Umhlahlandlela Wabaqalayo ku-Hypnosis Yezocansi

-Delile

• Kwenzenjani?
• Ngakho-ke akuyona into efanayo ne-hypnosis evusa inkanuko?
• Kuthiwani ngokwelashwa kocansi?
• Ngubani ongazuza?
• Isebenza kanjani?
• Kwenziwa kanjani?
• Ngabe sekucwaningwe nhlobo?
• Ingabe zikhona izingozi noma izinkinga okufanele wazi ngazo?
• Umthola kanjani umhlinzeki ophephile?
• Ungafunda kuphi kabanzi?

Sifaka imikhiqizo esicabanga ukuthi ilusizo kubafundi bethu. Uma uthenga ngezixhumanisi ezikuleli khasi, singathola ikhomishini encane. Nansi inqubo yethu.

I-Viagra, i-aphrodisiac diet, i-therapy, ne-lube ngezinye zezindlela ezaziwa kakhulu zokungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi njengokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile, i-anorgasmia, ne-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi.

Kodwa kunenye indlela, noma kungenzeka umsindo i-woo-woo encane, ingasebenza empeleni: i-hypnosis yezocansi.

"I-Hypnosis kungenzeka ukuthi ayiyona indlela ejwayelekile yokwelashwa yezinkinga zocansi namuhla, [kodwa] i-hypnosis isetshenziselwe ukwelapha izinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zokungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi amashumi eminyaka ambalwa," kusho uSarah Melancon, PhD, isazi sezokuhlalisana kwabantu kanye nesazi sezocansi emitholampilo ne-Sex Toy Collective.

Kepha yini i-hypnosis yezocansi, ncamashi? Futhi kuyasebenza ngempela? Skrolela phansi ukuze ufunde kabanzi.

Kwenzenjani?

Eyaziwa nangokuthi i-hypnosis yezocansi yokwelapha, i-hypnosis yezocansi ingasiza abantu ukuthi basebenze ngenkinga eqhubekayo yocansi ephazamisa impilo yabo yocansi eyedwa noma ehlanganyelwe.

Ngokwesibonelo:

• libido ephansi
• umabhebhana
• ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile
• ukujula ngaphambi kwesikhathi
• imomozi
• ucansi olubuhlungu
• amahloni ngokuya ocansini noma kwezocansi

Ngakho-ke akuyona into efanayo ne-hypnosis evusa inkanuko?

Cha. Ngenkathi amagama evame ukusetshenziswa ngokungafani, kukhona umehluko ohlukile.

Inhloso ye-hypnosis evusa inkanuko ukuklolodela, ukujabulisa abanye, nenjabulo, kuchaza uKaz Riley, udokotela wezifo zengqondo osebenza ngokukhethekile ekusebenzeni nabantu abathola ukungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi.

"Isetshenziswa ngesikhathi socansi ukukhulisa ubumnandi noma ukukhuthaza i-orgasm, noma endaweni ye-BDSM njengengxenye yokulawula," kuchaza uRiley.

I-hypnosis yezocansi, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingasiza umuntu ukuthi asebenze ngenkinga yezocansi eyisisekelo ukuze aqhubeke nokuthola injabulo ethe xaxa ezimpilweni zabo zodwa noma zokuhlanganyela ocansini.

Impendulo emfushane? I-erotic hypnosis imayelana nobumnandi manje. I-hypnosis yezocansi imayelana nokuthuthukisa injabulo yakho ngemuva iseshini, uma usulungele “isikhathi esithile” noma ukudlala ngokubambisana.

Kuthiwani ngokwelashwa kocansi?

I-Hypnosis kungenzeka kubizwe i-hypnotherapy. Kepha i-hypnotherapy - psychotherapy.

Esikhundleni salokho, i-hypnosis isetshenziswa noma njengesengezo ekwelashweni noma ngabantu abangatholanga mpumelelo ekwelashweni kwengqondo.

Iseshini nomelaphi wezocansi ibukeka yehluke ngendlela exakile kuneseshini ne-hypnotherapist egxile kwezocansi nokungasebenzi ngokocansi, kuchaza u-Eli Bliliuos, umongameli nomsunguli weSikhungo se-NYC Hypnosis.

"Ngesikhathi seseshini yokwelashwa kocansi, wena nomelaphi nixoxa ngezinkinga zenu," kusho uBliliuos. "Ngesikhathi se-hypnotherapy, odokotela abaluthayo bakusiza ukuthi uhlele kabusha ingqondo engazi lutho."

