Funda Lokhu Ngaphambi Kokusiza Umngane Wakho Ngokucindezeleka

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• 1. Ukucindezeleka ukugula
• 2. Kuthinta ukuzethemba kwakho
• 3. Silimazekile
• 4. Asidingi ukuthi usilungise
• 5. Ukuphepha kwethu kudinga ukwesekwa kwakho
• 6. Kuzoba nezikhathi lapho kungabikho nenye yazo engenza umqondo
• 7. Singazilimaza ngokwethu ukululama, futhi kuzokukhungathekisa
• 8. Sizofunda ukuhlala nayo
• 9. Sifuna uqhamuke
• Into ebaluleke kakhulu ongasenzela yona, ukubeka impilo yakho kahle phakathi nendawo
• 11. Thembeka ngomzabalazo wakho ukwamukela konke lokhu
• 12. Thola ukwesekwa empilweni yakho

Iqiniso lokuthi ufuna izindlela zokusiza umngani ophila nokucindezeleka liyamangalisa. Ubungacabanga ukuthi emhlabeni kaDkt Google, wonke umuntu uzokwenza ucwaningo oluthile ngokuthile okugxile ezimpilweni zabangani babo. Ngeshwa, akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Futhi noma ngabe benze ucwaningo lwabo, akusho ukuthi wonke umuntu uzothola izindlela ezifanele zokuxhasa abangani bakhe nabathandekayo.

Ngibhekane nokucindezeleka okukhulu ngaphakathi nangaphandle kweminyaka eyi-12 manje. Ngezinye izikhathi ngangithola uzwela nokusekelwa engangikudinga, futhi kwezinye izikhathi ngangingalutholi. Nakhu engifisa ukuthi abangani bami babekwazi ngaphambi kokuzama ukungisekela.

1. Ukucindezeleka ukugula

Cishe uke wayizwa le ngaphambili - kaninginingi. Angizile ukuzokuchazela ngobunzima bokuthi yini eyenza ukucindezeleka kube ukugula, ungakuthola yonke indawo. Okudingayo ukwazi ukuthi isizathu sokuthi kube nzima kakhulu ukuthi leli phuzu liqondwe, hhayi kuphela ngombono, kepha ngokwenza, kungenxa yekhono. Umphakathi wakhelwe abantu abanamandla futhi abanomqondo. Sonke sifundiswe kusukela eminyakeni yobudala bokuqala ukusekela lolu hlelo lwengcindezelo.

2. Kuthinta ukuzethemba kwakho

Hhayi nje kuphela ukuthi sibhekene nezimpawu, nokuthi umphakathi usibheka kanjani, kodwa futhi sibhekene nokukhungatheka kwethu okuningi okuzungeze ukukhubazeka kwethu okusha okutholakele. Ngomzuzwana, asisenalo inani elifanayo ngokomphakathi, ngokusho kwethu, futhi kaningi kunalokho, ngokusho kwakho.

3. Silimazekile

Ngabanye, ngabangane, ngemindeni, nangazo zonke izinhlobo zabathandekayo. Futhi uma besingakaze sibe khona, sike sezwa ngabanye abaye baba khona. Ngifisa sengathi ngabe konke kwakuwuthando, ububele, nokusekelwa okuvela kuwo wonke umuntu osizungezile, kodwa lokho akuvamile ukuba njalo. Singahle singakwethembi ukuthi usibonise lezi zinto ngenxa yalokho.

4. Asidingi ukuthi usilungise

Lowo akuwona umsebenzi wakho - lokho okwethu. Kulula kanjalo.

5. Ukuphepha kwethu kudinga ukwesekwa kwakho

Kuningi okuhle ongakwenza, kodwa ngeshwa, kuningi ongakwenza okungalungile. Izikhathi zingavela lapho ungasaphephile kithina, futhi sidinga ukusuka ukuze sigxile enhlalakahleni yethu.

