Izindlela Zokuqeqesha Amanzi: Yikuphi Okufanele Ingane Yakho?

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• Iyiphi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza?
• Ukuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza okugxile ezinganeni
• Ukuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza zezinsuku ezintathu:
• Ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi okuholwa ngumzali:
• Ukuqeqeshwa kwamazinyane ezingane
• Ingabe ingane yakho isilungele ukuqeqeshwa ngamabhodlela?
• Amathiphu okuqeqesha potty
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Noma ngabe usufinyelele ekugcineni kwesineke sakho esishintsha amanabukeni noma ingane yakho ifuna ukujoyina umsebenzi odinga ukuba uqeqeshwe ngamanzi, unqume ukuthi isikhathi sesifikile sokuqala ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi.

Noma ngabe imuphi umcimbi wempilo okuholele kuleli phuzu, ungahle ubone ngokushesha ukuthi empeleni awazi okuningi mayelana nokucaciswa kokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza. (Ungamane utshele ingane yakho ukuthi isebenzise indlu yangasese esikhundleni se-diaper yayo, akunjalo?)

Lapho ukhuluma nabantu noma uqala ucwaningo lwakho ngokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza, kungenzeka uzizwe ukhungathekile ngomehluko wemibono nezitayela. Ngabe kufanele wazi kanjani ukuthi yini esebenza kahle kakhulu?

Ngenkathi singeke sikuthathele isinqumo, silapha ukukunikeza ubuhle, ububi, nezinqubo ezibandakanyeka kwezinye zezindlela zokuqeqesha izimbiza ezithandwa kakhulu. (Futhi, ukukusiza uqiniseke ukuthi ingane yakho ikulungele ngempela ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi!)

Iyiphi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza?

Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho isilungele ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa ngamabhodlela, isinyathelo esilandelayo sicabanga ukuthi yisiphi isitayela sokuqeqeshwa samanzi esilungele umndeni wakho. Ayikho indlela eyodwa efanele yokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza, futhi ayikho indlela yokuqeqeshwa ngamabhodwe eza ngaphandle kwesabelo sayo sezinzuzo nezinkinga.

Kunezinhlobo eziningi zezindlela zokuqeqeshwa kwamabhodwe kufaka phakathi ukuqeqeshwa kwamabhodwe ezingane, ukuqeqeshwa kwamabhodwe okuqondiswe ezinganeni, ukuqeqeshwa kwamabhodwe kwezinsuku ezi-3, nokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza okuholwa ngabantu abadala. Lapha sizoxoxa futhi siqhathanise isitayela ngasinye.

Ukuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza okugxile ezinganeni

Okokuqala okwethulwa ngudokotela wezingane uT. Berry Brazelton ngo-1962, umqondo wokulandela izimpawu zokulungela kwengane esinyathelweni ngasinye senqubo yokuqeqeshwa kwendlu yangasese usekelwa yi-American Academy of Pediatrics. iphakamisa ukuthi le ndlela iphakathi kwalabo abaphumelela kakhulu.

Ngubani oyisebenzisayo: Abazali abangajahi isitimela samanzi futhi bahle nengane yabo okungenzeka basebenzise amanabukeni izinyanga ezimbalwa ezengeziwe.

Ubudala: Uphakathi kweminyaka engu-2 no-3 ubudala, kepha imvamisa usondele eminyakeni emithathu. Ingaqalwa noma nini lapho ingane yakho ikutshela ukuthi ifuna ukusebenzisa i-potty noma idinga ukuya endlini yangasese.

Buhle: Lolu hlobo lokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza aludingi ukuthi umzali agxile kuphela ekuqeqesheni izimbiza noma abekele eceleni isikhathi esiningi salo. Ngoba ingane iyayigqugquzela, kuthanda ukuba nokulwa okuncane nokuhlehla.

Nebubi: Lokhu kungenzeka kungabi uhlelo lokuqeqesha amanzi ngokushesha, futhi kungadinga ukuthi abazali baqhubeke nokukhokhela / ukuguqula amanabukeni isikhathi eside kunezinye izindlela zokuqeqesha ezinamanzi.

