U-Selena Gomez Ukwabelana Ngendlela Awamukela Ngayo Izibazi Zakhe Zokuthunyelwa Kwangemuva Kokufakelwa

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Abanye besifazane bagqoka izibazi ze-post-op ngokuziqhenya, bathanda isikhumbuzi sempi abasinda kuyo. (Njengabesifazane abanezibazi zabo ze-mastectomy ezidwetshwe.) Kodwa ukwamukela umzimba wakho ngendlela entsha akuveli kalula ngaso sonke isikhathi, njengoba u-Selena Gomez engafakaza. Lo mculi uhlonishwe njengo "Woman of the Year" emiklomelweni yeBillboard Women in Music 2017 izolo kusihlwa, kanti engxoxweni yakhe no-mag uveze ukuthi wayengazizwa kahle ngesibazi sakhe sokufakelwa izinso ekuqaleni. (Okuvuselelayo: Kuleli hlobo, uGomez uthole ukufakelwa izinso kumngane wakhe u-Francia Raisa, okuwumphumela wempi yakhe eqhubekayo ne-lupus.)

"Kwakunzima impela ekuqaleni," utshele umag. "Ngikhumbula ngizibuka esibukweni nginqunu ngokuphelele futhi ngicabanga ngazo zonke izinto engangivame ukuziluma ngazo futhi ngibuza nje, 'Kungani?' Nganginothile empilweni yami isikhathi eside kakhulu owaveza zonke izinto engangingazizwa kahle ngazo mina. Uma ngibheka umzimba wami manje, ngibona impilo nje. Kunezinto eziyizigidi engingazenza-ama-lasers nokhilimu nakho konke lokho-kodwa anginankinga ngakho. "

UGomez uqhubeke wathi upholile ngokuhlinzwa ngepulasitiki, kepha akasizwa isidingo sako njengamanje. "Ngicabanga nje, kimina, kungaba amehlo ami, ubuso bami obuyindilinga, izindlebe zami, imilenze yami, isibazi sami. Anginayo i-abs ephelele, kodwa ngizizwa sengathi ngenziwa ngendlela emangalisayo," eqhubeka. (Kuhlobene: UChrissy Teigen Ukugcina Kuyiqiniso Ngokuvuma Konke Ngaye Kungamanga)

Muva nje, abesifazane bebelokhu behlanganyela izindaba zabo zokufunda ukuthanda izibazi zabo, ukweluleka, noma "amaphutha" ngethemba lokukhuthaza abanye ukuthi bayeke ukubacabanga njengento yokufihla. Njengoba uGomez asho, ukwamukela umzimba nokuzithanda akuhlali kwenzeka ngokushesha, kepha kungenzeka ukuthola ubuhle bokungazethembi kwakho.

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