Ingabe Izinhlungu Zozwela Ziyinto Yangempela?

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• Lapho abantu behlangabezana nazo
• Ingabe kuyinto yangempela?
• Kungani lokhu kwenzeka?
• Izinhlungu zokuzwela nokukhulelwa
• I-Couvade syndrome ne-pseudocyesis
• Ubuntu obunobubele
• Izimpawu umlingani wakho angazithola
• Okubalulekile

Ubuhlungu bokuzwelana yigama elisho ukuzwa izimpawu zomzimba noma ezingokwengqondo ekufakazeleni ukungaphatheki kahle komunye umuntu.

Imizwa enjalo kukhulunywa ngayo kakhulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, lapho umuntu engazizwa sengathi babelana ngezinhlungu ezifanayo nomlingani wakhe okhulelwe. Igama lezokwelapha lalesi simo laziwa njenge-couvade syndrome.

Yize kungesona isimo sezempilo esisemthethweni, empeleni i-couvade syndrome ivame kakhulu.

Ucwaningo lwakamuva olushicilelwe kwi-American Journal of Men’s Health luthole ukuthi phakathi kwamaphesenti angama-25 kuye kwangama-72 obaba abalindayo emhlabeni wonke baba nesifo i-couvade syndrome.

Izinhlungu zokuzwelana ziye zacwaningwa kabanzi futhi zasekelwa maqondana nokukhulelwa. Kukhona nezimo ze-anecdotal lapho abantu bakholelwa ukuthi babuzwa ubuhlungu kwezinye izimo.

Lobu buhlungu abubeki bungozi, kepha kufanelekile ukucubungula isayensi ukusiza ukuchaza lo mkhuba. Uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo angakusiza nokuthi usebenze ngemizwa engadala izinhlungu zakho zokuzwelana.

Lapho abantu behlangabezana nazo

Izinhlungu zokuzwela zivame ukuhlotshaniswa ne-couvade syndrome, eyenzeka lapho umuntu ehlangabezana nezimpawu ezifanayo nezomlingani wakhe okhulelwe. Ukungakhululeki okunjalo kuvame kakhulu kuma-trimesters wokuqala nowesithathu. Kucatshangwa ukuthi imizwa yengcindezi, kanye nozwelo, kungadlala indima.

Kodwa-ke, izinhlungu zozwelo azihlali zikhethekile kuphela ekukhulelweni. Le nto ingenzeka futhi kubantu abanokuxhumana okujulile nabangane namalungu omndeni okungenzeka ukuthi bahlangabezana nokuhlangenwe nakho okungathandeki.

Kwesinye isikhathi, izinhlungu zokuzwelana nazo zingavela kubantu ongabazi. Uma ubona umuntu osezinhlungwini zomzimba noma ebuhlungwini bengqondo, kungenzeka ukuba uzwele futhi uzwe imizwa efanayo. Ezinye izibonelo zifaka phakathi ukungazizwa kahle ngemuva kokubona izithombe noma amavidiyo wabanye abasezinhlungwini.

Ingabe kuyinto yangempela?

Yize kungesona isimo sempilo esaziwayo, kunocwaningo olukhulu lwesayensi ukuxhasa ubukhona be-couvade syndrome. Lokhu kwenzeka ikakhulukazi kubantu abalingani babo abakhulelwe. Ezinye izimo zobuhlungu bokuzwelana ziyi-anecdotal eyengeziwe.

Olunye ucwaningo luphenya ngezimo eziningi zezokwelapha zobuhlungu bokuzwelana. ihlolisise iziguli ezinomhubhe we-carpal futhi yathola ukuthi ezinye zibe nezimpawu ezifanayo kwesinye isandla, isandla esingathintekile.

Kungani lokhu kwenzeka?

Isizathu esiqondile sezinhlungu zokuzwelana asaziwa. Yize kungathathwa njengesimo sempilo yengqondo, kucatshangwa ukuthi i-couvade syndrome nezinye izinhlobo zobuhlungu bokuba nozwelo kungaba ngokwengqondo.

Olunye ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi i-couvade syndrome nezinye izimbangela zezinhlungu zozwelo zingabonakala kakhulu kubantu abanomlando wokuphazamiseka kwemizwelo.

