Inkinga Yobudlelwano Abantu Abanokukhathazeka Okumele Babhekane Nayo

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Abanye bangase bacabange ukuthi ukudalula ukuxilongwa kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo kuyinto ongathanda ukuyisusa ekuqaleni kobudlelwano. Kepha, ngokocwaningo olusha, abantu abaningi balinda izinyanga eziyisithupha noma ngaphezulu ukuze babe nale ngxoxo ebalulekile.

Ocwaningweni, i-PsychGuides.com ibuze abantu abangu-2,140 mayelana nobudlelwano babo nempilo yabo yengqondo. Imiphumela ikhombise ukuthi akubona bonke abalingani babaphenduli abebazi ngokuxilongwa kwabo. Futhi ngenkathi abesifazane abalinganiselwa ku-74% bethi abalingani babo bayazi, angama-52% kuphela amadoda athi okufanayo.

Kodwa-ke, lapho abaphendulile betshela abalingani babo mayelana nokuxilongwa kwabo kubonakala kungafani nobulili. Abantu abaningi batshele abalingani babo phakathi nezinyanga eziyisithupha beqale ubudlelwano babo, cishe ingxenye yesine iveze ulwazi ngokushesha. Kodwa-ke, cishe u-10% uthe balinde isikhathi esingaphezu kwezinyanga eziyisithupha kwathi abangu-12% bathi balinde isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka.

Okuningi kwalokhu kugoba ngokungangabazeki kuvela ekucwaseni isiko lethu elibeka phezu kokugula ngengqondo, okuvame ukukhuliswa ngaphansi kokuhlolwa okuhambisana nezimo zokuthandana. Kodwa kuyakhuthaza ukuthi iphesenti elikhulu labaphendulile lithe abalingani babo babeseka lapho izinkinga zabo ziba nzima. Nakuba abesifazane bebonke bazizwa besekelwe kancane abalingani babo kunamadoda, u-78% walabo abane-OCD, u-77% walabo abanokukhathazeka, kanye nama-76% alabo abanokucindezeleka nokho babike ukuthi banokwesekwa ngabalingani babo.

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