Ngubani ongazuza?

Uma uhlangabezana nokungasebenzi ngokocansi, i-hypnotist akusona isinyathelo sakho sokuqala - udokotela wezokwelapha.

Kungani? Ngoba ukungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi kungaba uphawu lwesimo somzimba esiyimbangela.

Ukubala nje ezimbalwa, lokhu kufaka:

• Isifo senhliziyo
• cholesterol ephezulu
• isifo se-metabolic syndrome
• i-endometriosis
• isifo sokuvuvukala okhalo

Lokho kusho ukuthi, usengathatha isinqumo sokufaka umluthisi wokulalisa ingqondo ohlelweni lwakho lokuphulukisa, noma ngabe udokotela wakho ethola ukuthi isimo sempilo esiyimbangela sisezimpawu zakho.

"Lapho ingqondo iya khona umzimba ulandela," kusho uRiley.

Uqhubeka echaza ukuthi uma ukholwa noma wesaba ukuthi ucansi luzoba buhlungu, noma ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukuthola nokugcina ukwakhiwa, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi kuzoqhubeka ukuba yiqiniso ngisho nangemva kokuba imbangela yesimo sesiphenduliwe.

"I-hypnotist ingasiza ekubuyiseleni isazela esingezansi ukuze imise lawo maphethini wokucabanga angaphazamisi injabulo ngokuzayo ngokuyihlaziya kabusha engqondweni," kusho uRiley. Izinto ezinamandla!

Isebenza kanjani?

Umzila oqondile owalandelwa yi-hypnotist uzohluka ngokuya ngokungasebenzi okuthile. Kepha uhlelo lokusebenza ngokuvamile lulandela ifomethi efanayo.

"Okokuqala, sizoqala ngemfundo mayelana nokuthi ucansi kufanele lubukeke kanjani," kusho uRiley. "I-Hypnosis ingalungisa inkinga kulolu hlelo, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba siqale sifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi baqhuba uhlelo olufanele."

Isibonelo, uma ukhathazekile ngoba impilo yakho yezocansi ayifani nalokho okubonayo ku-porn, okudingayo akuyona i-hypnosis kepha yimfundo yokuthi yini i-porn (ukuzijabulisa) futhi akuyona (efundisayo).

Okulandelayo, i-hypnotist izokhuluma nawe mayelana nokuthi iyini imigomo yakho ngqo. Bazobuza futhi nganoma yikuphi ukuhlukumezeka okwedlule ukukhomba amagama noma izingqikithi ezingadala.

Ekugcineni, uzongena engxenyeni ye-hypnosis yeseshini.

Kwenziwa kanjani?

Iningi lezikhathi ze-hypnosis ziqala ngokuzilibazisa nangokuphefumula izivivinyo ezisiza ukuthobisa umzimba wakho. (Cabanga: Phefumulela phezulu ukubala okungu-3, ​​bese uphumela ku-3.)

Ngemuva kwalokho, i-hypnotist izokuholela esimeni sokulutha.

"Umuntu oluthayo angasebenzisa inqubo ebonakalayo yokushwiba iwashi emuva naphambili," kusho uBliliuos. "Kodwa ngokujwayelekile, umlutha we-hypnotist uzokuholela esimweni esifana ne-trance esebenzisa inhlanganisela yemiyalo yokukhuluma namasu okuphefumula."

Ukucaca ngokucace bha: Kukhona okuthinta u-zero (0!) Othintekayo.

"Ngaphakathi kwe-hypnosis yezocansi sibhekene nezindikimba ezivusa inkanuko nezocansi, kodwa akukho lutho olwenzeka ngokocansi esimisweni," kusho uRiley.

Lapho nje ukulesi simo esifana ne-trance, i-hypnotist izokusiza ukuthi ubone ingxenye yengqondo yakho enganakile leyo eyi- "limiter," bese usebenzisa imiyalo eqondiswa ngezwi ukukusiza uyihlele kabusha.

"Kwesinye isikhathi kuthatha iseshini eyodwa yamahora amabili ukuyenza, kokunye kuthatha izikhathi eziningi zehora," kusho uRiley.

Ngabe sekucwaningwe nhlobo?

