Ucwaningo Olusha Lukhombisa Abesifazane Bakhetha I-Dadbod ku-Six-Pack

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Kusukela leli gama laqanjwa eminyakeni embalwa edlule, i-"dadbod" isiphenduke into yamasiko. ICYMI, dadbod ibhekisela kumfana ongakhuluphele kakhulu kodwa ongenawo umsipha omningi. Ngokuyisisekelo, i-dadbod kufanele ibizwa ngokuthi "i-normalbod." Njengoba sibonisile ukuthi yaqala nini ukuba yinto, * kuyamangaza ukuthi manje amadoda ayakhuthazwa ukuthi azizwe ekhululekile ngomzimba ophilile kepha hhayi ongcono.

Kepha kuthiwani ngama-mombods? Ngokudabukisayo, ngisho neminyaka kamuva, sisalinde okulingana nowesifazane ukuthi angene ngendlela emangalisayo.

Abalingisi abanjengoLeonardo DiCaprio, uJason Segel, noJon Hamm banconywa ngokukwazi kwabo ukunethezeka ngokubukeka okuncane, okuncane kwemisipha, futhi abanankinga yokuthola umsebenzi eHollywood. UDiCaprio ukwazile nokuzungeza ngokunikezwa okungapheli kwamamodeli amancane, ashisayo yize enesimo se-dadbod. Kodwa lapho uRihanna eqala ukubukeka kancane, wayenamahloni kakhulu. (Ngenhlanhla, i-Twitter yehlise owesilisa ocansini umgodi obhekene naye.)

Futhi ocwaningweni olunenhloso enhle kodwa olucasulayo olwenziwe kuhlonishwa uSuku Lobaba yiPlanet Fitness, ijimu eliziqhenya ngokufinyeleleka nokungethuki kubantu bazo zonke izinhlobo zemizimba (okuyiqiniso, okuwumsebenzi omangalisayo), abacwaningi bathola ukuthi abesifazane bahle kakhulu ngokubukeka kwe-dadbod. Eqinisweni, okutholakele kwabo kukhombisa ukuthi abesifazane kungenzeka khetha ukuze umzimba ube nemisipha eyengeziwe. Ucwaningo lubandakanya abantu ababalelwa ku-2 000, kanti amaphesenti angama-69 abesifazane ababambe iqhaza bathe bathola ama-dadbods amnandi. Futhi amaphesenti angama-47 abesifazane abahlolisisiwe baze bathi bacabanga ukuthi i-dadbod "iyipakethe entsha eyisithupha." Okunye kokutholwe kwaze kwaphakamisa ukuthi abesifazane bacabanga ukuthi amadoda anama-dadbod enza "izinto zomshado" ezingcono. (Kufanele uthathe leyo mbono yokugcina ngohlamvu lukasawoti.)

Nangu umkhabi: Abathathu kwabahlanu (cishe amaphesenti angama-60) abesilisa abazikhomba njengabanodadod abazizwa sengathi bahlulelwa ngokungafaneleki ngokwengeziwe. Ungacabanga ukuthi lelo nani liphakeme kwabesifazane abangabhekwa njengomzimba "ofanele"?

Singathola nje i-WTF enamandla?! Yebo, kunjalo enkulu ukuthi amadoda angazizwa ekhululekile ukuba yilokho ayikho ngaphandle kokwesaba ukulahlekelwa yilabo abangaba abangane bomshado-leyo impela inqubekela phambili. Futhi kuyamangalisa ukuthi inani elikhulu labesifazane liyabona ukuthi i-rock-hard abs ayitholakali kuwo wonke umuntu. Kepha ungacabanga ukuthi inani elifanayo labafana lithanda owesifazane onesisu esingeyona flat? Noma bethi kungcono beshade nomuntu othambile kancane emaphethelweni kunowesifazane obukeka njenge-supermodel? Kuyamangalisa amadoda ukuthi iningi labesifazane lithola isisu esithambile esihlotshaniswa ne-dadbod sibe sithandeka kakhulu (ngokusho kwe- lokhu survey vele), kepha iqiniso ukuthi, akuhambi ngazo zombili izindlela. Njengomodeli, umama, kanye nommeli onomzimba omuhle, u-Tess Holliday, usanda kuveza, "Abesifazane abakhuluphele njengomama baphucwa ubulili bethu."

Futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, senza ngempela kudingeka sigubhe indlela izinto ezimangalisa ngayo ezithombeni zomzimba wamadoda njengamanje, ngesikhathi lapho ukufinyelela ekulawuleni inzalo kuncipha, abesifazane abaningi abakwazi ukukhokhela ikhefu lokubeletha, futhi kubonakala kungenakwenzeka ngisho nokuya kuhlelo lokusebenza lokuqomisana. ngaphandle kokuhlangabezana namahloni amafutha?

Nakuba lesi simo esishiwo ngenhla sika-Leonardo DiCaprio ngokumelene no-Rihanna siyisibonelo esihle sokuthi lezi zimo ezimbaxambili zidlala kanjani, ukusetshenziswa kwazo okusobala kakhulu kusezweni langempela. Abesifazane abakhuluphele ASEKHO amathuba okuthi bathole umsebenzi kunabesifazane abancane. Kodwa uma kukhulunywa ngabesilisa abafuna umsebenzi, ukukhuluphala akubabuyiseli emuva kakhulu, ngokocwaningo lwango-2016 olwanyatheliswa ku- Imingcele kuPsychology. Kubuza umbuzo: Kungani iMelika izonda abesifazane abakhuluphele kangaka? Okuthile kufanele kushintshe, futhi kudinga ukuqala ngokwamukela ukuthi imizimba yabesifazane abakhuluphele kakhulu nayo mihle. Siyajabula ngawe ukuthi usukulungele ukwamukela imizimba yakho, madoda, kodwa sekuyisikhathi sokucabanga ngokwamukela eyethu, futhi-noma ngabe umumo noma usayizi onjani.

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