Siyini Isijeziso Esiqondile?

-Delile

• Incazelo
• Izibonelo
• Lapho isijeziso esivumayo sinemiphumela emibi eminingi kakhulu
• Isijeziso esihle noma esibi noma ukuqiniswa
• Ukujeziswa okulungile kuqhathaniswa nokuqiniswa okuhle
• I-BF Skinner nesimo sokusebenza
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Incazelo

Ukujeziswa okulungile kuyindlela yokuguqulwa kokuziphatha. Kulokhu, igama elithi "positive" alisho into emnandi.

Ukujeziswa okulungile kungeza okuthile kumxube okuzoholela kumphumela ongathandeki. Umgomo ukunciphisa amathuba okuthi ukuziphatha okungafuneki kuzophinde kwenzeke ngokuzayo.

Le ndlela ingahle isebenze ezimweni ezithile, kodwa yingxenye eyodwa kuphela yesibalo. Ukuqondisa ingane yakho kwezinye izindlela zokuziphatha ezifanele kakhulu isimo kuyadingeka.

Ake sibheke ukujeziswa okuhle nokuthi kuqhathaniswa kanjani nokujeziswa okungekuhle nokuqiniswa okuhle nokubi.

Izibonelo

Zonke izenzo zinemiphumela. Ukujeziswa okulungile kungaba umphumela wemvelo wesenzo esithile.

Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho idla ukhilimu ohlutshiwe onakalisiwe ngoba ukufihle ngaphansi kombhede wayo, izophathwa yisisu. Uma bathinta isitofu esishisayo, bazoshisa isandla sabo.

Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho akumnandi neze. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, zisebenza njengezikhathi zokufundisa ezibalulekile. Njengoba ubungenza nje, ingane ingahle ithambekele ekushintsheni indlela yayo yokuziphatha ukugwema imiphumela.

Lapho ukhetha isijeziso, cabanga ngokujezisa isimilo, hhayi ingane. Isijeziso kufanele senzelwe ingane.

"Ukujeziswa okuhle kusekelwe kulokho okuphikisayo," kusho u-Elizabeth Rossiaky, BCBA, umqondisi womtholampilo eWestside Children's Therapy eFrankfurt, e-Illinois. "Yini ephindisela umuntu kungenzeka ingavimbeli bonke."

Unalokho engqondweni, nazi izibonelo zezijeziso ezivamile:

• Ethethisa. Ukukhuzwa noma ukufundiswa yinto izingane eziningi ezingathanda ukuyigwema.
• Ukushaya ngempama noma ukubamba. Lokhu kungenzeka ngokwemvelo okwamanje. Ungahle ushaye kancane isandla sengane efinyelela imbiza yamanzi abilayo esitofini, noma odonsa izinwele zezingane zakubo. Ungase ubambe ngenkani noma udonse ingane esizohlangana nomgwaqo.
• Kubhala. Le ndlela ivame ukusetshenziswa esikoleni. Ingane iphoqelekile ukuthi ibhale umusho ofanayo kaninginingi, noma ibhale i-eseyi mayelana nokuziphatha kwayo.
• Imisebenzi yasekhaya. Abazali abaningi bangezela imisebenzi yasekhaya njengendlela yokujezisa. Ingane ebhala odongeni noma egcoba ibhotela lamantongomane kuyo yonke itafula ingahle iphoqeleke ukuthi iyihlanze noma yenze eminye imisebenzi yasendlini.
• Imithetho. Bambalwa abantu abafisa imithetho eminingi. Enganeni evame ukungaziphathi kahle, ukungeza imithetho eyengeziwe yasekhaya kungaba yisisusa sokushintsha indlela yokuziphatha.

Iningi lezingane liqonda ngokwemvelo umqondo wokujeziswa okuhle. Fakaza ingane encane eqeda intukuthelo kuphela uma kuhlangatshezwane nezimfuno.Nakho lokho kungabonakala kwenzeka phakathi kwezelamani.

Ukujeziswa okulungile kungasebenza uma kulandela ngokushesha ukuziphatha okungafuneki. Isebenza kahle kakhulu uma isetshenziswa ngokungaguquguquki.

Kuyasebenza futhi nezinye izindlela, njengokuqiniswa okuhle, ngakho ingane ifunda izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokuziphatha.

Lapho isijeziso esivumayo sinemiphumela emibi eminingi kakhulu

Esinye sezibonelo eziphikisanayo kakhulu zokujeziswa okuqondile ukushaya.

Ku, abacwaningi baphikisa ngokuthi ukushaya kungakhuphula ingozi yokwanda kokuziphatha okunolaka. Ingathumela umyalezo wokuthi ubudlova bungaxazulula izinkinga.

Kungacindezela imikhuba emibi ngaphandle kokunikeza ezinye izindlela. Imiphumela ingaba yesikhashana, ngokuziphatha okungafuneki kuyabuya lapho isijeziso sesiphelile.

Ukubuyekezwa kocwaningo lwango-2016 lweminyaka engama-50 yocwaningo kusikisela ukuthi lapho uyishaya kakhulu ingane, maningi amathuba okuthi ikudelele. Kungakhuphula isimilo sokungahloniphi nolaka. Kungaba nomthelela ezinkingeni zengqondo nezengqondo.