Inqubo: Abazali bangakhuluma ngokusebenzisa indlu yangasese futhi banikele ngayo, kepha akufanele kube nemizamo ebanzi yokufuqela ingane yabo kuyo. Esikhundleni salokho, abazali kufanele babheke izintshisekelo zemvelo zengane yabo ukuze zikhule futhi zikhuthaze ingane ukuthi yenze ngokuvumelana nezifiso zayo zokusebenzisa indlu yangasese noma ukulingisa abantu abadala / ontanga.

Abazali bavumela izingane ukuba zihole ekuvuseleleni uhambo lokuya endlini yangasese, futhi njalo baqhubeke besebenzisa amanabukeni noma amabhulukwe okuqeqesha abadonsa ngale ndlela kuze kube yilapho ingane iya endlini yangasese ngaphambi kokwenza kanjalo enabukeni.

Ukuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza zezinsuku ezintathu:

Le ndlela yezitimela in-day isuselwe encwadini ka-1974 ngabasebenza ngokusebenza kwengqondo uNathan Azrin noRichard Foxx. iphakamisa ukuthi le ndlela, kanye nezindlela ezigxile ezinganeni, ziphakathi kweziphumelela kakhulu.

Ngubani oyisebenzisayo: Inketho ethandwayo yabazali abafisa ukuthi ingane yabo ibe potty eqeqeshwe ngokushesha.

Ubudala: Ngokuvamile kusebenza kahle lapho ingane okungenani inezinyanga ezingama-22 ubudala.

Buhle: Lolu uhlelo lokuqeqesha amabhodwe ngokushesha, luwusizo ikakhulukazi uma ingane idinga ukuqeqeshelwa izimbiza ukuze ijoyine isikole esisha noma umsebenzi.

Nebubi: Kudinga ukuthi ishejuli yomndeni ibekwe ikhefu ukugxila kuphela ekuqeqeshweni kwezimbiza phakathi nenkathi yezinsuku ezi-3. Kuzoba nezingozi eziningi endleleni!

Inqubo: Ngosuku 1 wonke amanabukeni engane aphonswa ngaphandle. Izingane bese zigqokiswe isikibha nje nezikhindi zangaphansi zezingane ezinkulu. Kubalulekile ukugcina izimpahla zangaphansi neziphuzo eziningi ukukhuthaza ukuchama ngaphambi kokuqala lolu hlobo lokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi!)

Abazali bakhombisa izingane zabo indlu yangasese futhi bayala ingane ukuba ibazise lapho bedinga ukuya endlini yangasese ukugcina izingubo zabo zangaphansi ezintsha zomile.

Bese, kufika izingozi ezingenakugwemeka. (Zilungiselele izingozi eziningi, eziningi kulezi zinsuku ezi-3!) Abazali kufanele baqoqe ingane uma iqala ukuba nengozi, bayigijimise endlini yangasese, futhi bayenze iqede endlini yangasese.

Le nqubo iyaqhubeka futhi idinga ukuthi abazali bahlale bezolile, badumise kakhulu, futhi basebenzise izingozi njengethuba lokufundisa ingane yabo lapho idinga ukuya endlini yangasese.

Ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi okuholwa ngumzali:

Uma amashejuli eyinto yakho, le ndlela ehlelekile ingakhanga kuwe.

Ngubani oyisebenzisayo: Abazali abafuna ukunamathela esimisweni. Ezimweni ezinabanakekeli abaningi, le ndlela ingaba lula ukuyisebenzisa.

Ubudala: Noma nini lapho ingane ikhombisa izimpawu zokulungela.

Buhle: Kulula kubantu abadala abaningi abaxhumana nengane ukuthi bahambisane nale ndlela. Akunasidingo sokushintsha kakhulu uhlelo lomndeni noma uvimbele izinsuku ezimbalwa ukugxila kuphela ekuqeqesheni izimbiza.

