Yebo, Khuluma Nge-COVID-19 noMelaphi Wakho - Noma Bacindezelwe Kakhulu

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• Awubhekene nenqubo yokuphulukisa yabanye abantu
• Yini abelaphi abazenzela izidingo zabo zempilo yengqondo ngesikhathi se-COVID-19?
• Umbono wakho: Kulungile ukungalungi. Okwethu sonke.
• Abelaphi bethu kanye nabasebenza ngezempilo yengqondo basebenza kanzima - yilokhu abakuqeqeshele kona, njengabanye abasebenzi abaphambili.

Lokhu yilokhu abakuqeqeshelwe kona, njengoba nje nabanye abasebenzi abaphambili beye.

Njengoba umhlaba usebenzela ukwelashwa ngokomzimba, kwezenhlalo nakwezomnotho ngemuva kobhadane lwe-COVID-19, abaningi bethu basele belwa nobunzima bezimo zempilo yengqondo.

Futhi zibonakala ziqine kakhulu kunangaphambi kokuqubuka.

Imizwa yokukhathazeka nokudangala okuhlobene ne-COVID-19 injengobhadane olusakazeka ezweni lonke nasegumbini ngalinye lomhlaba.

Abaningi bethu babhekene nosizi oluhlangene njengoba sibhekana neqiniso lokuthi umhlaba wethu ngeke uphinde ufane.

Ochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo abakhulume neHealthline bakubonile lokhu kukhuphuka kokukhathazeka, ukudana, usizi, nezimpendulo zokuhlukumezeka.

"Ngokuvamile, izikhathi eziningi zigxile ekuphatheni ukucindezeleka, ukwesaba, intukuthelo, ukukhathazeka, ukudangala, usizi nokuhlukumezeka okuhambisana nalolu bhubhane," kusho isisebenzi sezenhlalakahle esinelayisense sitshela iHealthline.

Ngenhloso yokuvikela ubumfihlo bamakhasimende akhe, sizombiza njengoNks.

Umkhuba wangasese lapho kusebenza khona uSmith usanda kudlulela kwizinsizakalo ze-teletherapy zawo wonke amaklayenti.

Ukwazile ukuhlanganyela okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe nalolu shintsho, ethi bekunengcindezi, futhi nokuqokwa kwabantu uqobo kukhethwa kakhulu, kepha amakhasimende akhe ayabonga ngethuba lokuthola ukwelulekwa ngokomqondo ngezikhathi zokungaqiniseki okunje.

"Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi amaklayenti ahlukaniswa yedwa ekhaya noma ingxenye yabasebenzi abalulekile, babhekene nokucindezeleka," kusho uSmith.

Kunengqondo ukuthi kungani sonke sicindezeleke kakhulu, akunjalo? Kunengqondo ukuthi kungani sikuthola kunzima ukuzikhuthaza futhi sisebenzise izindlela zokwelapha ukubhekana nokukhathazeka kwethu kwezempilo yengqondo.

Kepha uma yilokhu wonke umuntu azizwa, kuzolandela ukuthi abelaphi bethu basengozini nakulezi zingcindezi, futhi. Ngabe lokhu kusho ukuthi akufanele sikhulume nabo ngakho?

Ngokusho kochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo, ukungakhulumi ngezingcindezi ezihlobene ne-COVID-19 kuphambene nalokho okudingeka sikwenze ukusebenzela ekuphulukisweni.

Awubhekene nenqubo yokuphulukisa yabanye abantu

Funda lokho futhi. Kanye futhi.

Abantu abaningi bazizwa bengakhululekile ukukhuluma ngezingcindezi ezihlobene nobhubhane nabahlinzeki babo ngoba bayazi ukuthi abelaphi babo bacindezelekile, futhi.

Khumbula ukuthi inqubo yakho yokuphulukisa ingeyakho futhi usebenzisa izinsiza ezifana nezikhathi ze-teletherapy kuyasiza ekwenzeni intuthuko empilweni yakho yengqondo.

Ubudlelwano bomelaphi-iklayenti abukho futhi abufanele nanini ukuthi bugxile empilweni yomelaphi nasekwelapheni. Umelaphi wakho unesibopho sokuba nguchwepheshe, kungakhathaleki ukuthi kwenzekani empilweni yabo yangasese.

Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sesikole esinolwazi esisebenza enyakatho neNew York - esizobiza ngaye njengoNks. Jones ukuvikela ubumfihlo babafundi bakhe - sichaza ukuthi ubuchwepheshe bungabukeka kanjani ngokombono womelaphi phakathi nobhadane.