"I-Hypnosis inenhlamba enhle kakhulu enamathiselwe kuyo, nososayensi abaningi becabanga ukuthi iyiqhinga nje lomkhosi," kusho uMelancon. "Kodwa-ke, kunezifundo ezithile ezincane eziphakamisa ukuthi kunenzuzo ethile, futhi ngokwe-anecdotally abantu abaningi bakuthole kuwusizo ekuzameni ukubamba iqhaza kwezocansi."

Ukubuyekezwa okukodwa kwango-1988 okwashicilelwa kumagazini iSexology kwaphetha ngokuthi ukusetshenziswa kwe-hypnosis ngokungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi kuyathembisa.

Futhi ucwaningo lwango-2005 olushicilelwe kwi-American Journal of Clinical Hypnosis luphetha ngokuthi: "[I-hypnosis yezocansi] inika iziguli ulwazi olusha lwangaphakathi oluzenza zikwazi ukuphatha ubulili bazo ngaphakathi, ngokwemvelo nangaphandle kwemizamo eyeqile, ngokuzikhethela okukhulu nangokukhululeka kunakuqala."

Ngabe lezi zifundo zenziwa yini isikhathi? Impela! Ngabe kudingeka olunye ucwaningo? Uyabheja!

Kepha uma ucabanga ukuthi i-hypnosis yezocansi ishada izihloko ezimbili - ukuluthwa nobulili - cishe okungenakwenzeka ukuthola imali yoxhaso, iqiniso elidabukisayo ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke kwenzeke noma nini kungekudala. Bubula.

Ingabe zikhona izingozi noma izinkinga okufanele wazi ngazo?

I-Hypnosis uqobo ayiyona ingozi.

"Awulahlekelwa ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakho ngenkathi ungaphansi kwe-hypnosis," kuchaza uRiley. "Awukwazi ukwenza okuthile ngenkathi uluthiswe ngomqondo ongeyena umlutha wakho ongeke ukuvume."

Noma kunjalo, idinga ukwenziwa ngudokotela oqeqeshiwe futhi oziphethe kahle!

I-Hypnosis can ube yingozi lapho uqhutshwa ngumuntu oluthisa ingqondo ongenasimilo. (Vele, kungashiwo okufanayo nangabadokotela bezengqondo abangalungile nabasebenza kwezokwelapha.)

Umthola kanjani umhlinzeki ophephile?

Akungabazeki, ukusesha "i-hypnosis yezocansi" ku-Google kuzoletha imiphumela eyizigidi. Ngakho-ke uphikisana kanjani nokuthi ngubani osemthethweni (futhi ophephile!) Uma kuqhathaniswa nalabo abangekho?

UBliliuos uthi kunezinto ezimbili okufanele uzibheke kumhlinzeki:

1. ukugunyazwa, ikakhulukazi okuvela kuNational Guild of Hypnotists noma i-International Association of Counsellors and Therapists
2. isipiliyoni

Lapho usuthole umuntu onalezo zinto ezimbili, ochwepheshe abaningi bazonikeza ucingo lokubonisana ukunquma ukuthi lulungile yini.

Kuleli kholi ufuna ukufunda:

• Wenzani lo oluthisayo? Ngabe banesipiliyoni sokusebenza nabantu ngokungasebenzi kahle kwami ​​ngokocansi?
• Ingabe ngizizwa ngikhululekile ngalochwepheshe? Ingabe ngizizwa ngiphephile?

Ungafunda kuphi kabanzi?

Isiteshi se-YouTube sikaRiley, "Ukuzijabulisa kumaSpredishithi," yindawo enhle yokuqala.

Eqinisweni, unesiqephu esisodwa, esithi "The Big O," lapho ungambuka khona eqondisa othile one-anorgasmia ku-orgasm ukuthola umqondo wokuthi iseshini lisho ukuthini.

Ezinye izinsiza zifaka:

• "Ukuxazulula Ukuhlukumeza Ngokocansi: Ukwelashwa Okugxilwe Kwisisombululo kanye ne-Ericksonian Hypnosis Yabantu Abasinde Kubantu Abadala" nguYvonne Dolan
• "Ukuzikhohlisa Okuqondisiwe: Nqoba iVaginismus" ngu-Anna Thompson
• "Bheka Emehlweni Ami: Ungayisebenzisa Kanjani I-Hypnosis Ukukhipha Okuhle Kakhulu Empilweni Yakho Yezocansi" nguPeter Masters

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