Ukuphumula kobuso be-Bitch Kungalola Amakhono Okuxhumana

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Uhlushwa ukuphumula kobuso be-bitch (RBF)? Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokuyeka ukucabanga ngakho njengokuhlupheka bese uqala ukubuka uhlangothi olukhanyayo. Enkulumweni ethi I-Quartz, uRene Paulson uxoxa ngalokho akufundile mayelana nokuxhumana kanye ne-RBF.

I-RBF ivame ukubeka umthwalo kubantu besifazane nayo ukuze iphoqe ukukhuluma kwabo ngokukhululeka ukuze benze labo ababazungezile bakhululeke kakhudlwana. UPaulson uthi ukungaqondi kahle "kuyisibusiso esifana nesiqalekiso."

Ubeka ukuthi abesifazane abane-RBF banozwela oluphakeme, ngoba ngokuvamile abaqondwa kahle. "Abesifazane babejwayele ukungaqondakali kahle bagxila kakhulu emagameni umuntu awashoyo, kunethoni yabo, ukubonwa komzimba, noma ukubukeka kobuso, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ulwazi luphuma kahle phakathi kwabo bobabili," kubhala uPaulson.

Uqhubeka nokusikisela ukuthi ukuziqapha njalo okuhambisana ne-RBF yabesifazane kuzimo zobungcweti kuholela ekubeni nomqondo ophakeme wokuzazi, okwenza owesifazane akwazi ukuzivumelanisa nezimo ezingajwayelekile. Ngamafuphi, kulula ukufunda igumbi ngoba uskena ngaso sonke isikhathi ukubona ukuthi abantu basabela kanjani kuwe. Esikhundleni sokuthi kube yinto oziphoqa ukuba uyenze, kufana nohlelo oluhlala lusebenza ngemuva kwengqondo yakho.

Amaphuzu ka-Paulson agqamile, kodwa sisabheke ngabomvu usuku lapho i-RBF ingesona isibopho esidinga ukulungiswa njalo kokuziphatha kowesifazane—futhi singavele silamukele iqiniso lokuthi ubuso babanye abantu bubukeka ngendlela ethile uma ekhululekile.

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