UShailene Woodley Ucabanga Ngamakilasi Okushaya Indlwabu Esesikoleni
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UShailene Woodley akayena umuntu ongaziwa ekuthembekeni ngesihluku ngendlela abheka ngayo izinto-ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa endabeni yocansi nemfundo yocansi. Futhi nengxoxo yakamuva neNet-A-Porter's The Hlela akubanga njalo. Umlingisi oneminyaka engu-24 ubudala ngokunganamahloni wathi kufanele sikhohlwe isigaba se-ho-hum sekhondomu-the-banana sex class. Kunalokho, uWooley ufuna izikole ziqale ukufundisa amakilasi okushaya indlwabu.
Yebo, ufunda lokho ngendlela efanele. I- Kwehlukana inkanyezi nomlingisi osekelayo kule nyanga I-Snowden unemizwa ethile eqinile ngobuciko be-orgasm-imizwa eminingi, empeleni, ukuthi ufuna ukubhala incwadi kuyo. "Njengowesifazane osemusha awufundi ukuzithokozisa, awufundi ukuthi iyiphi i-orgasm okufanele ibe yikho, awufundi ukuthi kufanele ube nemizwa yokwaneliseka," utshele yena. The Hlela. “Bengilokhu nginephupho lokwenza incwadi ebizwa Ayikho indlela elungile yokushaya indlwabu. Uma ukushaywa indlwabu kwakufundiswa esikoleni, ngiyazibuza ukuthi bangaki abantu [abambalwa] ababengathola i-herpes eneminyaka eyi-16, noma bakhulelwe eneminyaka eyi-14? "
Lesi akusona okokuqala uShailene enikeza amandla-uma kungenjalo-izitatimende eziphikisanayo ngocansi. Ukhulume ngokungagunci mayelana nokuba nqunu esikrinini, ukuthi akufanele neze sibe namahloni ngemizimba yethu, nokuthi kungani ukufundisa ngocansi kuphela ezikoleni kungasebenzi. Ngonyaka odlule, waze wasitshela konke okufanele ngabe sinikeza ama-vagina ethu i-vitamin D.
Ngokuya ekunciphiseni amazinga ama-STD nokukhulelwa kwentsha kuya, noma kunjalo, umqondo wamakilasi wokushaya indlwabu ungathengiswa kanzima. Njengamanje ayikho idatha ephathekayo ngokusebenza kwayo (mhlawumbe ngoba lokhu akuyona into eyenzeka ezikoleni njengamanje), yize ezinye izinhlangano zikhuthaza ukuzithokozisa njengento ehlakaniphile yokufundisa intsha.
Noma ngabe ucabanga ukuthi ukubhalisela i-Self-Pleasure 101 phakathi komlando nezibalo kuthatha izinto kude kakhulu, uShailene uqinisile ngento eyodwa: Ukushaya indlwabu kunezinzuzo ezinkulu zezempilo. Akukona nje kuphela ukuthi amaseshini ajwayelekile wedwa angakusiza ukuthola ukuthi yini oyithandayo uma kuziwa ocansini, futhi kungakusiza ulale, unciphise amajaqamba, futhi usize nokuvimbela ama-UTIs.
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