"Nginomuzwa wokuthi uma uthinteka kuze kube sezingeni lokuthi ungakwazi ukukhuluma neklayenti ngezihloko ezithile, kungaba ukuhlakanipha (nokwenza okuhle) ukuzidlulisela kozakwethu noma kumuntu ongakwazi ukwenza lokho," kusho uJones Ezempilo.

UJones ukholelwa ukuthi bonke abelaphi “babophezelekile kulelo zinga lokunakekelwa ngokokuziphatha nangokomsebenzi.”

Lokhu akusho ukuthi abelaphi bakho ababhekene nemizabalazo efana nawe, kunjalo. Abahlinzeki bakho bangase futhi bezwe izimpawu zokucindezeleka kwempilo yengqondo futhi ngokufanayo kufanele bathole ukwelashwa okubasebenzelayo.

"Ngike ngabhekana nezikhathi zokukhathazeka, ukudangala, nokuphelelwa yithemba okukhulu ngenxa yobhadane kanye nesimo samanje sezepolitiki," kusho uSmith.

UJones ubelana ngokukhathazeka okufanayo: “Ngiye ngabona izinguquko ebuthongweni bami, ekudleni, nasemphefumulweni ojwayelekile / kuthinta.Kubonakala sengathi kuguquka njalo - ngolunye usuku ngizozizwa ngikhuthazekile futhi nginamandla, kuthi kwelilandelayo ngizizwe ngikhathele ngokomzimba nangokomzimba. ”

"Ngizizwa sengathi isimo sami sempilo yengqondo kulo lonke lolu bhubhane cishe siyi-microcosm yalokho okwakubukeka kufana nakho, noma okungenzeka ukuthi kubukeke, ukube bekungalawulwa ngemithi nangokwelapha," kusho uJones.

Kepha uma uzizwa unovalo noma "umubi" mayelana nokuxoxa ngokukhathazeka kwakho nabahlinzeki bakho, khumbula ukuthi umsebenzi wakho ukuba yisiguli nokuphulukisa. Umsebenzi womelaphi wakho ukukusiza kulolo hambo.

"Akukaze kube umsebenzi ngesiguli ukunakekela owelapha," kugcizelela uSmith. "Kungumsebenzi wethu nomsebenzi wethu ukunakekela thina ukuze sikwazi ukubakhona kumakhasimende ethu."

Futhi uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi ungazizulazula kanjani izingxoxo mayelana ne-COVID-19 ngezikhathi zakho zokwelulekwa, uJones uthi, "Ngingakhuthaza abafundi bami (noma noma yiliphi iklayenti) ukuthi badalule, kubaduduze, noma yiziphi izihloko abalwela ukubhekana nazo."

Ukuvula lokhu kuxhumana kuyisinyathelo sokuqala esiya enkambisweni yakho yokuphulukiswa.

Yini abelaphi abazenzela izidingo zabo zempilo yengqondo ngesikhathi se-COVID-19?

Ngamafuphi, abaningi babo basebenzisa zona kanye izeluleko abazokunikeza zona.

"Ngithatha izeluleko engizinikeza amaklayenti… ngilinganisela ukusetshenziswa kwezindaba, ukugcina ukudla okunempilo, ukuzivocavoca nsuku zonke, ukulandela uhlelo lokulala njalo, nokuxhumana ngobuciko nabangane / nomndeni," kusho uSmith.

Lapho sibuza ukuthi wenzani ngobuchwepheshe ukuze agweme ukutubeka okuhlobene nobhadane, uSmith weluleka wathi, “Ukuthatha amakhefu phakathi kwezikhathi nokuhlela isikhathi sokuphumula kuba yindlela yokuvimbela ubhadane oludlayo.”

"Yize amaklayenti kungenzeka ukuthi axoxa ngodaba olufanayo (isib. Ubhadane), ukusebenza nabo ngawodwana ukudala / ukuphonsela inselelo ukulandisa kwabo mayelana nokuphatha / ukusinda kulo bhubhane kunikeza imibono eyahlukile ethembeni nasekwelapheni, okusiza ukubhala umbhalo kulo bhubhane," uthi.

Neseluleko sikaSmith kwabanye abelaphi?

“Ngingakhuthaza abelaphi ukuthi bakhumbule uhlobo lwabo lokuzinakekela. Sebenzisa ozakwenu futhi kunokuningi kokusekelwa okuku-inthanethi laphaya - sikulokhu ndawonye! Sizodlula kulokhu! ”

Umbono wakho: Kulungile ukungalungi. Okwethu sonke.

Kusukela inyuvesi yami yaqhubeka nokukhiya ngenxa yokuqubuka kwe-COVID-19, ngibe nenhlanhla yokuthi ngikwazi ukukhuluma nomeluleki wami isonto ngalinye.

