngejubane lakho - njengoba unelungelo lokukwenza.

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