Izinhlungu zokuzwela nokukhulelwa

Ukukhulelwa kungadala imizwa ehlukahlukene kunoma imuphi umbhangqwana, okuvame ukuba yinhlanganisela yenjabulo nengcindezi. Eminye yale mizwa ingadlala indima ekuthuthukiseni izinhlungu zozwela zomlingani wakho.

Esikhathini esedlule, kwakukhona eminye imibono esekelwe kwengqondo ezungeze i-couvade syndrome. Eyodwa ibisuselwa kwabesilisa abanomona ngabalingani babo besifazane abakhulelwe. Enye inkolelo engenasisekelo kwakuwukwesaba iqhaza elingahle lincishwe amathuba ngokuba ngumzali.

Abanye abacwaningi bakholelwa ukuthi izici zenhlalo yabantu zingadlala indima ekwakheni i-couvade syndrome. Kodwa-ke, kufanele kwenziwe izifundo eziningi kulokhu ukuze kunqunywe ukuthi ngabe lezi zinhlobo zezinto ezinobungozi zingakwazi yini ukubikezela ukuthi ngabe othile angaba nezinhlungu zokuzwela ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.

I-Couvade syndrome ne-pseudocyesis

Enye inkolelo ehlobene nokukhulelwa ukuthi i-couvade syndrome ingenzeka eceleni kwe-pseudocyesis, noma ukukhulelwa kwe-phantom. Yaziwa wuhlelo olusha lwe-Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, ukukhulelwa kwe-phantom kuchazwa njengokuhlangabezana nezimpawu zokukhulelwa ngaphandle kokukhulelwa empeleni.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kokukhulelwa kwe-phantom kunamandla kangangokuba abanye bangakholelwa ukuthi umuntu ukhulelwe bese bezwa i-couvade syndrome.

Ubuntu obunobubele

Kucatshangwa ukuthi uzwela lungadlala indima nge-couvade syndrome nezinye izimo zobuhlungu bokuzwelana. Umuntu onozwela ngokwemvelo kungenzeka abe nezinhlungu zokuzwela lapho ephendula ukungaphatheki kahle komunye umuntu.

Isibonelo, ukubona umuntu elimala kungadala ukuzwa ngokomzimba njengoba uzwelana nobuhlungu babo. Ungase futhi uzwe ushintsho kumzwelo wakho ngokuya ngokuthi abanye bazizwa kanjani.

Izimpawu umlingani wakho angazithola

Uma ukhulelwe, futhi usola ukuthi umlingani wakho kungenzeka ukuthi uhlangabezana nesifo i-couvade syndrome, bangaveza izimpawu ezilandelayo:

• ubuhlungu besisu nokungakhululeki
• izinhlungu ngemuva, emazinyweni nasemilenzeni
• ukukhathazeka
• izinguquko zokudla
• ukuqunjelwa
• ukudana
• injabulo
• izifiso zokudla
• isilungulela
• ukuqwasha
• amajaqamba omlenze
• izingqinamba ze-libido
• isicanucanu
• ukungahlaliseki
• ukucasuka komchamo noma isitho sangasese
• ukuzuza kwesisindo

Akukho ukwelashwa okutholakalayo kwe-couvade syndrome. Esikhundleni salokho, kubalulekile ukugxila kumasu wokulawula ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka. Lokhu kungabandakanya ukuphumula, ukudla okunempilo, nokuvivinya umzimba njalo.

Uma ukukhathazeka noma ukucindezeleka okuvela ku-couvade syndrome kuphazamisa inkambiso yansuku zonke kothandekayo wakho, bakhuthaze ukuba bafune usizo kochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo. Ukwelashwa kokukhuluma kungasiza umlingani wakho abhekane nezingcindezi zokukhulelwa.

Okubalulekile

Ngenkathi izinhlungu zozwela zisacwaningwa, kucatshangwa ukuthi izimpawu zixazulula uma ubuhlungu nokungaphatheki kahle komlingani wakho sekuqala ukuqeda. Isibonelo, izimpawu ze-couvade syndrome zingaxazululwa zodwa lapho ingane izelwe.

Ezinye izinhlobo zobuhlungu bokuzwelana nazo zingavela ekuzwelaneni futhi zithathwa njengezinto ezingokwengqondo. Uma unezinhlungu ezihlala njalo zozwelo noma uhlangabezana nezinguquko zesikhathi eside esimweni sengqondo, bheka udokotela wakho ukuthola iseluleko.