UShawn Johnson uthi Ukuba nesigaba se-C kumenze wazizwa sengathi "wehlulekile"

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Ngesonto eledlule, uShawn Johnson nomyeni wakhe u-Andrew East bamukele ingane yabo yokuqala, indodakazi uDrew Hazel East, emhlabeni. Laba bobabili babonakala begcwele uthando ngezibulo labo, babelana ngamathani wezithombe ezintsha zomndeni futhi bembiza "ngakho konke."

Kepha inqubo yokuzala ayizange ihambe njengoba bekuhleliwe, uJohnson wabelane ngokuthunyelwe okusuka enhliziyweni kwe-Instagram kwakamuva. Ngemva kokubeletha amahora angu-22, uJohnson uthe wagcina edinga ukuhlinzwa (noma isigaba C)—ingxenye engalindelekile yohlelo lwakhe lokuzalwa olwamshiya enomuzwa wokuthi “uzohluleka” njengomama omusha, wabhala.

"Ngangena nginomqondo onenkani wokucabanga ukuthi ukuphela kwendlela engingaletha ngayo ingane yethu emhlabeni bekungokwemvelo," kubhala uJohnson kokuthunyelwe kwakhe. "Akukho zindlela zokungenelela. Emahoreni angu-14 lapho ngakhetha ukuthola isifo sengane ngazizwa nginecala. Ngamahora angama-22 lapho sitshelwa ukuthi kufanele ngithole u-c section ngazizwa sengathi ngihlulekile." (Okuhlobene: Ukondliwa Umama Omusha Uveza Iqiniso Mayelana Nezigaba ze-C)

Kepha ebheka emuva kulokho okwenzeka, uJohnson uthe ushintshe inhliziyo. Manje uyabona ukuthi impilo nokuphepha kwengane yakhe kubaluleke kakhulu kunenqubo yokubeletha uqobo, wabelane ngakho.

“Ngemuva kokubamba intombazane yethu emnandi ezingalweni zami futhi ngitshelwe ukuthi konke kuhambe kahle futhi ifinyelele kithi ngokuphepha, ngangingenandaba kangako. ukwenza ngaye. Konke kwenzelwa yena futhi ngiyohlala ngikwenzela noma yini le ntombazane engiyithandayo ukudlula indlela engake ngacabanga ngayo. Uthando okungekho muntu ongakulungisela lona. "

Imizwa kaJohnson "yokwehluleka" izwakale kubalandeli bakhe abaningi be-Instagram, abagcwalise imibono yakhe ngokusekelwa nangezindaba ezifanayo. (Ingabe bewazi ukuthi ukuzalwa kwe-C-section cishe kuphindwe kabili eminyakeni yamuva?)

"Bengifuna ukulethwa 'okujwayelekile' eminyakeni engama-36 eyedlule futhi ngagcina sengithole isigaba esiphuthumayo c futhi ngazizwa sengathi nami ngehlulekile," kuphawula omunye wabalandeli bakaJohnson. "Kodwa ekugcineni, bekubalulekile nje ukuthi ingane yami ibilungile. Eminyakeni engamashumi amathathu nesithupha kamuva, uselungile. Sikufisela inhlanhla futhi siyakuhalalisela ngaleyo ntombazanyana enhle."

Omunye umuntu wengeze wathi: "Into efanayo efanayo yenzeke kimi futhi ngazizwa ngendlela efanayo futhi ngaba nokuqonda okufanayo ... akunandaba ukuthi ufike kanjani lapha ... okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ulapha ngokuphepha."

Ngenkathi isigaba se-C singeke sibe yingxenye yohlelo lokuzalwa lomama wabo bonke, lapho ingane yakho idinga ukuphuma, noma yini iyahamba. Iqiniso ngukuthi, amaphesenti angama-32 abo bonke abantwana abazalwa e-US aholela esigabeni se-C, ngokusho kweCenters for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) - futhi omama abaningi abahlinzwa bayoba ngabokuqala ukukutshela ukuthi akulona ihlaya lelo .

Ngezansi: Ukubeletha nge-C-section akukwenzi ube "ngumama wangempela" kunalabo abazala indlela endala.

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