“Ngokuvamile, isijeziso esihle siyindlela yokufundisa engakhethwa kakhulu ngenxa yokwenza okungajwayelekile. Kodwa esimweni sokuphepha, kuzoba yimpumelelo enkulu ekugcineni ukuphepha, ”kusho uRossiaky.

Ifundisa indlela yokugwema kepha hhayi eyokuziphatha esikhundleni, uyachaza.

“Uma kufanele ukhiphe isijeziso amahlandla amaningi, akusebenzi. Ungahle uthande ukucabangela indlela ehlukile. Futhi kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi ukujeziswa akukhona nje ukuveza ukukhungatheka kwakho, ”kweluleka uRossiaky.

Uma kukhulunywa ngokushaya, ukushaya nerula, noma ezinye izinhlobo zokujeziswa ngokomzimba, akunconywa.

URossiaky uxwayisa ngokuthi izingane zinhle ekutholeni izintuba. Bajwayele ukuthola isimilo esingalungile ngaphandle uma ufundisa okunye.

Isijeziso esihle noma esibi noma ukuqiniswa

Ekushintsheni kokuziphatha, "okuhle" "nokubi" akusho ukuthi "kuhle" noma "kubi." Kungasiza ukucabanga ngabo njengo- “plus” noma “minus”: Ukuvuma kusho ukuthi uyengeza, futhi okungekuhle kusho ukuthi uyakhipha.

Ukujezisa kujwayele uku dikibala isimilo esithile. Ukuqinisa kuhloswe ngakho khuthaza isimilo esithile.

Ukujeziswa okulungile kulapho ungeza umphumela ekuziphatheni okungafuneki. Ukwenza lokhu ukuze ungakhangi kangako.

Isibonelo sesijeziso esihle sengeza imisebenzi eminingi ohlwini lapho ingane yakho inganaki izibopho zayo. Umgomo ukukhuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi yenze imisebenzi yayo ejwayelekile yokugwema uhlu olukhulayo lomsebenzi.

Ukujeziswa okungekuhle kulapho uthatha okuthile. Isibonelo sokujeziswa okungekuhle kuthatha ithoyizi eliyintandokazi lengane yakho ngoba bayenqaba ukuzilandela.

Inhloso yokujeziswa okungekuhle ukwenza ingane yakho iqoqe emva kwabo ukugwema ukuthathwa kwamathoyizi. Ukuvala isikhathi nakho kuyindlela yokujeziswa okungekuhle.

Ngokuqiniswa okungalungile, ususa isikhuthazi ngenhloso yokwandisa isimilo esifanele.

Isibonelo, uhlale ubiza ingane yakho ukuthi ibuyele ekhishini ukusula itafula nokuphatha amapuleti kusinki. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, bafunda ukwenza lesi senzo ngaphandle kokuxwayiswa ukugwema ukuphazamiseka kokubizwa futhi.

Ungacabanga ukuqinisa okungekuhle njengethuluzi lokufundisa kunendlela yokujezisa.

URossiaky ukholelwa ukuthi, ngokujwayelekile, ukuqiniswa kungcono kunesijeziso.

Ukujeziswa okulungile kuqhathaniswa nokuqiniswa okuhle

Ukujeziswa okulungile kunezela umphumela ongathandeki kulandela ukuziphatha okungafuneki. Uma wenza ingane yakho ihlanze igalaji ngoba ishaye isikhathi sokufika ekhaya, lokho kuyisijeziso esihle.

Ukuqiniswa okuhle kungeza umvuzo lapho ingane iziphatha kahle. Uma unikeza ingane yakho isabelo sokwenza imisebenzi ethile, lokho kuyakuqinisa.

Umgomo ukwandisa amathuba okuthi bazoqhubeka nokuziphatha okuhle.

I-BF Skinner nesimo sokusebenza

Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sokuqala sekhulu lama-20 uBF Skinner waziwa ngokwanda ngombono wokuziphatha. Ukugxila kwakhe ekukhohlisweni komphumela kwaziwa njengesimo sokusebenza.

Kafushane, isimo sokusebenza sizungeze amasu okufundisa. Ukujeziswa okuhle nokubi kusetshenziselwa ukudikibala ukuziphatha okungafanele. Ukuqiniswa okuhle nokubi kusetshenziselwa ukukhuthaza isimilo esihle.

Asetshenziswe ndawonye, ​​lawa masu enzelwe ukusiza ingane yakhe ukuzihlanganisa phakathi kokuziphatha nemiphumela yokuziphatha.

Ukudla okudlela endlini

Ukujeziswa okulungile kuyindlela yokujezisa lapho ungeza okuthile emvelweni ukunqanda isimilo esithile.

Ngokwako, ukujeziswa okuhle kungahle kungabi yisixazululo esihle sesikhathi eside. Kungasebenza kangcono uma kuhlanganiswe nokuqiniswa okuhle nokubi.

Ekugcineni, zama ukufundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ingazisusa kanjani izindlela zokuziphatha ezingafuneki ngezamukelekayo.