Ungamcela Kanjani Umlingani Wakho Ngocansi Olwengeziwe (Ngaphandle Kokubakhubekisa)

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• Ungenzi Amacala
• Yelapha Amagqubu
• Khulumisanani
• Yenza Impilo Yansuku Zonke I-Sexier Kancane
• Buyekeza kwe-

I-libidos engalingani ayimnandi kumuntu. Abantu ababili bathandana bebophela uthando oluhlanganyelwe lukaNeil de Grasse Tyson kanye nenzondo yamagilebhisi omisiwe. Ngaphandle kokunakekelwa emhlabeni, izinto ziya zishisa futhi zisinda ngaphezu kwopelepele waseTexas.

Kepha njengoba ubudlelwano buthuthuka, amandla okuqala aqala ukusuka. Izikweletu, izingane, ushintsho lwehomoni, ukucindezelwa komsebenzi, nokukhipha udoti konke kunganetha kumbukiso wakho we-sexy. Ngolunye usuku, uyavuka futhi ubone isenzo esiningi osithole kamuva nje ukushayisa ngephutha emshinini wokuwasha. (Okuhlobene: I-Libido Ephansi? Nakhu ukuthi Ungayandisa Kanjani Idrayivu Yakho Yezocansi.)

Ngeshwa, impilo ayiyona i-porn enkulu eyodwa. Abantu abagijimi ngokuzungezile ngaso sonke isikhathi. Impilo yocansi enempilo ithatha umsebenzi. Ubudlelwano yinto ephilayo yokuphefumula edinga ukunakekelwa njalo.

Futhi akuwona amadoda kuphela enza konke ukuqala, kwesinye isikhathi abesifazane bazithola befuna i-nookie kaningi kunabalingani babo. Kusuka kowesifazane oke waba khona ngaphambili, ngingasho ngokuqinile: kuyamangaza.

Ngakho-ke umcela kanjani umlingani wakho ukuthi aye ocansini ngaphandle kokubabeka ekuzivikeleni? Mhlawumbe hhayi njengoba ngenzile, okungukuthi ngokumemeza "yini inkinga yakho?" ngenkathi ngivayizisa isoka lami elisha, isidlidlizi se-phallic esikhulu. (P.S. Lawa maVibrator ahamba phambili ongawasebenzisa nozakwethu.)

Ngathintana noCris Marie noSusan Clarke, ababhali bencwadiUbuhle Bengxabano Kwabashadile ukuthola izeluleko ezikhiqizayo. Nakhu engikufundile.

Ungenzi Amacala

Njengoba kuvela, abantu abathandi ukuba nomunwe (noma isidlidlizi) bakhombe kubo. Ngicabanga ukuthi lokho kuchaza ukuthi kungani indlela yami ingasebenzi. Ngokusho kukaCrisMarie Campbell, ukusho izinto ezinjengokuthi "ukhathalela nje ukuthi uzizwa kanjani," "awuqalisi ucansi ngokwanele," noma "konke okufunayo ngu…" kuzokwenza abantu bavikele.

Esikhundleni sezitatimende "wena", zama izitatimende "Mina". Isibonelo, "Ngifuna ukuhlola kabanzi ngobulili bami futhi ngifuna ukuthi ungijoyine." Noma "Ngifuna wena, njengomlingani wami, ukuthi ube nentshisekelo yokuthi ngizizwa kanjani ngempilo yethu yocansi. Angikwazi ukusho uma ngabe kunjalo." Ukutshela umlingani wakho ukuthi yini abayenzayo oyithandayo noma ukuthi ubathola bekhanga kangakanani, kungabenza bazizwe bethanda wena.

Yelapha Amagqubu

Impilo yezocansi enokhiye ophansi ayihlali iphathelene nama-libidos angahambisani kahle. Imvamisa, umuntu oyedwa noma bobabili babambelela kumagqubu, okwenza bangabi nasithakazelo kwezocansi. Ngake ngahlala nomuntu owayenombukiso ongapheli wabangane abancane abangena bephuma endlini yethu. Phakathi kokuhlala behlanza ukungcola kwabo, bedliwa futhi bephuzwa ngaphandle kwendlu nasekhaya, nezimpikiswano zethu ngakho, ukukhanga kwami ​​kumlingani wami kwathatha umoya omkhulu. Udinga ukubhekana nezinye izinkinga zakho, futhi.

Khulumisanani

Uma usohlangothini lwe-shier, ukukhuluma ngocansi kungaba nzima. Njengoba nje sibona ucansi yonke indawo esikweni lethu, ukukhuluma ngalo kusengumbono kubantu abaningi. Ukwesaba ukwaliwa kungaphazamisa namandla ethu okukhuluma ngezidingo zethu kanye nezifiso zethu noma ngabe sisebudlelwaneni besikhathi eside, obunothando. Esebenza nabashadikazi, uSusan Clarke ubika ukuthi amadoda avame ukukhathazeka ngokuthi azobonwa "njengabuthakathaka noma ahlulelwe njengabanesici uma beveza izindaba eziphathelene nocansi nabalingani babo."

"Lolu daba luyakhula lapho siqala ukuhlola ukuthi abesifazane bayiqonda kanjani imizimba yabo," kusho ababhali. "Uma ungazi ukuthi ikuphi i-g-spot yakho noma ukuthi izinhlobo ezahlukene zokuthinta zikwenza uzizwe kanjani, awukwazi ukucela okufunayo."

Yenza Impilo Yansuku Zonke I-Sexier Kancane

Ungase ucabange, konke lokhu kuzwakala kukuhle, kepha ngifuna ukuzenzela! Izinongo! I-convo encane ye-mambo evundlile! Okuningi kuphonswa etafuleni lasekhishini lapho izingane zingekho ekhaya!

Ukukhuluma ngocansi akudingeki ukuthi ube ngumbulali we-boner. Ubulili abugcini nje ngomsebenzi wesikhathi esisodwa. Ukuya ocansini kanye nenkanuko yobulili kungafakwa empilweni yakho yansuku zonke, kusho uClarke. Yiba khona kakhudlwana: jabulela ijusi yesitrobheli, dansela ingoma yakho emnandi ethandekayo, hamba u-commando, khanyisa amakhandlela engeziwe, faka amakha—uthola umqondo. Ukuzizwa unomdlavuza njalo kungasiza wena nomlingani wakho ukuthi nithintane nalawo ma-vibes ezocansi — akukho kudlidliza ukudlidliza okunodlame.

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