Nebubi: Ngoba ingane ayiqali ukuvakashelwa okuningi okugezwa, kungenzeka zingaziboni izimpawu zazo zomzimba ngokushesha.

Inqubo: Kunokwehluka okuningi ekuqeqesheni izimbiza okuholwa ngumzali, kepha lezi zindlela zabelana ngombono wokuthi abazali (noma abanakekeli) baqala ingane basebenzise indlu yangasese esimisweni esimisiwe noma ngokuya ngezikhathi ezithile.

Isibonelo, ingane ingaholelwa endlini yangasese ukuze izame ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese njalo emahoreni amabili kuya kwamathathu emini. Ngenye indlela, ingane ingakhuthazwa ukuthi isebenzise indlu yangasese ngaphambi / ngemuva kwaso sonke isidlo, phakathi kwemisebenzi, nangaphambi kokulala.

Vele, nasekuqeqesheni izimbiza okuholwa ngumzali uma ingane icela ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese ngezinye izikhathi zosuku, abazali nabanakekeli bangakusekela lokhu.

Ukuqeqeshwa kwamazinyane ezingane

Le ndlela kwesinye isikhathi ibizwa ngokuthi ukuxhumana kokuqeda noma inhlanzeko engokwemvelo yezinsana.

Ngubani oyisebenzisayo: Kudume kakhulu emindenini e-Asia nase-Afrika. Abanye futhi bakuthathe njengokwengezwa kokunamathiselwa komzali.

Ubudala: Kuvame ukuqala cishe izinyanga ezi-1 kuye kwezi-4 ubudala futhi kuqedwe ngesikhathi ingane ekwazi ukuhamba ngaso. Uma uqala ngengane engaphezu kwezinyanga eziyisithupha ubudala, kungadingeka ukuthi ushintshe indlela.

Buhle: Uzokonga imali eningi kumanabukeni! Izinsana nazo zivame ukuba nokuqubuka okumbalwa ngoba ngeke zihlale enabukeni elimanzi noma elingcolile. Ngokwengeziwe, abazali abaningi banomuzwa wokuthi bakha isibopho esisondelene nengane yabo ngale nqubo.

Nebubi: Lokhu kungadida. Futhi kudinga ukuthi abantu bagxile kakhulu ezinkomba zengane futhi kungenzeka bangasebenzi uma kunabanakekeli abaningi bengane noma ababheki abashintsha kaningi. Isikhathi nesikhathi nokuzinikela okuhilelekile kukhulu, okwenza lokhu kungenzeki emindenini ethile.

Futhi lokhu akuyona ukuqeqeshwa okunamanzi ngomqondo ojwayelekile - ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kuyadingeka futhi akukho ukuzimela ngasese kuze kube yilapho ingane isikhule kakhulu.

Inqubo: Ezindleleni zokuqeqesha amabhodwe ezingane, amanabukeni angagwema wonke ndawonye. Amanabukeni alahlwayo ikakhulukazi kufanele agwenywe kusukela esemncane. Isibonelo, uma umzali efuna ukusebenzisa inabukeni phakathi nobusuku, kukhethwa i-diaper yendwangu evumela ingane ukuthi izwe lapho imanzi.

Esikhundleni sokuthembela kumanabukeni, umzali usebenza nezimpawu zomntwana wakhe ukuze azi ukuthi usezochama noma achame nini. Lezi zimpawu zingafaka isikhathi, amaphethini (maqondana nokudla nokulala), ukuzwakala, noma nje ukuthembela kumuzwa womzali.

Lapho umzali ezwa ukuthi ingane yakhe idinga ukuya endlini yangasese, bayamphuthumisa ethoyilethi (noma kwenye indawo eyamukelekayo) ukuzikhulula lapho.

Ingabe ingane yakho isilungele ukuqeqeshwa ngamabhodlela?

