Omunye Umama Wacabanga Ukuthi Kulungile Ukuhlukumeza Isisebenzi Sokukhiya Itshe Elibandayo

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UJustine Elwood ubecabanga ukuthi bekuwusuku nje olujwayelekile emsebenzini eCold Stone Creamery, kuze kufike ikhasimende bese liqala ukuthuka uhlobo lomzimba wakhe nesisindo. Kuba kubi kakhulu: ukuphawula bekuqondiswe kowesifazane izingane. “Uma uno-ayisikhilimu omningi uzofana naye,” kubikwa ukuthi lo wesifazane esho ekhomba uJustine.

Uma lokho kuziphatha okudelela bekunganele, ikhasimende liphinde lanquma ukushiya isibuyekezo esinonya sika-Yelp mayelana nesisebenzi esineminyaka engu-19 esisusiwe. Ukubuyekezwa okushaqisayo kufundeka kanje: "Omunye wabasebenzi babo besifazane uJessie? Jennifer? J something, ukhuluphele ngendlela enyanyekayo, futhi isikhathi ngasinye lapho singena, nakuba enza umsebenzi wakhe, futhi enesizotha kakhulu, ngaso leso sikhathi kwenza isifiso sami sokudla siphele."

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UJustine, ongumfundi wasekolishi ofundela ukuba udokotela womdlavuza wokuhlinzwa, uthe ukubona lezi zinkulumo ezinyantisayo kwamphula inhliziyo.

"Akukaze kube kuhle ukuzwa lezo zinto ngawe, akuzange kungenze ngizizwe ngijabule ngokuqinisekile," esho KTRK. "Ngathuka nje ngoba ngibona sengathi leyo akuyona into okumele uyikhulume phambi kwezingane. Futhi bekungemnandi neze. Ngibona sengathi akuyona into enhle leyo ukufundisa izingane zakho, kodwa kuyenzeka ngiyacabanga."

Ngeshwa, akusikho okokuqala uJustine egxekwa kanzima ngomzimba wakhe, ethi "Kuyinto enjengokuthi ngibe nempilo yami yonke, ngakho-ke ngiyijwayele, okuyinto embi, kodwa kuyinto ebengibhekene nayo impilo yami yonke. "

Kepha kulokhu, izinto bezihlukile. Esikhundleni sokubhekana nehlazo nokuhlekwa yedwa, uJustine wamangala ukubona umphakathi wendawo usukuma ukhombisa ukuweseka ngokumlethela amabhaluni nezimbali.

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"Kube mnandi kakhulu ukuzwa uthando olungaka bese uguqula into engeyona ibe yinto enhle," ubhale kuFacebook. "Ngibonga kakhulu ngothando lomphakathi. Ngibusisekile."

Naphezu kwalo lonke uthando nethemba, kwakukhona ama-troll ambalwa azama ukumhlazisa ukuba athule, ethi wayezama nje ukunakwa. Ukulwa nabazondayo, waphinda futhi, osemusha wathatha i-Facebook ukuze achaze ukuthi le ndaba ayigcini nje ngaye. Kukhulunywa ngabo bonke abantu abahlazekile ngomzimba futhi bazizwe bedabukile ngenxa yendlela ababukeka ngayo. (Funda: Abesifazane Abayi-10 Abakhohlakele Abenze U-2016 Wangcono Ngokushaya Ihlombe Kwabazonda Abahlazisa Umzimba)

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"Ngenkathi ngijabule kakhulu ukuthi ngithole ukwesekwa okungaka, kodwa abanalo iphuzu eliyinhloko lokuthi kungani bengabelana ngodaba lwami," kubhala yena.

"Angizami neze ukusho ukuthi 'ngangikhuluphele,' noma ngizama ukuzwelana nalokhu. Kunalokho ngizama ukuqwashisa ngenkinga ENKULU abantu besilisa, abesifazane nezingane abaningi ababhekana nayo nsuku zonke. Ubuqhwaga ubhubhane.Kunomthelela kwezinye izindaba eziningi abantu ababhekana nazo.Ukuqinela kubulala izimpilo.Amagama nokuhlukunyezwa abantu ababhekana nakho kuqhuba abantu ukuba bazibulale. "

“Ngixoxe indaba yami ukukhombisa abanye ukuthi ababodwa,” kuphetha yena. "Lolu hlobo lwezinto lwenzeka nsuku zonke kwabanye abantu futhi angifuni lutho ngaphandle kokusiza abantu ababhekene nalokhu."

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