Izikhathi zethu ze-teletherapy zihlukile kunama-aphoyintimenti omuntu ngezindlela eziningi. Kokunye, ngivame ukugqoka amabhulukwe e-pajama ngengubo yokulala, noma ikati, noma womabili agqitshwe ethangeni lami. Kepha umehluko ophawuleka kakhulu yindlela lezi zikhathi ze-teletherapy eziqala ngayo.

Isonto ngalinye, umeluleki wami uyangingenela - into elula “Unjani?”

Ngaphambi kwalokho, izimpendulo zami bezivame ukuthi, "ngicindezelekile mayelana nesikole," "ngicindezelwe umsebenzi," noma "ngibe nesonto elibuhlungu."

Manje, lo mbuzo unzima kakhulu ukuwuphendula.

Ngingumbhali okhubazekile kwisemester yokugcina yohlelo lwami lwe-MFA, kusasele inyanga ngibuyele ekhaya ngasenyakatho neNew York, futhi kusele izinyanga ezimbalwa (mhlawumbe, ngethemba) ukuba nomshado esasiwuhlelile nesithandwa sami okweminyaka emibili.

Angizange ngishiye ifulethi lami le-studio emasontweni. Angikwazi ukuphuma ngaphandle ngoba omakhelwane bami abafaki izifihla-buso, futhi ngokungakholakali bakhwehlela emoyeni.

Ngizibuza okuningi ngesifo sami sokuphefumula esiyinyanga yonke ngoJanuwari, ngaphambi nje kokuba i-United States ishaywe ngamacala aqinisekisiwe, nokuthi bangaki odokotela abangitshele ukuthi abakwazi ukusiza. Ukuthi kwakuyigciwane elithile ababengaliqondi. Anginankinga yokuzivikela, futhi ngisalulama.

Manje ngenza njani?

Iqiniso ukuthi ngiyesaba. Ngikhathazeke ngendlela eyisimanga. Ngicindezelekile. Lapho ngitshela umeluleki wami lokhu, unqekuzisa ikhanda, futhi ngiyazi ukuthi naye uzizwa ngendlela efanayo.

Into exakile ngokunakekela impilo yethu yengqondo ngesikhathi sobhadane lomhlaba wonke ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu okuningi kwabelwana kungazelelwe.

"Ngizithole 'ngijoyina' namakhasimende kaningi ngenxa yenqubo efanayo sonke esihamba kuyo," kusho uSmith.

Sisesimweni esifanayo ngokuya ekuphulukisweni. Ochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo, abasebenzi ababalulekile, abafundi - sonke sizama ukubhekana "nokungaqiniseki kokuthi 'okujwayelekile' kuzobukeka kanjani," kusho uJones.

Mina nomeluleki wami sihlala egameni elithi "kulungile" kakhulu. Ngiyaphila. Siyaphila. Konke kuzolunga.

Sidayisa ukubukeka ngezikrini, ukuqonda okuzolile. Ukububula.

Kepha akukho lutho ngalokhu olulungile ngempela, futhi yingakho kubalulekile kimi (kanye nakuwe, futhi) ukuqhubeka nokunakekelwa kwezempilo yengqondo yize ngazi ukuthi wonke umuntu ongizungezile unokwesaba okufanayo.

Sonke sidinga izinsiza ezifana nokwelashwa, nokuzinakekela, nokusekelwa kakhulu kunakuqala ezikhathini ezinjengalezi. Konke noma ubani wethu angakwenza ukuphatha. Konke noma ubani wethu angakwenza ukusinda.

Abelaphi bethu kanye nabasebenza ngezempilo yengqondo basebenza kanzima - yilokhu abakuqeqeshele kona, njengabanye abasebenzi abaphambili.

Ngakho-ke, ungahle ubone ukukhathala kukadokotela wakho. Ungahle uhwebe ukubukeka, ukuqonda. Ungahle ubone ukuthi nobabili nisosizini futhi niyasinda ngezindlela ezifanayo.

Kepha kholwa kumelaphi wakho futhi ulalelisise njengoba bekutshela: Kulungile ukungalungi futhi ngilapha ukuzokusiza ngakho.

U-Aryanna Falkner ngumbhali okhubazekile waseBuffalo, eNew York. Ungumfundi we-MFA oqanjiwe eB Bowling Green State University e-Ohio, lapho ahlala khona nesinqandamathe sakhe nekati labo elimnyama elintofontofo. Umbhalo wakhe uvelile noma uyeza kuBlanket Sea naseTule Review. Mthole nezithombe zekati lakhe kuTwitter.