Ngaphambi kokukhetha indlela yokuqeqesha enamanzi, kubalulekile ukuthatha isikhashana ukubheka ukuthi ingane yakho ikulungele yini ukunikela ngamanabukeni. Ukuthi ukulungele ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa ngamabhodwe kungahle kungasho ukuthi omncane wakho ukulungele, futhi ayikho indlela yokuqeqesha enamanzi engashintsha lokho!

Lapho uthatha isinqumo sokuthi ngabe ingane yakho ikulungele yini ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi, kubalulekile ukubheka izimpawu zokulungela. Isibonelo, banga:

• zwakalisa isifiso sokusebenzisa indlu yangasese
• khombisa intshisekelo ethoyilethi nokuthi abantu bayisebenzisa kanjani
• ube nokuhlangana komzimba okudingekayo ukuze wehlise phansi / up amabhulukwe, ugeze izandla, njll.
• khombisa izimpawu zokulawula isinye (amanabukeni ahlala omile isikhathi eside)
• unekhono lokulandela izinkomba zezinyathelo eziningi
• ngifuna ukujabulisa nokulingisa abantu abadala
• khombisa isifiso esandayo sokuzimela

Emphakathini waseNtshonalanga iningi lezingane likhombisa lezi zimpawu futhi liqeqeshwa njengamanzi phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-18 neminyaka emithathu. Isilinganiso seminyaka yokuqeqeshwa kwamabhodlela siwela ezinyangeni ezingama-27.

Ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi ukuqala ekuqaleni kungaholela ekuqeqeshweni kwangaphambilini, kepha isikhathi esithathayo ukuziqeqesha ukuze ufike lapho sithatha isikhathi eside. Yonke ingane ihlukile futhi yehlukile!

Amathiphu okuqeqesha potty

Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi:

• Qiniseka ukuthi ubeka isitoreji kunoma yini ongayidinga, njengamasongo ezihlalo zangasese, izitulo ezincane zezindlu zangasese nezingubo zangaphansi zezingane ezinkulu.
• Vumela ingane yakho ukuthi ijwayele isihlalo esinamanzi noma indlu yangasese ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi. Funda izincwadi noma cula izingoma ndawonye njengoba behleli esihlalweni sabo noma ethoyilethi begqoke ngokuphelele.
• Ngaphambi kokuya ngaphandle, zilungiselele ngePost-its ukumboza izindlu zangasese ezizishintshayo esidlangalaleni nakwezinye izihlalo zangasese zezingane, njll.

Uma ingane yakho ikhombisa izimpawu zokuhlehla - ukwenqaba ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese, ukubamba indle - kubalulekile ukuthi uhlale uzolile futhi ungajezisi ingane yakho.

Qiniseka ukuthi unikeza ingane yakho ukuqiniswa okuhle ngezinqumo ezinhle ezizenzayo, futhi uqhubeke nokuzikhuthaza ukuthi zisebenzise indlu yangasese. Uma ukukhungatheka kuqala ukugijima kakhulu, yazi ukuthi KULUNGILE ukuthatha ikhefu kancane ekuqeqesheni izimbiza.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha yiphi indlela yokuqeqesha, khumbula ukuthi ingane yakho izodinga i-diaper yasebusuku isikhathi eside ngemuva kokuqeqeshwa kwembiza yasemini. Iningi lezingane liyakwazi ukuhlala lomile ubusuku bonke cishe iminyaka engu-4 kuye kwengu-5 ubudala.

Ukudla okudlela endlini

Uma wena nengane yakho nikulungele ukuqala inqubo yokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza, kubalulekile ukuthi ukhethe indlela efanele yokuqeqesha izimbiza yomndeni wakho. Lapho uthatha isinqumo sendlela ethile, cabanga ngobuntu bengane yakho, isitayela sakho sokuba ngumzali, namaqiniso wempilo yakho yansuku zonke.

Ukuqeqeshelwa izimbiza ngeke kwenzeke ngobusuku obubodwa! Kudinga ukubekezela okukhulu nokuphikelela ngaphandle kwendlela oyikhethayo, kepha ngokuqinisekile kungacindezela kancane uma ukhetha indlela efana nengane yakho nomndeni wakho!