Isizathu Sangempela Awukwazi Ukwenza I-Orgasm Ngesikhathi Sobulili
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Ama-orgasm ayinto ~*yomlingo*~, futhi uma ungenayo, ingazizwa ihlanya kakhulu. Uma ungakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm ngesikhathi socansi kungakushiya uzizwe unganelisekile, kukhungathekise wena nomlingani wakho, futhi, i-ICYMI, ungathola amabhola aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka (kahle, i-blue vulva). Yebo, impela.
Kodwa uma uphuthelwa i-O enkulu, awuwedwa. ODAYISA ubulili bukaShaka, uDkt Logan Levkoff, uthi kulinganiselwa ukuthi amaphesenti angama-70 abesifazane awanawo ama-orgasms avamile ngesikhathi socansi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Futhi ngokweNhlolovo kaZwelonke Yezempilo Yezocansi nokuziphatha, amaphesenti angama-64 kuphela abesifazane ababene-orgasm ngesikhathi sokuhlangana kwabo kwezocansi kwakamuva (noma ngabe kwakuwubulili besitho sangasese sowesifazane, ucansi lomlomo, izinto zezandla, njll.). Kungenzeka ukuthi kungani abesifazane abaningi-cishe amaphesenti angama-80, ngokusho kwalolu cwaningo oluvela e-UK-bayavuma ukwenza i-orgasm okungenani isigamu sesikhathi.
Into ukuthi, asikho isidingo sokuyikhohlisa noma uzizwe ucindezelwe ku-orgasm ngesikhathi socansi. Eqinisweni, lapho ucindezela kakhulu ngokuba ne-orgasm, mancane amathuba okuthi ube nayo.Ungavele udinge ukukhuthazeka okwengeziwe (okudingeka kakhulu ukuqinisekisa i-orgasm), kusho uLevkoff. Okunye okungase kukusebenzele ngaphandle kocansi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane (njengesidlidlizi noma ucansi lomlomo), noma mhlawumbe kunenkinga engahlangene nobulili ephazamisayo (njengokucindezeleka okukhulu noma ukungalali). Uma unenkinga yokwehla ngokuphelele, futhi uzame zonke ezinye izindlela, kunethuba lokuthi ungomunye wamaphesenti ayi-10 kuye kwangama-15 abesifazane abane-anorgasmia, ukungakwazi ukufinyelela kwi-orgasm ngemuva kokuvuselelwa ngokwanele kocansi.
Ngaphambi kokuthi uxakeke nge-Os yakho elahlekile, zama ukulungisa lezi zikhundla zocansi eziyisisekelo ukuze wandise injabulo yakho noma # uzenzele ngokwakho kwi-solo sesh lapho ungakwazi khona ngempela wazi ukuthi yini oyithandayo. Uma ukhathazeke ngempela, bheka udokotela wakho. Uma kungenjalo, hlala ukhumbula lo mthetho wegolide wocansi: *wonke umuntu uhlukile.* Thola ukuthi yini ekusebenzelayo, futhi uyazi, yenze. Uvuthondaba olujabulisayo!