AmaRom-Coms Awanakho Nje Okungenangqondo, Empeleni Angaba Mubi Kuwe

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Siyakuthola: Ama-Rom-coms awalokothi abe ngokoqobo. Kepha akuyona iphupho elincane elingenabungozi akuyona iphuzu lokuzibuka? Yebo, kungenzeka bangabi nabungozi kangako, ngokusho kwesifundo esisha esivela e-University of Michigan.

Kulula kakhulu ukubona ukuthi isimilo esivame ukusibona emadodeni kumamuvi ngakho-ke akuyona indlela yokuziphatha esiyibona kubo empilweni yangempela (sisabambele ukuthinta kwethu okukhulu lapha ...). Kodwa lolu cwaningo lwakamuva luhlola izindlela lapho lezo ezivame kakhulu engingeke-ngiyeke-ukukuthanda-futhi-ngingeke-ngilahle-kuze kube yilapho-ngikunqobile-ngemuva kwemigqa yesakhiwo empeleni ukuguqula izindlela zokuziphatha esizibona "zijwayelekile." (Ingabe Umuntu Wakho Ujwayelekile Uma Kuziwa Ezocansi?)

Abacwaningi babheke ngokukhethekile ukuvezwa kwabezindaba "kokuphishekela okuphikelelayo" kanye nezinkolelo ezilandelayo mayelana nokucupha. Bacele abantu besifazane ukuthi babuke amafilimu ayisithupha, lawo akhombisa uhlobo oluthile lokuziphatha "kothando olunqoba konke" kubalingiswa besilisa. Amanye amafilimu, njengawo Kukhona Okuthile NgoMariya, uveze lokhu kuziphatha ngendlela emnandi, yamahlaya (uBen Stiller ebekezelela ukuthotshiswa okuhlekisayo ukunqoba uCameron Diaz? Awww ...), kanti abanye, bathanda Ukulala Nesitha, uveze lokhu kuziphatha ngendlela engeyinhle, enengqondo (uJulia Roberts ecwaswa ngumyeni wakhe owayemhlukumeza owenqaba ukumyeka? Ahhh!). Bathola ukuthi abesifazane ababebukela ama-rom-coms abonisa indlela yokuziphatha enobudlova besilisa ngendlela efanele babenamathuba amaningi okubuka lezo zenzo njengezamukelekayo.

Inkinga isemhlabeni wangempela, iphelele hhayi eyamukelekayo. Abaphenyi bakhathazekile ngokuthi konke ukuboniswa okuhle kokuziphatha okunolaka, okungapheli kungahle kusenze sithenge kakhulu "inganekwane esikhohlisayo," esibangela ukuthi sithathe izehlakalo ezimbi noma isimilo esisabisayo ngokungathi sína lapho senzeka empilweni yangempela. (Thola lokho wonke umuntu wesifazane okudingeka akwazi ngokuzivikela.)

"[Amabhayisikobho anjalo] angakhuthaza abesifazane ukuba bangazinaki izifiso zabo," kusho umlobi ocwaningayo uJulia R. Lippman etshela iGlobal News yaseCanada. "Lokhu kuyinkinga ngoba ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi umuzwa wemvelo ungasebenza njengezimpawu ezinamandla zokusisiza ukuba siphephe. ​​Empeleni, wonke lawa mafilimu ahweba enganekwaneni ethi 'uthando lunqoba konke.' Nakuba, kunjalo, akunjalo. "

Impela, singase sithuke lapho umuntu ohlonishwayo ka-Kiera Knightly efika emnyango wakhe namakhadi akhe okukhomba okuthi "kimi uphelele", kodwa uma umngane omkhulu womyeni wakho eza efona ngezimpawu ezinhle zothando IRL? Ngakho. Hhayi. Kulungile. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi uyawazi umehluko.

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