6. Kuzoba nezikhathi lapho kungabikho nenye yazo engenza umqondo

Uyemukelwa ezweni lokudangala. Ukudangala yisifo esinobuso obuyinkulungwane obuhlukile. Ungaba nezimpawu ezithile ngosuku oluthile, bese kuba nezimpawu ezihluke ngokuphelele ngokulandelayo. Kuzoba okudidayo nokukhungathekisayo, kithi sobabili.

7. Singazilimaza ngokwethu ukululama, futhi kuzokukhungathekisa

Ushintsho luyesabeka, futhi kungenye yezinto ezinzima kakhulu. Uma besihlale nokudangala isikhathi eside, lapho-ke singazi ngokungathí sina singavumi ukuphola.

8. Sizofunda ukuhlala nayo

Lokhu kuzwakala kuqondile, kepha udinga ukuthi uzilungiselele ukuba nomngane ophumela obala - futhi ngokuziqhenya - ophila nokudangala. Akukona ukuthi sidele, akukhona ukuthi siphukile. Ukuthi nje lokhu kuyingxenye yethu futhi, kwabanye bethu, akusuki. Kuyingxenye yeqiniso lethu, futhi uma sikhetha ukukwamukela, nawe kufanele ukwenze lokho.

9. Sifuna uqhamuke

Sizoyeka ukuxhaswa, uzwela nothando ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene. Kepha sisafuna kakhulu ukuthi abantu babekhona, ngoba sonke siyakudinga ukwesekwa.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ongasenzela yona, ukubeka impilo yakho kahle phakathi nendawo

Baningi abantu abazosikhafulela izeluleko ngokwenza izimpilo zethu zibe ngcono, kepha ngeke basebenzise leso seluleko ezimpilweni zabo. Ukuziphatha kokumodela kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokusithumela lo mlayezo, futhi kusikhumbuza nokuthi lawa mathuluzi akuwona awethu kuphela, kodwa awawo wonke umuntu.

11. Thembeka ngomzabalazo wakho ukwamukela konke lokhu

Vuma ukushiyeka kwakho, futhi ufunde ukushintsha. Bambalwa kakhulu kithi abafundiswa ukuthi bangabasekela kanjani ngokoqobo abantu ezimpilweni zethu abaphila nokugula ngengqondo. Kuningi okufanele ufunde. Kuningi esizokufunda. Kepha uma singakwamukeli lokhu, sivume ukwehluleka kwethu, futhi siguquke - sizobhuqana.

12. Thola ukwesekwa empilweni yakho

Ukusekela abanye ngezinselelo zabo akukaze kube lula, futhi ukuba nezinhlelo zakho zokusekelwa eziqinisiwe kubalulekile ekusekeleni ukwesekwa kwakho.

Kunezinye izinto eziningi okuzodingeka uzifunde, futhi ufunde kabusha ngalolu hambo. Ekugcineni, impilo yakho ngeke iphinde ifane. Kodwa lokho akuyona into embi ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Uma wena noma umuntu omaziyo enezimpawu zokucindezeleka, thintana nodokotela wakho ukuze uthole ukwesekwa nezindlela zokwelashwa. Kunezinhlobo eziningi zokusekelwa ongazithola. Bheka okwethu ikhasi lezinsiza zempilo yengqondo ukuthola usizo olwengeziwe.

U-Ahmad Abojaradeh ungumsunguli nomqondisi omkhulu we Impilo Ezinsukwini Zami. Ungunjiniyela, isihambeli somhlaba, uchwepheshe wokusekela ontanga, isishoshovu, nombhali wamanoveli. Uphinde abe yisikhulumi sempilo yengqondo nesobulungiswa kwezenhlalo, futhi usebenza ngokukhethekile ukuqala izingxoxo ezinzima emiphakathini. Unethemba lokusabalalisa ukuqwashiswa kokuphila impilo enempilo ngemibhalo yakhe, imihlangano yokusebenzela, nangemicimbi yezipikha. Landela u-Ahmad Twitter, Instagram, futhi Facebook.